Only like straight guys...

[hornybrownbottom]

The Kinsey scale was a godsend in helping me understand this conundrum of all these straight men who had been fucking me for years. 🙂

[RobDog]

I don't agree with labels  we all tend to generalise far to much,Stait, bi,gay 

It must be remembered that sexuality is a long  spectrum which one can move up and down fluidly 

[Pnpguyny]

I truly believe there are guys who are basically straight but want sex bad enough and some are sex addicts. In the druggie world they dont worry about the labels as much. My best friend is gorgeous and gets pussy without even trying but when we shoot dope hes always asking me to suck on it. It took awhile but he finally started letting me eat his ass, he used to say it was queer stuff. I can't tell you all the older guys I've played with who tell me "I have a boy at home your age" but thats a whole other topic. Plus the young kids coming out now dont seem as hung up on the labels.

[Pozlover1]

On 9/2/2019 at 5:55 PM, RobDog said:

I don't agree with labels  we all tend to generalise far to much,Stait, bi,gay 

It must be remembered that sexuality is a long  spectrum which one can move up and down fluidly 

I totally agree. I have been out at work as gay simply because it’s simpler for most people to understand. I walk in Pride parades to promote Liberty and Equality for everyone. 

Equality does not mean “special status”. It means the exact same opportunity as everyone else to make our way the best we know how. Liberty does not mean just for us, but for businesses, schools and organizations to have standards I may not agree with. If anybody does not want me, I don’t want them. 

[gwmxyz]

I used to think I was straight.  One of only two in my (boys boarding) school in my year who didn't play with guys - the idea of it really repelled me.  Took me ages to work out (a) I did like sex and (b) wasn't straight. Another friend of mine knew he was straight but decided guys were better than nothing. 400 times he reckoned when it was guys or nothing.  None since.  

I don't really see what the the problem is here either. If that's what you like, go  for it.  I wouldn't worry too much about the theory of what they "really" are.  Just see what you like and do it.

[cumbaby]

I never understood why there is such of a straight guys fetish among gays tbh. Like they are gods or something. I bet that is bcs of unrealistic porn (like bait bus, czech hunter...) and incest fantasy vids. There is a thing with straight guys which porn doesn't tell you: They don't like sexual contact with men whatsoever. They are repulsed by it or they are not heterosexual.

So those guys who claim they are straight, but wanna fuck your ass so badly are just un-confident inexperienced bisexuals ,which often can't get laid bcs they don't know how to talk with girls. And i avoid them like a plague,bcs they really don't know what they even want. They will often flake on you ,etc. I was once talking with one "straight"guy  who said that he wants to hook up with me, if i'd shave my beard. I was like LOL man ,even my GF (I'm bsx) can't get me to shave it ,so you bet i am not shaving it for some random "straight" guy from grindr either. I am not desperate ,neither am i sex deprived at the moment so yeah i avoid guys which don't know what they want.

[bbzh]

Whenever I see a gay person lusting after straight men in this way, I think to myself, oh this is probably more about trying to attain the unattainable than anything. We're told as gays that only 5-10% of men are gay. That means that 90-95% of the men are for the most part unattainable for us. That gets some of us thinking that the grass must be greener on the other side. I guarantee you - given how picky most gay guys are - that those obsessed with straight men would still be frustrated if the world singled out millions of the most unattractive straight men and put them in the gay pool.   

So for me, this fetish some gays have for straight men is simply about being frustrated that they have an almost zero chance fucking the straight guys they find hot. This must be like being told you can only shop in the fruits and vegetable section of a supermarket but all the guys you are attracted to are in there for everything but fruits and vegetables. And if a straight men did venture over to "our" section, who's to say he would choose you?

So yeah, I get it. It's frustrating at times, but get in where you fit in. There is plenty to choose from in the gay pool. God bless.  

 

[Guest FinalDL2021]

I am as close to a straight guy as you are going to find. I am straight-acting, live a mostly straight lifestyle, yet, I occasionally play around with other men, sexually. I identify as being Bisexual. There is no confusion, it's been like this for for me, for the last 31 years. Tried it liked it, went back for more, and accepted that I was Bi.