Sucking a Straight Friend

[HWhittaker]

Has anyone done it?

In purely no-strings-attached fashion, I want to suck my friend's cock. I fantasise about it a lot, namely him fucking my throat and using it like a pussy. I'm bi, haven't told anyone (and don't plan to) and he is, as far as I know, straight. We talk about typically twenty-something-year-old-hetero-male things whenever we're around each other, but it only ever gets as far as that, and in a strictly casual manner. 

He is recently(ish) out of a longterm relationship but always talks about wanting her back for a quick fuck and/or to put his cock down her throat (I sense he's pretty into deep throat). Each time this comes up I can't help but think "Just say the words, I'll take her place" but I never say anything. 

He is really well built and has a good sized cock (apparently). I can't shake the image of him going to town on me and collapsing into my face as he unloads down the back of my throat. 

I suspect alcohol will probably play a big part in me (eventually, if ever) plucking up the courage to offer, and him accepting.  I would like to hear what others have to say - either on the situation I have described or similar scenarios you have been through. 

Thanks for reading

Also, as this is my first post - hi  

 

[raunchycumslut]

There's a lot of info/details that would be useful before giving advice. Has he ever shown indications of being flexible in his sexuality? Are you guys comfortable touching each other (hugs, wrestling, sit closer on the couch than most straight men would be comfortable with, etc)? Have you guys ever been naked around each other (even in a locker room)? Ever brought up sex with him, like discussing having a threesome with a girl or watch porn together? Is he cool with gay/bi men or does he act homophobic?

Before you consider pursuing this, you need to consider a few things. Are you okay with potentially losing him as a friend (even if he's cool with gay men, he may not be cool with a close friend being into guys; and gay/bi thing aside, people sometimes get upset when a friend shows interest in them)? Are you wiling to accept the risk of him telling people or other people finding out you are bi? Things could go the other way too; what if he says he's interested in you as well, but wants more than just casual sex? Sometimes it is better to leave things as a fantasy. I'm not saying not to go for it, but I am saying you need to consider how things might play out before taking that step.

Having a beer or two to loosen up and feel braver AFTER you've thought things over is okay. Just don't let yourself get drunk and then make a move, that's a recipe for shit to go south really fast. Likewise, do NOT pursue your friend when he's drunk, it's the same thing as a straight dude getting a chick drunk so he can fuck her; don't be that guy.

[atllkg]

10 years in the Army taught me a few things about going down on the straight guys. Whatever you do, don't start talking specifically to them about you sucking his cock. If a guy gets into a discussion about him actually even receiving that can start raising  the queer feeling and he will bolt. Most effective situation for me was watching some porn and magazines. I'd get hard, walk around with a bulge; it's all kind of normal and expected. If the situation is right, this is usually after a few times with a guy(s), I'd reach in my pants and start rubbing my cock. Then I ask if it's cool if I just jerk one out. If the guy(s) have a few drinks in them, they usually say NP.  When things get to the circle jerk phase, I bring up a conversation about one time this guy tried to suck my cock in a men's room.........from there I see how the conversation progresses.  Worked pretty well for 10 years in the Army. Once you get one, they do tend to come back.  Just never use words or allude to what's going on. 

Now a days, my regular cocks are all married straight guys that I strike up a conversation with at local bar. I live in a tourist area and these married guys do let their guard down. Just like on cruises.  I find it easier to do when their wife heads to the restroom. I just mention that he must be looking forward to fucking her that night and usually they come back with she's not in the mood etc.  I'll look around the bar and see two guys. I'll mention to the married guy that those two guys don't have to worry about a woman's mood. Mention that gay guys have it so easy and don't have mood swings to deal with. How he responds about two guys together, gives a good indication of what's possible. Just last Friday used this formula and ended up blowin the guy in the men's room. Now each day he's texting for a quick release.

[HWhittaker]

On 10/22/2018 at 7:03 AM, raunchycumslut said:

There's a lot of info/details that would be useful before giving advice. Has he ever shown indications of being flexible in his sexuality? Are you guys comfortable touching each other (hugs, wrestling, sit closer on the couch than most straight men would be comfortable with, etc)? Have you guys ever been naked around each other (even in a locker room)? Ever brought up sex with him, like discussing having a threesome with a girl or watch porn together? Is he cool with gay/bi men or does he act homophobic?

Before you consider pursuing this, you need to consider a few things. Are you okay with potentially losing him as a friend (even if he's cool with gay men, he may not be cool with a close friend being into guys; and gay/bi thing aside, people sometimes get upset when a friend shows interest in them)? Are you wiling to accept the risk of him telling people or other people finding out you are bi? Things could go the other way too; what if he says he's interested in you as well, but wants more than just casual sex? Sometimes it is better to leave things as a fantasy. I'm not saying not to go for it, but I am saying you need to consider how things might play out before taking that step.

Having a beer or two to loosen up and feel braver AFTER you've thought things over is okay. Just don't let yourself get drunk and then make a move, that's a recipe for shit to go south really fast. Likewise, do NOT pursue your friend when he's drunk, it's the same thing as a straight dude getting a chick drunk so he can fuck her; don't be that guy.

Thanks for the response. 

He has never shown any indicators of being anything but a straight arrow, but has also never displayed any homophobic tendencies (I'm not trying to relate these two things, just stating them as fact). We are pretty comfortable around each other, and I would say he is more comfortable and outgoing than me. We've been naked in locker rooms together but nothing has ever happened, we just change and leave quickly. We talk about porn and masturbating etc. He definitely brings these things up in conversation more than me. 

I fully understand the negative impact this could have on us, and probably should keep this exactly where it is: in my mind. But it is difficult to shake. 

 

[raunchycumslut]

The only thing I could think of that doesn't put your friendship at risk, would be to have another guy flirt with him and see how he reacts. If he reacts badly about it, you're probably dead in the water (though still a chance it was just him not liking that guy). If he says no but doesn't react badly, there's still a chance. If he goes for it or responds positively, your odds are good, but there's always a chance that even if he's secretly gay/bi, he won't be into you for whatever reason.

[punaman]

back in high school I had a crush on my straight best friend. I wasn't out then and everyone thought I was gay. One night we stole some vodka from my parents liquor cabinet and got drunk. All of a sudden he said, I want you to fuck me, I'm horny as hell and need a dick up my ass. Holy Shit!  My dream come true, so I fucked him and he took it like he had taken a lot of cocks in his life. Later we talked, his older brother had been fucking him for years and loved to get fucked but insisted he wasn't gay. He let me blow him several times, but never fucked him again. He moved away and we lost touch. Reconnected 30 years later on Facebook. I private messaged him, "remember that time I fucked you?" He said, "yeah, that was hot" Someday would love to see him again. This time he can fuck me.

[Phallarchist]

In this day and age, I would just be honest. Tell him that

1. You’re bisexual. You love pussy and fucking and coming in girls, but you love dicks, too.

2. In a purely sexual way, with no feelings besides lust at issue, you want to give him deep throat oral service. He can watch normal porn while you work or close his eyes and think about the last bitch he throatfucked.

3. You are not in love with him. It’s just a sex thing.

4. It would be totally private.

5. There is no pressure. You will be fine and never ask again if he says no. You just asked on the chance that he might say yes.

Everyone knows what queers are up to these days. He’s probably seen a fag video or two, if only by accident. It can’t be a totally alien concept to him.

[SmartAss2]

I gave a hot red headed bi guy a massage, ended up giving him a hard on and sucking his nutts dry.  He had a massive thick load.  He told me that he made 6 kids so far. He says he doesn't pull out soon enough.  His last pregnant girl locked on his cock and he couldn't get out.  

[PhoenixGeoff]

2 hours ago, SmartAss2 said:

I gave a hot red headed bi guy a massage, ended up giving him a hard on and sucking his nutts dry.  He had a massive thick load.  He told me that he made 6 kids so far. He says he doesn't pull out soon enough.  His last pregnant girl locked on his cock and he couldn't get out.  

That boy needs to start fucking guys for recreational sex.

[GazSux]

Years ago I was part of a touring theatre company. Me and this other actor would be the ones that turned up in the town the night before opening in order to have everything ready for the rest of the company. We would generally stay in a pub or cheap hotel over night. He was straight while I'm a cock loving straight in that guys don't interest me romantically but I do love cocks.

Anyway one night we were in this pub, having finished our jobs and were drinking steadily. By the time we retired to the room we were pretty happy. Normally we'd be in a twin room but for some reason the room had a double bed instead. It didn't bother either of us so we stripped down to our underwear and got into bed.

I couldn't help but notice he was hard. I asked him about it saying how too much beer had the opposite effect on me.  He laughed and pulled it out to show me the effect that beer had on him. I took hold and gave him a few pumps. He was very hard! I asked him what he was going to do about it. He shrugged and said he might go and jack off. I still had a hold of it and was still stroking him. I suggested I could just keep doing that. He just moaned and closed his eyes.

After a while I did the natural thing and lowered my mouth over his cock and slowly but surely brought him to an orgasm. It was fantastic. He made me promise not to tell anyone. As if, I said!

After that we would do the same in every town we toured to. Sometimes I really miss those days.

[Guest ScottSwallows]

My friend is straight and I suck him all the time.

[Guest MrReese]

I used to suck my friends cock when we had threesomes with his wife then one day I just asked him if I could suck his cock and he said yes. Happy sucking ever after!

[Guest MrBob]

I was 20 when I sucked my first straight friend. It happened on a bet. Derrall and I were drinking and playing space invaders. He said I bet I will beet you this time Bob. I said what you want to bet. A blow job. Said this as a joke. His wife Gale who I had dated and fucked before they married said this I have to see. He said sure why not. SO we played and I lost. I said ok Derrall get your cock out so I can suck it. He said your kidding. His wife said no I heard the bet. I bet Bob would want you to suck his cock if he had won. And besides I want to see this. After a little pushing He dropped his pants and I started to rub his cock. A nice 7 incher with a beautiful pink head. I dropped down to my knees and took it in my mouth and sucked a huge load out of him. Delicious cock precum and cum. After that I got to suck his cock a couple times a week. Even had threesome with is wife and butt fucked her while she sucked his cock. She loved to watch when him and I would play 69.

[VersAlwaysLooking]

Never done this and I don't think I'd ever initiate if I valued the friendship.  I do have one friend who jokes about it with me (in group setting) but he's never acted on it or brought it up 1-on-1.  Similarly, I have a straight friend who has an absolutely giant cock.   No matter what clothing he's wearing it visible and he seems to be completely unaware.   My goal is to just see the thing!

[SissySwallows]

My neighbor is straight and I grew up with him laying me on my stomach and fucking me. I was 9 he was 12, I was wearing short shorts and teased him which lead to him stealing my virginity lol. When I was 15 started doing NSA with older grizzlies and bears that I met off of Craigslist, I had a few regulars tell me to meet them somewhere and majority of  them were straight. Straight masc tops were my favorite when good quality cock was plentiful