Tips for Tops

[PhoenixGeoff]

We see a lot of guys here talking about how to be a good bottom.  I thought I'd solicit a few opinions from guys who like to top about things you do to be a better fuck. 

Could be anything from fucking techniques bottoms really like to how you present yourself to lifestyle decisions you make to be a better fucker.  Any tricks you have up your sleeve to get your dick wet and plant your seed in the bottom of your choice.  Any ways you know to get that bottom whore's eyes rolling back in his head and begging you for more.

Mostly looking for input from guys who like to top here, though of course suggestions from bottoms about what a special top has done to them that really stood out is welcome too.

What should the top fuckers be doing that we're not doing right now?

Mostly thinking about fucking, btw, but really anything you want to talk about, from receiving head to any kind of kink is fine too.

[PhoenixTriad]

I'm not a kid anymore, so I don't just bone up when the wind blows.  I need to avoid alcohol to get and keep a good bone, and the lil blue pill helps too!

[PhoenixGeoff]

I will start out with one thing in particular that made a huge difference in my life as a top:

Exercise, bitch!

Seriously, nothing makes me more of a top than when I'm in my groove exercising.  And I've found I need a good mix of exercise to be at the top of my game.

Ever find you're fucking some hot hole and then all of a sudden your energy level drops to nothing?  You need more endurance training, specifically cardio.  A good level to shoot for is being able to run or jog (not walk) a 5k.  Endurance cardio will turn you into the Energizer bunny.  Great for your mood too.

Ever find your bottom trying a stifle a yawn as you're plowing him?  You need more weight training.  Building some muscle, especially core and glutes, will have you slamming your dick into that hole in a way that will absolutely focus any bottom's attention.  Bonus:  weight training boosts testosterone levels in your body which makes you hornier, gives you better hardons, and bigger loads.  Also great for your mood too.

Plus exercise will give you confidence and have you walking taller.  Gives you a more masculine energy.  That instantly makes you more attractive.  And your sex will go from "Lay back and think of England" to "Swinging from the chandeliers."

Seriously:  I'm not a big fan of going to the gym to cruise or to get a body that will land me in porn (though if that's your goal, that's great).  I work out for me, partly because I like to be healthy, but mostly because I love how it makes me feel.  And I love the results in bed.

[PhoenixGeoff]

8 minutes ago, PhoenixTriad said:

I'm not a kid anymore, so I don't just bone up when the wind blows.  I need to avoid alcohol to get and keep a good bone, and the lil blue pill helps too!

Yeah I also find I have to stay away from alcohol and other drugs if I want to top.  It's not unusual for me to just drink water at the bar when I go out these days, though I do like to tie one on every once in a while.

[evilqueerpig]

Being vers, I find the best fucking is when top and bottom are on the same wavelength.