The "Dawson" Fantasy

[LetsPOZBreed]

I've alluded to this in some of my previous posts.  Figured I'd explain exactly what I mean when I say it (though it's obvious to us long-time barebackers) and then ask you hot fuckers your experience with it.

Dawson is a guy that starred in quite a few TIM videos going some time back.  The first one that I remember was "Dawsons 20 Load Weekend."  This is the first porn flick that I watched where one bottom guy was unabashedly taking that much cock and cum.  I was super turned on by it and wondered what it would be like to be on the receiving end of it.  Not too long after, TIM followed this up with "Dawsons 50 Load Weekend."  Around this time, I started to notice in bareback circles that bottom boys were hankering for their chance.  The number of guys posting/asking for groups where they were the ONLY bottom for a group of guys this large was increasing by the day.  I still see Connect Now ads and party listings on bbrt where bottoms of all shapes/sizes/colours are anxiously wanting their turn.

In reality, though, I think some of us bottoms come to the rude awakening that is the logistics of making something like this happen.  We don't necessarily have the backing of TIM behind us to cull together dependable guys to turn up locked and loaded.  Also, put too many horny men in the same room, and inevitably the waiting guys will pair off to occupy themselves.  

To the bottoms out there:  have you actually played this fantasy out successfully?  How easy/difficult was it to put this together?  How many loads did you eventually wind up with?

[MuscledHorse]

I have lived out this fantasy without really having to put it together like in the films since I am not filming it (though I would do a high use gang fuking like that ANY day for filming). Easiest way to do it is to hit a sex resort on an event weekend (like CCBC during Palm Springs Leather Pride or Regular Pride or attend events like Pig Week where the sex only stops when you have had enough. In  the multi-hour sex events it had everyday I easily racked up a huge partner counts, ending my 10 days there in 2018 with over 200 total sex partners that played inside my ass. The reality is though you have to have solid sex use endurance to just lay back, spread your legs and let guys play inside you with their cocks and hands til they are done using you and enjoy the high of all those partners and the feel of your sloppy trashed hole by the end.

[LetsPOZBreed]

@MuscledHorse you're right in that it's better during sex resort/fetish events.  My Berlin trips for Folsom were jam packed (literally and figuratively).

I just wonder about bottoms experiences outside of this context.  I keep seeing on bbrt these bottoms looking for load after load, and I know on bbrt that the high flakeyness makes racking up the numbers next to impossible.

[ErosWired]

ErosWired’s 34-Load weekend wasn’t planned, nor was it at a major event. It was at a gay campground, but tallies like that are the exception there rather than the rule. For me, the stars just aligned to make me the centerpiece of two separate gangbangs in the space of about 12 hours. So I count myself fortunate to have had the Dawson experience.

That being said, I was also fucked 24 times at my first CumUnion in Indianapolis and I didn’t really think of it as a Dawson experience at all - I only thought about the satisfaction that so many Tops were served. The difference is that the first experience happened before I was trained, and the second happened afterward. A bottom who actively seeks a Dawson experience is seeking it for his own gratification, it seems to me... or worse yet, for bragging rights.

I think @LetsPOZBreed is right, that bottoms trying to accomplish this through apps over the Internet are very likely to be frustrated. But more than that, I can say from experience that for many (if not most) bottoms, even if they did succeed it would be a case of being careful what you wish for. Twenty fucks is a lot of use if you’re not accustomed to taking cock in volume, and not every ass can handle it. 

I’m very grateful to every Top who pushed me a little harder, stretched me a little wider, pounded me a little rougher, or even gave me a painful fuck, because they gave me the endurance to serve the way I do now. I no longer count success in loads taken, but in Tops satisfied. I think if more bottoms shared that focus - and every committed service bottom should - they would have a lot less frustration.

[blackbbutt]

Place and people make a big difference. Getting gangbanged in a "organized" ganbang makes me want to perform for the crowd and get them even hotter. The tops  want to show off a bit more too.

Taking anonymous loads in a darkroom/bathhouse/sauna/cruising spot is a totally different  vibe. These tops just want to dump a load, They usually don't fuck nearly as long in my experience. Seem to run into more f these tops who want to treat me like a trash fuck, not that I mind.

[hungry_hole]

A bottom who is young (20's and 30's) and really hot, like Dawson, will be more successful in organizing a gangbang or whatever event he wants.

I find that nowadays with PrEP and ART the amount of bottoms willing to be cumholes has increased and the competition if fierce, so trying to arrange gangbangs is even tough for hot young bottoms.

 

[LetsPOZBreed]

I agree with everyone that's posted (thanks for all of that gents).  I think it's primarily location, and then competition.  Even on my last Berlin trip 2 years ago; I had more men in a weekend than ever before, but I find I had to work much harder (thank goodness for the slimmer body!).  As I get older and now approach 40, I find the competition more off-putting than before.  There's always been that competitiveness even back in my 20s, but PrEP has magnified that exponentially.  I remember creating my bbrt profile the first time when I was living in Dallas, and I was literally one of 3 guys on.  Last time I was in Dallas about 18 months ago, you easily had 5 or 6 pages of guys during normal hours.

[shootmyhole425]

Have had 25 loads up my guts in one night. Thank you smooth small bottomness

[pasv35]

On 5/30/2019 at 3:48 AM, ErosWired said:

ErosWired’s 34-Load weekend wasn’t planned, nor was it at a major event. It was at a gay campground, but tallies like that are the exception there rather than the rule. For me, the stars just aligned to make me the centerpiece of two separate gangbangs in the space of about 12 hours. So I count myself fortunate to have had the Dawson experience.

That being said, I was also fucked 24 times at my first CumUnion in Indianapolis and I didn’t really think of it as a Dawson experience at all - I only thought about the satisfaction that so many Tops were served. The difference is that the first experience happened before I was trained, and the second happened afterward. A bottom who actively seeks a Dawson experience is seeking it for his own gratification, it seems to me... or worse yet, for bragging rights.

I think @LetsPOZBreed is right, that bottoms trying to accomplish this through apps over the Internet are very likely to be frustrated. But more than that, I can say from experience that for many (if not most) bottoms, even if they did succeed it would be a case of being careful what you wish for. Twenty fucks is a lot of use if you’re not accustomed to taking cock in volume, and not every ass can handle it. 

I’m very grateful to every Top who pushed me a little harder, stretched me a little wider, pounded me a little rougher, or even gave me a painful fuck, because they gave me the endurance to serve the way I do now. I no longer count success in loads taken, but in Tops satisfied. I think if more bottoms shared that focus - and every committed service bottom should - they would have a lot less frustration.

I totally agree with you, we are here to serve tops not for get satisfaction. Our only Goal must be satisfy as much tops as  posible.

[Guest faggot hole]

i have had several "Dawson" weekends, most arranged by my father, who likes to get together with a bunch of his friends and insure that i am keeping my skill set up.  i have written about these events here in BZ, and they can be accessed through my profile.  my dad has arranged weekends where i took 75 loads or more in virtually nonstop fucking.  But, i am proud to say that i frequently enjoy the Dawson experience on my own.  Nothing arranged; things just happen.  i'll be at a party, and my date will suddenly fuck me in front of other guests.  That generally starts things going and sometimes before the evening ends i will have taken a couple dozen loads.  Or i am being fucked somewhere in a public space (condo balcony, poolside) and spectators join in.  Or i'll be fucked by a dude and when he's unloaded, he picks up his cell and calls a buddy, who calls a buddy etc, etc, and before i know it, i'm in for a long night of taking loads.  Then, of course, there are weekends of non-stop sex at CCBC or other Palm Springs resorts, but that's easy stuff -- no real challenge.  my proudest moment perhaps was a night when i totally passed out from the fucking and yet the guys were continuing to fuck me, and i was told that my ass muscles continued involuntarily to milk the loads out of them -- testament, i suppose, to my skill and the effectiveness of my training.

[Sfmike64]

Your daddy should be very proud of you, Faggot.