Am I alone with my fetish?

[FunCheerSlut]

Hi all,

Greetings. Perhaps you have come across one of my other posts. Forgive me if I appear clumsy in all of this. I joined recently to engage in the community and so I am jumping in. I am putting myself out there for whatever feedback; critical, constructive, or otherwise. I typically work to suppress my dumb blond cheer slut alter ego...I refer to her as Pandora. She scares me how slutty she can be and get when given the opportunity.

I guess I am working to discern precisely that. Is "Pandora" my alter ego or a fetish or both or something else? I have always wanted to dress up in a cheerleading skirt ever before I knew what sex was or involved and before I could even describe what dominant or submissive meant or implied, etc.

At the end of the day I am a gay man, former gymnast, cheerleader, and group fitness instructor...etc etc etc. I am sure I am not the only one?? lol Yeah, so not butch per se but I worked to be a "normal", "average guy" and suppress any sissy-ness. I relate to reading posts from the others who knew they were just always put on this earth to help a brother out and my desire is no different. At the end of the day I enjoy being used like a flesh-light toy and have no issue with a quick fuck and being blind-folded, or anonymous to put him at ease so he can just relax and get off. I am shy though and have never been to a bath-house but want to find a way to setup a glory hole or something when traveling (if I ever get to again).  I am not looking for a relationship, just looking for a horny hard cock looking for a sweet hole to nutt in.

On the other hand, I am a professional and the primary and only income earner in my house-hold. To put it bluntly everyone depends on me for their livelihood. It's a lot of responsibility and pressure and perhaps Pandora is a bit of an outlet for that. I am just wondering all of this - aloud in a public forum - because I am confused myself to be honest.  Here's the thing...I do not consider myself a cross dresser - perhaps I should? Here's the catch. I only want to wear a cheerleading uniform, that's it. I am not interested in dressing up in any other feminine type of clothing at all. I have no real interest in wearing girl panties or thongs. I wear a jock-strap under my skirts or nothing at all unless the top insists. I am not that interested in adding a bra or any appearance of breasts. I would rather not wear a wig if I didn't have to either. So, where does that leave me?

• just a very specific fetish? (e.g. wearing a cheer skirt)
• or an alter ego? Pandora the cheer captain whore who wants to get the entire team off so they can focus on winning the game! but as a non-passable CD in real-life?
• or something else entirely...like Steve, the young frat pledge (see below, lol) who now enjoys wearing a cheer skirt when getting fucked.
• or something I haven't considered? Please enlighten me.

Did I mention that I just want to get fucked and used to help a man achieve his best possible orgasm? Oh and without having to be entirely humiliated or degraded in the process? I can see the appeal and sometimes I enjoy it personally (or could get into it) depending on the situation...but it's not what I am aiming for so-to-speak. I am looking for those fun "sketchy sex" type of frat-house porn scenes where you could imagine that the setting has changed slightly from it's usual rando-bottom, to me - the frat pledge future professional who was made to wear the sorority girls cheer skirt while getting fucked and sucking dick blind-folded. That would be my ideal scenario, to be honest. So any college team out there who needs a personal cheer-slut should please get in touch, lol and wink.

Thoughts?? I would enjoy any perspective the community is willing to share with me.

P.S. Please do get in touch if you'd like to use me. 🙂

[Samanthads]

i get what you mean about Pandora being slutty i was like that at first scared by what Samantha was capable of doing sexually but if learned to channel that in a safe way. me personally when i started i classed my self as a CD as wore thongs dresses bras wigs now id say im gender fluid both sides a part of me.

In your case as you like a Cheerleader outfit only i personally would say its a Cosplay fetish 

[Guest]

NGL I am living for your username. 🥰

[FunCheerSlut]

On 5/6/2021 at 8:27 AM, Samanthads said:

i get what you mean about Pandora being slutty i was like that at first scared by what Samantha was capable of doing sexually but if learned to channel that in a safe way. me personally when i started i classed my self as a CD as wore thongs dresses bras wigs now id say im gender fluid both sides a part of me.

In your case as you like a Cheerleader outfit only i personally would say its a Cosplay fetish 

Thanks for the feedback Samanthads! I do appreciate it.

I am not necessarily looking for a label per se, but I don't want to offend others by referring to myself as a CD if I am not. I obviously enjoy channeling my inner-slut...it´s a good time. I have only recently started to dress-up. I guess it is more of a costume than anything at this point. I would make myself MORE feminine with a wig or bras and breast fillets if that is what the team of tops wanted in order to make the cheerleader fantasy more realistic...but it's more for them than me.

Perhaps this is a slippery-slope and I will be wearing wigs, make up, and bras in no time...?

[LetsPOZBreed]

This is the funny thing about fetishes:  You're never alone.  There's always someone else out there that's into it or willing to give it a try.  I'll agree with the statement that this is more Cosplay, rather than full CD.  Your fetish is for a specific outfit, rather than just dressing in feminine clothing altogether.  

Also, never feel like any fetish is a "slippery slope."  If you don't want to wear a wig/make-up/bra, then just state that to your partner.  You're perfectly within your rights to define the limits of your fetish; however, if you are ever curious about that other stuff, by all means give it a go - life is too short for regrets.

BTW, I do like that pic of you in that gear.  

[FunCheerSlut]

Thanks for the feedback!! I have to admit that when I do not wear the wig, or bra or whatever that the costume feels "incomplete".

I appreciate the encouragement to do what feels right. I guess I am curious if there is any interest or demand out there for fucking a guy in a cheerleading skirt? Anyone? LOL

Perhaps I also need to accept that it is a niche thing and not for everyone, despite how much it arouses me personally.

[storymix]

"Perhaps I also need to accept that it is a niche thing and not for everyone, despite how much it arouses me personally."

OK, OK, so are we with our strange fetishes. You don't have to look at mine. It is rejected by many. I understand that. Write more about your fetish and whether you've found someone who likes it. (This is translated from German)