have you ever continued fucking someone even after they said no?

[badubydo]

No means NO. No matter if you’re just starting and one changes their mind. Or if you’ve already started fucking, if either top or bottom says to STOP, or NO. And they stop consent...

 

Going any further is rape, continuing is rape. And if it happens to me, you bet I’d be calling and reporting it. 

[bbzh]

I think I wrote about it on here, but years ago, I was in a sauna in Belgium. I agreed to go into a cabin with a guy. His demeanour suddenly changed and he began roughhousing me. That annoyed me so I went to leave the cabin. He wrestled with me until I was face down. But I was still much bigger than him and used my body weight to keep throwing him off me so he couldn't penetrate me. He put up an impressive fight but I was just too much for him. I was scared, but I remember telling him there was no way he was going to fuck me so just stop. He eventually threw in the towel and left.  To this day, if a guy forces my head down on his dick or is any way aggressive towards me when I'm literally about to suck him or offer my ass to him, I get pissed off and go from horny to ready to fight. I may be bottom, but I am a man and if I say the party's over, it's over.

[Willing]

On 2/27/2021 at 7:44 AM, cockslut613 said:

I was fucked in a local bathhouse by a younger guy with a horse dick. He didn’t want to talk. He just entered my room, closed the door, put me on all fours and started fucking me bare. 
 

I yelped and asked him to stop and said no no no stop. Please stop. He kept going.  He was stronger than me. After a while it started to feel the pain subside and I stopped struggling. 
 

He came. I’d just been raped. I was also turned on and thanked him for not stopping when I asked. I had changed my mind mid through and loved being assaulted. 
 

he winked and left. 

Lucky guy you are💋

[Willing]

Lot of good relationships are from rape,  I knew a girl in school that got raped by a guy and she fell in love with him, quit school and got married,  last I heard they had kids and were doing fine.🤷‍♂️

[KindaBasic]

No. If someone says no, no matter how far you have gotten, you stop. At least you do if you’re a real man and not a douche. 

[Iker80]

It seems a lot of guys have enjoyed being forced or think they would enjoy it. I've heard many say this. It's not a surprise, sexual aggression is intense. I've felt it and been that way, and I've had guys be that way with me. But unless you agreed otherwise, no and stop are everyone's safe words and need to be the point where things stop.

[Willing]

Sometimes you just need it.

[RawSlutAms]

No if someone says No I take them at their word. 

That said I have told guys who stay over that if they need to fuck and I am still asleep then they don't need to wake me up to before fucking me. My hole is available for their use. 

[TownTravellerMan]

The way this is phrased is wild. It's essentially asking if you will rape someone.

I think some guys fantasize rape and confuse it with forced play or being taken. I mean I wouldn't put it past some guys to actually really want to get forced and not able to say no but I don't think they distinguish the difference that if it's in any kind of controlled or agreed to situation then it might not necessarily be completely out of their control. Because they are active and willing even if they want to surrender to their freedom and their will to say no or stop. That's fine if that's agreed on. I do like being taken by tops and men but I would not willingly put myself in a situation where I couldn't say no or get away if I needed to. 

In the past though I've been in very very questionable situations where some scenarios I got in were very borderline or me being able to say no or stop even when I wanted to. I've also had danger sense like situations where when I was younger and in a night club a guy kept harassing me and wouldn't leave me alone. I was 18 so I was super fresh. When the morning came because it was an after hours club he tried to follow me to my car and offered to drive me to my car. I said nope and kept walking and go to my car. I learned a few years later from another top who he is and that he was going to do everything I thought in a not fun way. His friend told me that he does to a large extend capture and tie up boys and use them pretty much against their will and whore them out. He said he didn't associate with him much and the bottoms did not really like him or feel that safe with him. I mean he was giving me creepy vibes at the club and stalking me to my car. And then once at a sex club I was servicing a guy but he was being really cruel aggressive with fucking me and having me suck him in a not fun way. He said he wanted to take me out of the club and to his basement and to tie me up. I was like nope. He tried to aggressively grab me and take me and I told him no and to back off. I also once agreed to let a guy restrain me when I was like maybe 20 who I didn't even know. I had a huge danger sense when he started to tie me up and said no I changed my mind. I did get tied up by someone later in my early 20's but it was after meeting them, talking to them and learning about them and it wasn't initially fully restrained. Later meetings I was. Those were fun and sexy time and situations though that we both agreed on. It's good to listen to your own instincts and feelings when you have them because generally they might be right. I also was in another state at one point and a very sexy guy was talking to me. He said he wanted to take me to his place and have some fun with me. Someone else stepped in and warned me that he takes boys to a place and ties them up with a mattress and drugs them up and uses them and whores them out. He did not deny this when someone told on him in front of me. He told me come on it will be fun and I was like nope. 

Now these situations I just described may be someone's fantasy but again these types of guys I'm describing the man does not care about the bottom or the guy they are with. They will not care how the bottom feels or thinks and what gets them off. They will take the guy and use them how they see fit and no is not in their vocabulary. 

Now for the less potentially dangerous situations and more fun and hot situations that have kinda borderlined on that line. Yes I have been taken at bars before and fucked by guys that I said no or stop because I was either done or not feeling it. And I was passed around when I was younger in those situations. Sometimes it was hot sometimes it wasn't. But I also knew I was putting myself in those situations. Also once in another state when meeting a guy I was unfortunately in a sketchy town. He picked me up and took me to his place and said I need to be careful because it's not a safe area. He took me to his place and he fucked me. After I said thank you and I had to get going but he said I'm not going anywhere and he's going to fuck me and use me all night. I told him no and I appreciate the time and have fun but I have to get going. He said that he was being nice to me but if I keep fighting him he will not be nice and I won't like it. He essentially restrained me and fucked and used me all night. I was not really enjoying it because I was kind of fearful. I let natural submission take over and just tried to please him and make him happy but he would not let me leave or say no to him. I just was his captive basically until morning. He said what a good boy I was and he wanted to see me again but the second he took me back and dropped me off I did not contact him again. 

There have been times I've gone to clubs or bath houses too if a guy tries to forcefully grab me and take me into a room or forcefully tries to fuck me and I am not wanting it or into him I do say no or tell them no thanks but if they are really aggressive I tell them to back the fuck off. It's one thing if I make eye contact and they do and there is a mutual spark and they man handle and take me. That's kinda the difference. And as for the sleeping and getting fucked that's also dicey. I've known a guy that got pozzed that way the guy he was with got him drunk and fucked and bred him at night. He was upset obviously because that's essentially date rape and also that he got pozzed that way. 

The point is you can put yourself in a situation that you want to be in. You can put yourself in a situation that you might be a little nervous about but might want to expand your options or test your limits. As long as it's agreed on mutual that's fine. And forced consensual fucking can be hot. But anytime a guy is taking you captive and won't let you leave and you want to leave or is fucking you and you either can't take it or don't want to and you seriously mean no or stop and they aren't. Then that is essentially rape. I am well aware that there are guys out there who will say "No stop don't it hurts take out I can't". And they are more wanting to play or pretend that they are getting forced or taken against their will. And that's fine I guess if both parties are into that. I think it's a little dicey though. You never know if a situation that you are in if you force something on someone and they say no can be taken serious and you probably don't want to find out. 

I like guys who are comfortable with how they want to have sex and how they want to be fucked or get fucked. If I am fucking a guy and they say stop it hurts and take it out then I will stop. I always try to let a guy i'm fucking relax on my cock and take it at their own pace initially because I want them to enjoy it. But it's hotter to me if they say "Fuck me, fuck me harder, fuck my ass, breed me." To me that's hotter then some guy pretending to not want to take it or saying it's too big and to stop and or take it out completely. I would prefer not to play with someone that either isn't enjoying it and it's too much for them or they are pretending not to enjoy it because they want it forced without actually saying they do. Just like when I got fucked recently by a big bear guy who forces his thick cock into my second, third hole? I don't tell him "Stop take it out it's too big it hurts." It does hurt sometimes but I'm not going to pretend that I don't want it. I like the pleasure with the pain sometimes. And I like pushing my own limits. And I know he can tell that it does hurt but that I am wanting to take it deeper and wanting to get fucked the way he wants to fuck me as well. 

This was a little ranty but I hope my examples and stories and experiences help to distinguish the actual differences between being able to say no and not being able to.