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analluv27

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  1. Definitely late to this but had my first time last year. Just finished a suck and fuck session with my fuckbuddy and they called me into the bathroom, I was totally unaware of what they had in mind at the time. They told me to get in their bathtub on my knees, and I obediently did so. They turned to me with their dick in hand and started to piss on me. I opened my mouth to take as much as I could swallowed and repeated until they finished pissing. I went home happy. sadly there hasn’t been a second time but I’m hopeful
  2. NYC is in the same boat used to have four major bathhouses and slowly whittled down to one. And adult theaters? All but one left, even the video shops seem to be dwindling
  3. The problem is that life doesn’t work on absolutes, there’s so much nuance. if Joe Blow is stepping out on the side to fuck or get fucked though they have a wife and children. Should his spot be blown up? Some would argue yes because their cheating, but what if in spite of popular thinking they they cannot just come out and be open? The fear of losing family and some friends is a real possibility in some cases. Now one would argue if they don’t accept them, then they don’t need them out they were never their friends in the first place. But does should decide this? Now if Joe is engaging in multiple unsafe behaviors it will effect him and those around him. But as a society we do not out people addiction problems unless they broke the law. Now if Joe Blow is a congressman or senator that wants to introduce legislation that is harmful to the LGBTQ+ community , he’s a hypocrite and exposed it may or may not stop said legislation but then we’re talking more self hate or the desperation of being accepted.
  4. It’s a mindset, open to interpretation. For some just thinking of sex is sluttish behavior which will lead to one rutting like animals. Or the aforementioned having multiple partners.
  5. I’m not gonna lie, I do enjoy me some poppers depending on the brand. I find them helpful especially since I don’t fuck a lot they help me get through that initial discomfort phase. I’ve been fucked on a few occasions without them and it was awesome but that’s more of testament to those few tops. i also agree that you should never allow yourself to be forced or feel pressured to do or take something you don’t want. The guy that canceled he’s an asshole and you was lucky enough to dodge probably a really bad hook up
  6. In that regard I’m not picky, now if it’sa guy that’s take charge who’s body is thick to extra chubby then I get weak in the knees
  7. Almost the same for me as well. I sucked off a good friend for a couple of years before I’ve ever been with a girl. I definitely would be sucking more cock and getting fucked more if I wasn’t married. C’est la vie
  8. For me right around puberty came across my brother’s porn tape Viva Vanessa starring Vanessa Del Rio. In particular the scene where Vanessa hooks up with Angelique Ricard unbeknownst to her is Trans. That’s when I started coming to the realization that I’m bisexual though I didn’t have a word for it . Two maybe three years later I’m sucking my first dick and haven’t looked back
  9. I generally respond by stating “My preference is bb but if you’d feel more comfortable covered I’m ok with it” six outta ten times they’ll start off covered but quickly ditch it. Now to the “clean” nonsense if asked about my HIV status I’ll be upfront that I’m positive undetectable but come at with that are you clean shit. Yeah I’m clean I bathe and and douche my ass so yeah I’m clean
  10. I support teaching critical race theory as well, it presents a different perspective on the lives of people. How certain ideas are ingrained into laws and the very foundations of American society. It’s not gospel nor is it meant to shame anyone, it’s to present a problem that should be addressed and not swept under a rug. It can be taught just like how the earth is round and people are allowed to disagree or ignore it much like the flat earthers do. I also don’t agree with the recent censorship of Ian Flemming’s James Bond novels. Yes older novels have problematic themes and language but you don’t cleanse just because it makes you uncomfortable, learn from people’s ignorance and learn to be better
  11. Another one is the Kew Motor Inn right on Union Turnpike near the Grand Central. My Trans fuck buddy used to take me there and fuck me, send me home with ass full of cum…. Good times
  12. You have to weigh the cost. The cost of what you can potentially get by giving in to your desires both negative and positive and the cost if your spouse would discover of your dalliances. I’m not gonna judge you on whatever you choose just be aware of the possible consequences. Catching a STI, possibly passing one over to your spouse. Divorce or an ugly protracted divorce, guilt and or nothing but orgasms of various intensities Are you a good liar? Because if you choose your desire and do it behind your spouse’s back you best be a damn good liar. Can you deal with lying to your spouse. Honestly I should’ve started by “ask yourself do you love your spouse and how much?” If you answer no or very little go for a divorce and or separation. When you cheat on someone you care about you’re being selfish (I’ve done it and it took awhile for me to realize my own selfishness and how I rationalized my behavior) don’t go do something that can totally upend your life with rosé tinted glasses on
  13. With oral sex chances of catching HIV is extremely low but there’s always a chance , a perfect storm of getting blown by someone who’s positive unbeknownst to them with a high viral load happens to have cut or open sore in the mouth breaks the skin on your dick while sucking you. Could possibly lead to you getting infected
  14. Honestly I call my ass well ass. If the guy who’s topping me wants to call my ass a pussy, bussy, man-pussy and or cunt go right ahead what ever floats his boat. He wants to get off and if that’s the only way psychologically I’m not gonna bitch about it. In the end he gets to nut and I receive said nut everyone wins
  15. Hey hi where in Long Island are you I'm in Queens but near the Long Island and Queens border. I can't host though.
  16. It's because the police know that some of the cruisers have lives that could seriously be impacted by being arrested for "loitering" as opposed to someone who's homeless. Plus majority of cruisers are working and they can fine them for "loitering"
  17. This is by far the description of some of the dynamics in infidelity. Emotionally we like to think it's rather cut and dry, but in cases of a couple having children it can complicate things. Sometimes even if one isn't happy they may recognize in separating it could do more harm. For example a person does cheat realize they could just call the marriage off (which most would say is the proper thing to do) but their spouse isn't working and has something like cancer. Once a divorce is finalized that former spouse loses medical coverage. Now unless the person hated their spouse there's no real happy ending
  18. I totally agree with the quoted post, concerning labels. Labels are good and bad I personally don’t accept them, first and foremost I’m me and I will like a lot of different things and some may contradict each other but fuck it right? Now you should know your wife, do you think she’d be interested in you being with another man? Even if she says yes partially prepare yourself for possible fallout. For some there down until it actually happens and insecurities they weren’t aware could bubble to the surface. Not saying it will happen but it could and that could potentially wreck your relationship as surely as if you cheated ( which I don’t advocate). Now there’s the possibility that this could really enrich your live life. Also if she agrees go get on Prep that way your bases are covered. Wish you the best of luck
  19. He was South Asian. The store used to be on 14th street between 7th and 8th Ave it's been gone for some time
  20. I don't believe you're a hypocrite. I believe you're attracted to the lure of [banned word]. The same thing that draws some you cheat or do something that's considered outside their norm. I'm poz undetectable not that I was chasing more fucked around and wasn't as cautious. But I get turned on by PnP stories though I'd never try it (addiction tends to run strong in my family) A healthy dose of fantasy is ok and healthy. If you can find a partner that's willing to indulge you in poz talk during sex may heighten the fantasy. Most importantly recognize how one's fantasies are effecting one self. Say you can only get off unless you get poz talk would be a problem. Though I don't think that's would be a problem for you. And most importantly enjoy yourself without over indulging
  21. What garsento said pretty much covered what happened with me. I started sucking dick in my late teens and didn't start getting fucked until my early to mid twenties. Mind you growing up during the height of the Aids epidemic I always fucked covered until one time horned up by poppers and ready to fuck but the guy didn't have a rubber and told him just fuck me. Now even after that I mostly fucked covered. Jump some years later I get my diagnosis that I'm poz. I withdrew from a lot of people thinking my life is over and that I'm unclean and a load of bullshit. Now I rather enjoy fucking and I leave the choice of raw or covered up to the guy though my preference is raw. I find the experience kinda not quite liberating (truth be told I rather wish I could've avoided it but I knew the risk) but more of "that's one less thing to worry about". I wouldn't say I'm a slut but I do enjoy sex and I'm less finicky than before.Now I'm not advocating that one should go get pozzed that is a personal decision but get on PREP which wasn't available at the time for me and you can still have that feeling without the drama that comes with being poz
  22. I just read an UK article stating that if the mother is undetectable and adheres to it should be encouraged to breast feed here’s a link for those who are interested. of course be wary of opening unknown links [think before following links] https://www.aidsmap.com/news/apr-2019/breastfeeding-undetectable-viral-load-some-insights-current-uk-situation
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