Just starting out is hard

[Guest]

5 minutes ago, upthebum said:

Wise words. Thank you!

I think that after you told us you were going on PrEP you where just told that bug-chasing would be another option to consider, be it that it included the disclaimer that this is not what this person advises you to do.

[Asiansluttypig]

Its true what they said, once u bare, u cant back to condom. Whenever I bottoming with TOP with condom, I didnt enjoy it at all. Unlike before. I just wanted him to finish it quickly. I realised, condom can be painful especially when the lube is getty dry out. 

Perhaps because modern porn mostly bareback, the bareback culture is comingback again. And more than often I meet guy who without asking, just slipping his bare cock to my ass. 

I cant resist the feeling.. 

 

[StockingsBB]

Once I took my first load it was always raw for me. The sex is so much better. 

[poztwinksrhot]

On 7/28/2021 at 9:44 AM, upthebum said:

I would "like" your post but have no idea how to do it. To be honest it's this kind of thing that makes me nervous about bottoming. I admit I can like it rough but it needs some kind of build up to get me in the zone.

It's not your fault for not knowing how to do it.  Until you reach a certain rank (not sure what that is, I though it was Participant but I just reached that with this post and still couldn't DM) you can't "like" a post or initiate a message to another user.  Getting there is a matter of being active on the site.

Regarding your original post, there's no doubt that a bare cock feels better than one with a condom, and that it's addictive.  As far as "I want to , but should I?", I'd recommend you do what you want to do.  Regrets are never good.  If you do follow through with becoming a cumslut (first of all, congrats in advance), just be a safe one by going on PrEP and being tested for STDs regularly (unless you're into chasing, but it doesn't sound like you are).

Let us know how your progression goes!

Edited August 3, 2021 by poztwinksrhot

[Faggotpozchaser]

When I was 16 I slipped in to the gloryhole booths at the book store it always hurt when guys were using condoms one night a guy came in my booth a said it would go in easier if he was bare it did..... never used a condom again 

[upthebum]

19 hours ago, poztwinksrhot said:

It's not your fault for not knowing how to do it.  Until you reach a certain rank (not sure what that is, I though it was Participant but I just reached that with this post and still couldn't DM) you can't "like" a post or initiate a message to another user.  Getting there is a matter of being active on the site.

Regarding your original post, there's no doubt that a bare cock feels better than one with a condom, and that it's addictive.  As far as "I want to , but should I?", I'd recommend you do what you want to do.  Regrets are never good.  If you do follow through with becoming a cumslut (first of all, congrats in advance), just be a safe one by going on PrEP and being tested for STDs regularly (unless you're into chasing, but it doesn't sound like you are).

Let us know how your progression goes!

The rank thing makes sense now. Thanks for explaining. I thought I was being a Luddite!

Your advance congrats on my coming out as a wannabe cumslut is appreciated too. You're right, I'm not a chaser. Even though bio-hazard tattoos are hot! In fact I've got the ball rolling proper, as I've already made an appointment to hopefully get on PrEP. I heard if you say you have a positive partner you get it.

I'm planning on a weekend in London when it's sorted. Check out the Vault or somewhere. I should start out as I mean to go on 😜

[Cuteguy69]

First time top it was safe for the first second after I ask the bottom if I could remove the condom.the bottom was hoping for me to go bare

it was my last condom in 10 years 

[upthebum]

Update - I've taken my first anon load! My cum slut credentials are no longer theoretical.

Yesterday, on a whim, I went to sit and enjoy the sun with a book near a cruising area. It felt better to have no expectations and to not freak myself out. I'd go and have a chill Sunday and if anything happened that's a bonus. I was over thinking and stressing myself out so didn't make eye contact or follow any of the guys who sometimes walked past. After an hour or so a guy came by but didn't walk past. He crouched down to me and said "come suck me off". I said "ok" and packed up my stuff. I figured I would at least leave with cum in my belly if not in my arse. We walked through ferns to a clearing under a tree that was hidden from the outside. He was in his late 50s and on the chubby side of chunky. I clocked a wedding ring. He stood with his back to the trunk and dropped his shorts. "I don't have long" he said.

I put my stuff down and took down my shorts (leaving my arseless briefs on). I thought if he felt my hole was already lubed he might go for it. I started sucking him off. His hands went straight for his own nipples and he stared down at me. I got in to cock sucker zone. Instead of bending over so that he could feel for my hole I squatted on the balls of my feet. My hands on his hips as I took his shaft down my throat.. then.... suddenly there was a hand cupping my balls! I hadn't heard anyone approach. As the hand cupped my balls his forearm was pressed hard against my hole. I made a muffled noise. The stranger's hands were now exploring me. He tapped a finger on my hole and slipped a finger in. The guy behind me said something I couldn't hear. But the guy I was sucking said "go for it". For the first time the guy I was sucking left his nipples and held my head and moved the head of his cock slightly in and out just beyond my lips. The guy behind me grabbed my hips and got me to straighten my legs bent over with the cock still in my mouth. My cheeks were parted and a tongue jabbed in to me. No rimming just a tongue fuck with lots of spitting in my hole. Then came his cock. He moved in slowly. At that moment the guy at my mouth pushed his cock down my throat and shot his wad. This shocked me and distracted me from the cock sliding deep in me. He then pulled up his shorts. "Enjoy yourselves guys, wish I could stay". With that he left. I'm now under a tree getting fucked (I assume bare) by someone who I have never seen. I'm not going to lie. I suddenly freaked out a bit. But his fucking felt so good and not knowing what he looked like, or knowing if he was bare or not, was incredible. I felt validated that what has only ever existed in my brain, is right for me in reality. 

He moved me forward so that I could lean on the tree trunk the other guy had been standing against. He fucked me for a while ending roughly pumping deep. "I'm cumming" is the only words he said to me. He lingered inside me stroking my back. He eventually pulled out and was using tissues or something. I didn't turn round. I pulled my shorts up and started fiddling with my bag getting out my water bottle. From behind he slapped my arse and said "cheers". I heard him walking through the ferns behind me and was gone. I felt my hole and his cum was there.

I went home and felt euphoric. I kept that stranger's cum in me for as long as I could. I felt happy and unlocked. But this morning that feeling has been tarnished by some doubts and fears. I need to work on my internalised stigmas about what I am and what I like. I envy all you guys who are so free to express yourself. I think guys who can lay in a sling in a sauna taking loads without feeling self conscious or shame are heroes. I have a lot to work on to get to that place.