The evolution of barebacking and cumdumps

[hungry_hole]

I started having anon sex with guys before the AIDS crisis, when nobody talked about bareback because it was just a fuck. Condoms were to prevent pregnancy. My first experiences were at the YMCA in NYC which I would visit often and have lots of sex. The place was hot because there 3 floors for men and guys would walk around all night throughout the hallways from all 3 floors. At first I didn't understand the game very well but in a couple of hours after arriving to the YMCA room I knew exactly what to do and started leaving my door open. Being young an masculine and in good shape I got lots of attention and loved getting fucked so much. I started leaving the door open while getting fucked and guys would literally line-up.  I didn't know that I was becoming a bareback cum-hungry bottom because in those days labels were not used like they are now. Not even bottom and top was that common.

A couple of years later for the first time a guy pulls out a condom and tells me that he would only fuck me with a condom. I found it ridiculous that he would be wearing a condom, unimaginable. But then I heard of AIDS and then asking for condoms started to become the norm until it became the norm. There was a time in the 80's when guys at the bathhouse would be shamed for going bareback. It was not called bareback. One evening at the local bathhouse I saw a guy who would leave the door open while getting fucked bareback. Some guys would criticize him but for me he became a huge turn-on I became an obsessed with going back to taking loads. A short time after that I began taking anon loads at the local sauna, when the drug cocktail was not yet available so not too many bottoms were offering their holes raw. But I did and I became very popular an sometimes when I got to the sauna one or two guys who had already bred me were after me. Most bottoms were requesting condoms but many guys wanted to top bareback and be able to come inside because it was assumed that the risk was rather low for guys topping. There were lots of guys wanting to top BB but not enough bottoms to fulfill the demand. On a Friday or Saturday night I would take between 5 and 15 loads a night, still when no drugs were available. Some guys after breeding my hole would ask me not to tell anyone that he had fucked me bareback. Bareback was [banned word] and scorned.

Then the Meds appeared and the Undetectable status was possible. And lately, now with PrEP bottoming BB is no longer feared so the number of bareback bottoms has exploded. In other words, lots of competition. Getting older makes things worse because now there are lots of hot young bottoms taking anon loads who are on PrEP.

Now my approach is to present myself as very slutty BB bottom and when I go to a bathhouse I use signs with phrases like "CUMHOLE" or "CREAM THIS HOLE". They work, but still lots of competition from young very hot holes.

[evilqueerpig]

I never went to  the Y, but I went to Club NYC the night of my 18th birthday.  This was back in 1977 and bareback was the norm.  Even when the 'plague' hit, I refused to use condoms and with the baths being my second home, I was known for being a strict barebacker and I paid no attention to those who would shame me, because there were plenty of men who were willing to fuck me or get fucked by me.  My motto is, "If it's not bareback, it's not fucking and it's not happening!"

 

[Ozpig]

On a personal level from my own experience it is an evolution and sometimes you even have to be led in to being what your inner slut wants to really be. I started taking my maths teacher's cock at 15 in a small country town. This went on for 2 years and I had sex with no one else but fantasized about being fucked by several guys in my school and area. When I moved to the big smoke I was a prissy little piece of shit who, even though I was picky and choosy, managed to get laid every weekend. Sure, I was slim, attractive and young at the time. I had a couple of steady boyfriends and while with them remained faithful. Then I met a man I fell in love with and we moved in together. For two years I was living in a monogamous relationship (unbeknown to me he wasn't). He spent some time talking me into a threesome situation with one of his mates. I enjoyed it, no, I loved it. It snowballed from there with him leading me every inch of the way for the next 11.5 years. He knew there was an inner cumdump waiting to be released. He knew I loved being fucked and he was the first man to fuck me bare since my maths teacher. I was always horny and trying to get that extra fuck out of him when he was rooted - so he subtly kept telling me and guiding me to where he knew I wanted to be. Gangbangs. raw vids, group sex, sex parties, darkrooms, helping him procure bottoms and him procuring nearly all my tops for me except the rare  nights he would tell me to go out and get loaded up. Then I generally just went to a sauna or darkroom and took four or five anon cocks. He had mates that were my regular tops, one even requested he send me to his place for the night as a birthday present. So for me it was an evolution and now I am just addicted to being fucked and bred.

[bbinbpark]

My sex life started in the height of the AIDS crisis. By the time I started having Anal sex, you just didn't fuck without a condom. I remember the first few years there was no question, and I never even heard about the term bareback. If you came across a porno that was done before AIDS, it was marketed as 'Pre-Condom' not Bareback. I think it was around 2000 or so that I hooked up with a guy, I fucked him with condom, and then later saw his profile mention he didn't like to use condoms. I asked him about it and he responded with 'blush' and I never went back. I think it was around 2004 that I hooked up with a guy that sat on my cock raw when we were making out. I didn't freak out, I came fast, and said to myself never do that again, because it still was a worry for me. Around that time a guy wanted me to bareback him, and when I said no he asked me to just tease the hole. Though I hooked up with him, and teased his hole, I suited up in the end.

2005/2006 is when my evolution started to happen. A guy I met up with from Gay.com didn't ask questions, he just sat on my raw cock after we'd made out and 69'd a while. This was the first time I truly enjoyed bare sex, but I still hadn't made it a thing. As a matter of fact, a guy that I knew was positive wanted me to fuck him raw around that time and I declined. The only reason I found him hot was it turned out he was chatting with a 'Straight' goodlooking, matinee idol, married co-worker of mine who wanted to BB fuck him. Never looked at that coworker the same again, I was too judgemental. It would have been hot to hookup with that guy and the co-worker, though it might have freaked out the co-worker. Around 2006 I agreed to let a neighbor fuck me raw, that was my first bottom experience. By 2007 all I wanted was bare no matter what. So I'm on the end of the evolutionary scale of Sex-SafeSex-BB