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It isn't ways easy to meet  guys for man sex. However  I take the opportunities whenever I can. My wife goes to visit her mum (20 miles away) at least once a week  and as she travels  by bus she will always call me when she leaves so I can pick her up from  the bus stop. This gives me at least an hour to get to the bus stop near home.

 

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18 hours ago, dad2bttm5 said:

I had like only 1 or 2 man sex encounters per 4 to 6 years up till a year ago, then I reconnected last year with a guy who would only top me safe back in 2011.  I found out he was poz undetectable in 2017 summer – met him twice then but chickened out to take his load in the summer as I did not understand fully the U=U thing. I finally took the plunge in December of 2017 and took his load, and had more man sex in 2018 than the previous 20 years combined. He is very careful, and we are pretty much exclusive for bare sex, except for one other bottom “boy friend”. I shut it down this summer, as I had issues with guilt / wife. But the craving is still there for him and his cock. It has always been anon. I texed him tonight. I am thinking it’s about time to take some more loads. What’s the vote? Should I start up with him again?

I can tell you from experience, you might as well hook up again.  When I was married I would try to swear off cock but the urges would always come back and eventually I realized I just needed to give in.  Back then I still loved pussy and I can remember at least once coming home from the adult theater horny, fucking my wife, and realizing some stranger's load was running down my crack and balls and even dripping on her.  

I'm not in a sexual relationship with a woman now, and frankly, I'm getting to where I crave cock a lot more than pussy.  Sometimes I wonder if I could still get hard for pussy, but I seem to when I watch straight porn.  But then again, maybe I'm focusing on how his cock is wearing that cunt out.  

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I'm still married but still see guys. There's a few on regular rotation that I see. I generally see them when I'm going to the store since one is right near me, another is right near my job and the third is kinda between the two.

I also hit up the video store where I occasionally hook up with this guy that likes to be blown in the backseat of a car. Then there's my hooky days. I scheduled a day off from work but don't tell the missus and spend the day at the adult theatre. My work goes in rotations so I could work closer to home and other times in Manhattan so that also helps with play time

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My wife does know I'm bi.  She & I don't have sex these days - she pretty much lost interest in sex after the menopause, so we haven't  had sex for over 2 years.  I only have sex with men these days &  that's the way its likely to be from now on.  She doesn't know I am getting fucked these days but she does know I've been fucked by men in the past.  Occasionally I travel for work or she might go out with friends for the day & that's usually when I get fucked - usually in a sauna.  Sometimes if I am feeling horny I might play with a guy in a public toilet near where I work.   I don't miss sex with a woman, men can give me all I need sex wise & these days I find getting fucked by a man is far hotter than having sex with a woman.

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Currently, I have been seperated for 3 years, yet when the Marriage was on the rocks, I started going to bath houses, and meeting other men online.  My wife and I seperated for other reasons, than my Bisexual lifestye. 

I have always felt that my wife sort of knows, and accepts it, its always felt like this unspoken Symbiotic understanding; I have a sexual release without having affairs. I believe, from her viewpoint, she sees it as an outlet like Masturbation. I told her before we got married, that I had an interesting friendship with a High School friend, and experimented with other men sexually, in College. My wife admitted that she also had experimented sexually, with one of her Soriety Sisters, which I thought was hot. 

What I feel is one of her negative personality traits, is that she is all into her image, and I play off of that. 

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On 10/23/2018 at 3:37 AM, us3myass said:

Unfortunately I have to limit playing for when I travel for work or when she travels for work. I’ve tried to find a regular guy or group of guys that I could be more friends with so I would have an excuse of meeting up with the guys for a beer or watching a football game but so far I’ve been unsuccessful. The ideal situation would be that my wife actually meets them so she isn’t suspicious. It would also keep me getting used because I wouldn’t want them to tell my wife. It would be kind of mutual but they would untimately control my ass. 

Looking for that same thing. For me, I want the intimacy closeness and bonding with a bottom that in secret belongs to me. 

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First wife thought i was fucking women while she was doing her coworkers.  Husband of one of my coworkers (who loved to suck cock, lunch time BJs) would have been a great fit except he could or would not have kept his mouth shut.  That is a nice situation but fraught with danger.

Second wife liked to watch, nastier the better. 

Something about her not knowing and fucking her (1st wife) with cum leaking from my ass, liked how nasty it felt. 

 

 

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8 hours ago, StlBottom said:

First wife thought i was fucking women while she was doing her coworkers.  Husband of one of my coworkers (who loved to suck cock, lunch time BJs) would have been a great fit except he could or would not have kept his mouth shut.  That is a nice situation but fraught with danger.

Second wife liked to watch, nastier the better. 

Something about her not knowing and fucking her (1st wife) with cum leaking from my ass, liked how nasty it felt. 

 

 

Sounds like fun times. ❤️

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My wife is a strong dominant BBW, so she’s always dominated me. She does what she wants. 

When it was time to start dressing me up, first as her perfect little sissy, that’s what she did. She likes to lean towards a maid look, to put me to work in the house.

Soon after she cut off all sex with me in favor of beginning to take the BBCs she’s always wanted. I was very supportive of her getting what she needed (not that it would have mattered). At first, she would let me watch her with her new black BFs provided I was fully dressed. 

It has been a long time since I have been allowed to see what she is doing, and I know nothing when she goes out to meet her BBC lovers.

Shes been pregnant 3x already; during which I take care of everything and perform my duties while she decides what to do with them.

About a year ago, she had a beautiful little half-black daughter. I felt compelled to get my boobs lactating you be able to feed her for my wife, so that’s what I did. 

Early on, she let me suck off a few of her BBC boyfriends; she watched one fuck me and dump inside me. 

Soon after I began my real life of cruising. She pushed me to do this and made me promise to take all of them bare like she does. Of course I had no intention of refusing.

And here we are today - I’m getting ready for an early morning homeless cruise, and I can hear her getting it good upstairs. 

- Di ❤️

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1 hour ago, DianaTSSlut said:

My wife is a strong dominant BBW, so she’s always dominated me. She does what she wants. 

When it was time to start dressing me up, first as her perfect little sissy, that’s what she did. She likes to lean towards a maid look, to put me to work in the house.

Soon after she cut off all sex with me in favor of beginning to take the BBCs she’s always wanted. I was very supportive of her getting what she needed (not that it would have mattered). At first, she would let me watch her with her new black BFs provided I was fully dressed. 

It has been a long time since I have been allowed to see what she is doing, and I know nothing when she goes out to meet her BBC lovers.

Shes been pregnant 3x already; during which I take care of everything and perform my duties while she decides what to do with them.

About a year ago, she had a beautiful little half-black daughter. I felt compelled to get my boobs lactating you be able to feed her for my wife, so that’s what I did. 

Early on, she let me suck off a few of her BBC boyfriends; she watched one fuck me and dump inside me. 

Soon after I began my real life of cruising. She pushed me to do this and made me promise to take all of them bare like she does. Of course I had no intention of refusing.

And here we are today - I’m getting ready for an early morning homeless cruise, and I can hear her getting it good upstairs. 

- Di ❤️

That's hot!

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Rumors have floated around about me dressing but there’s never been a rumor about my bisexuality. From the time I met my wife when she was 15 even through now she’s always Leary when I shave my body and such but we’ve never really had the confrontation. Deep down I know it freaks her out. Here’s the kicker. She has a guy best friend who is very open about his sexual preferences. He’s as open as they come. Playing and dressing for me has never been easy but in the past three years I just made time to have the fun I wanted. Over 500 men later I have chilled to just make sure I wasn’t getting careless.  But still play on occasion.  Soon I hope to be back to dressing and pleasing much much more.  

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On 10/22/2018 at 8:41 AM, Anonversecuck said:

Assuming you're not out to your wife and have to be on the dl about it. How do you find the time? Does she not get suspicious of your activities? 

This question is like it was made for me. 
I’ve been married and dl for well over 30 years and my wife has no clue. 
I find time on weekends and now and then a week night to get away to get fucked. It hasn’t been that difficult juggling both lifestyles. 

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2 hours ago, Bimarried001 said:

This question is like it was made for me. 
I’ve been married and dl for well over 30 years and my wife has no clue. 
I find time on weekends and now and then a week night to get away to get fucked. It hasn’t been that difficult juggling both lifestyles. 

Clueless wives…a benefit to all men like us. 

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5 hours ago, Bimarried001 said:

So true. She’s so jealous of other women while letting men fuck me under her nose. 

Focus on the women but know clue we are breeding with men, and in my case, sissies. 

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