Slang name of guys who don't suck dick

[Guest]

Ok I have a funny question. Is there any slang name for guys who like to be sucked and fucked but who don't like to suck dick? I was just wondering if there is any.

[LetsPOZBreed]

I don't know about community-accepted nicknames, but selfish/lazy/boring all come to mind 😄 

[BootmanLA]

4 hours ago, LetsPOZBreed said:

I don't know about community-accepted nicknames, but selfish/lazy/boring all come to mind 😄 

You do you, of course, but I don't think men are obligated to enjoy a particular sexual activity just because it's what someone else wants, and they're not "selfish/lazy/boring" for doing so, any more than I would think you're lazy for not wanting to fuck women.

I know guys who just don't like performing oral. I know guys who adore it above all else. I know guys who can't do it much if at all because of TMJ or other jaw issues. None of them are selfish, or boring, or lazy.

I know guys who never fuck, and guys who never get fucked - and some who fit into both categories, and some who fit into neither. We like what we like, and I think it's pretty shitty to shame people for how they're wired.

For the OP - I don't think there is a recognized (or "community-accepted") nickname for people in this category. 

[ErosWired]

7 hours ago, BootmanLA said:

I know guys who just don't like performing oral. I know guys who adore it above all else. I know guys who can't do it much if at all because of TMJ or other jaw issues. None of them are selfish, or boring, or lazy.

This is me. I mean I enjoy oral to an extent, but cocksucking isn’t my strength, partly because the TMJ issue won’t let me open up wide enough. It’s also, I think, because head does absolutely nothing for me if guy goes down on me, and I just don’t have an innate appreciation of how good fellatio ought to be given from a receiver’s point of view.

Does that make me selfish? No. I’ll still try to give you head if you want, because I’m all about what the Top wants, but you’re probably not going to enjoy it very much. Try the ass; it’s way better.

Does that make me boring? If the only thing that interests you is getting your cock sucked, I guess it might, but if that’s all you want, you’re probably at least just as boring yourself. I’ve got plenty of other tricks up my sleeve.

Does that make me lazy? Fuck no. When I’m servicing a Top I’m always actively working to improve the experience for him. Even if I’m just lying on my belly taking it up the cunt I’m busy working the muscles inside to guide and finesse his fuck.

The day I had my best gangbang at camp, there was a guy by me at the table who did nothing but suck cock while I was getting ganged. He would harden them up, then send them around to me for penetration. (Every now and again he’d lean over and say, “Here comes a big one.”) There’s a word for a guy like him. He’s a cocksucker. There’s a word for a guy like me. I’m a cunt. We’re both specialists at what we do. 

[Guest]

16 hours ago, Bisub said:

Ok I have a funny question. Is there any slang name for guys who like to be sucked and fucked but who don't like to suck dick? I was just wondering if there is any.

Straight. 😉 

[fskn]

52 minutes ago, BareLover666 said:

Straight. 😉 

Actually, those are just the ones who spit instead of swallowing. 🙂

[Loveitraw]

I'm the exact opposite, a total bottom who loves sucking dick but I'd much rather guys leave mine alone. I'm perfectly happy with guys who just want to dump a load and move on. As for names, "donor" seems apt.

[Guest]

3 minutes ago, fskn said:

Actually, those are just the ones who spit instead of swallowing. 🙂

Indeed. 🤣😂

[fskn]

I was going to say Christian fundamentalists or Republicans, but they tend to have a lot of pent-up sexual desire. In my experience, once the dam does break, they'll do all kinds of things forbidden by their religion and/or their political party.

[hntnhole]

13 hours ago, BootmanLA said:

For the OP - I don't think there is a recognized (or "community-accepted") nickname for people in this category.

I don't think I've ever heard of that either .... but it does imply a guy that's only interested in himself, what he thinks he wants.

[RubberAustria]

Pastor😇

[Guest]

Funny you ask this question...When I lived in the middle East I got acquainted with some of the local lingo

Sucking but no fucking =  soft only

Getting fucked but no sucking or kissing = backloading only

Fucking as top = Loader

So, I guess, at the end of the day you have different cultures adapting thier labels accordingly.... 🤣

 

 

[Guest]

Thanks EURawBottom and people who said its ok. I love being sucked, but simply don't find the idea of cock up my mouth arousing at all. Butt is a different story, but the guy must know how to do it. It's like with some women who don't like anal or guy playing with their tits during sex. They aren't lazy/selfish for not liking it up their butts or tits fucking or tits caressing. 

Even in BDSM play, though being mostly sub, I can imagine some practices doing only as a top on a sub (natural sauces/ piss play, letting them lick my feet and socks etc. as this isn't my thing as a sub), but couldn't simply make them sub in dogplay, wax play (ok maybe), bondage or general domination and flogging etc, since I'm much better a sub in that, but wouldn't let anyone pee on me or let me lick their feet.

I was genuinely just looking if there are some community slang names for groups of people like us, not the quasi funny ones.

[Guest]

Look, there's nothing wrong with liking or not to do something during sex, no matter how mainstream that may or not be. 

Don't get too preoccupied with labels. As I said, in Middle East the culture and religion influence the language and practices. I'm sure somewhere in the world, a group of people will have a label for every variation.

Certainly gay culture has no shortage of labels as all humans like to classify and label every behaviour and group in order to join or avoid, like or hate certain groups.

At the end of the day, just state what you like and what you don't like upfront, set the expectations and have fun. 

Also, know that I met quite a new of men ( not too many, that's for sure) who love to fuck and suck, but hate being sucked. Worked for me in all occasions as I always got the load deep inside.

[BannedWord]

I've heard the term "pillow princess" applied to women who demand to receive oral from men or women but don't put out (either at all or in reciprocation). It used to be that if I saw that, I'd steer clear of it because...well, I'm putting in the effort and they're just laying there. If I wanted that, I could have stayed with any one of my exes. 

Pretty sure you could use it interchangeably without it being gender-based. To @ErosWired's point above, I'm not going to call anything lazy -- Baskin Robbins has 31 flavors because everyone likes or wants something different. If Vanilla isn't your thing, there's probably Rocky Road or Fudge Ripple. 😂