Is stealthing morally okay?

[killer52lt]

If they take my cock in then unprotected. Then they are responsible for when they catch from me. They almost never even ask my status let alone to use a condom these days. 

[bareback-flipflop]

I think there’s a huge difference between not uncovering the status or lying about it. Although I think we are responsible for each other, we are responsible for ourselves as well. So the bottom must consider the possibility of an infection if let a top fuck unsafe breed him. Few things are sillier than asking for the top’s status after penetration. 
However lying about it or pretending to wear condoms or destroying condoms are seriously immoral. 
Moreover, in many countries it’s a crime to infect someone against his willingness.