Family - Hook Up Apps

[BBSMKR]

This may have been covered before, but has anyone ever surprisingly been found/caught by family member or close friend that you didn’t know were gay on a hook up app or bumped into them in a sex club/sauna. Did it have any implications?

[Guest]

1 minute ago, BBSMKR said:

This may have been covered before, but has anyone ever surprisingly been found/caught by family member or close friend that you didn’t know were gay on a hook up app or bumped into them in a sex club/sauna. Did it have any implications?

My brother and my father both have tried to pick me up on Craigslist back in the day.
 

My brother came through with his name and I just let that one slide. Never responded. It would have caused unnecessary drama. It weirds me out now I spot him checking out guys, I wouldn’t have noticed before. 

My father almost hooked up with me until I realized it was him. He still tries, but I genuinely have zero interest at this point. He still sexually harasses me each time we talk. It has negatively impacted our relationship as I do all I can to avoid him now. 

Spit roasting a father with his son, tag teaming twins, and brothers at the same time is enticing. Especially when both are massively your type I just dislike my own personal family members on enough different levels I have no desire to have sex with them. Every family dynamic is different though and for some it is a hot bonding time. 

[backdoorjimmy]

55 minutes ago, BBSMKR said:

This may have been covered before, but has anyone ever surprisingly been found/caught by family member or close friend that you didn’t know were gay on a hook up app or bumped into them in a sex club/sauna. Did it have any implications?

In 2019, I found my cousin on Grindr. For about 2 or 3 months, I went back and forth on whether or not to hit him up.

We had an awkward car ride to the store on Thanksgiving where we were both cruising profiles. We were looking at each other’s profile but I was too scared to do anything. Later on he asked if I wanted to hang out and I said yes. I ended up at my aunt and uncle’s house and we sat in his car in the garage where I went down on him. After that we started having full on sex and it was intense.

Then the pandemic started and things fizzled out, but we’re still close. He’s one of the most talented tops I’ve ever slept with and I’m pretty sure I’d hookup with him again if he offered. 

[barebackbro]

10 hours ago, BBSMKR said:

This may have been covered before, but has anyone ever surprisingly been found/caught by family member or close friend that you didn’t know were gay on a hook up app or bumped into them in a sex club/sauna. Did it have any implications?

Over the years, I've unexpectedly seen a couple of friends at saunas.

We handled it well. On the night, we pretended not to recognise one another. We never mentioned it later. The friendships continued just as they were before.

(The only problem is that one of them is seriously hot and I wish either one of us had been willing to risk making a move!)

[DarkroomTaker]

Yep..

2 female friends husbands

3 work colleagues at separate times.

A lad from school

Previous Mayor of my town ( who was packing)

One of the workmen from my home depot who got barebacked x 3, one after the other, I had to eat him out and suck the load out of his dick.

 

[twoguyssssss4fun]

Mom's 2nd husband at video store ( i knew him before he met her from the vid stores... was more of a shock when i saw them together and realized who he was

a couple of former teachers of mine, back when i was in high school and going to the old school porno theaters  near my town

a couple of guys from the gym, at the local video store when i was working there part time as cashier

i didnt run and hide lol,  just added motivation to have some fun

[bbinbpark]

Back in the pre-app, gay.com days, I'm 99% sure I hit up and sent my dick pics to my uncle. His was a faceless profile that jumped out for some reason, seems odd to hit on the faceless ones, but a lot of closets were still closed to many in our community at the time. I got a cold response, and think he blocked. Only realized this years later when I saw an E-mail he was on and had the same screenname from gay.com as the first part of his E-mail addy. Something the average person would forget, but my blood went cold when I saw that.

We've never talked about it, and his now husband, whom he met on gay.com, was very curious to know if I was hung like my uncle when I first met him. Had no interest in him, and the relationship with the two has been tenuous at best for other reasons, perhaps because I let my inner slut out many times and he's been a little on the monogamous prudish side of life...  

[thedudenextdoor]

On 3/18/2022 at 7:31 AM, azguy said:

My brother and my father both have tried to pick me up on Craigslist back in the day.
 

My brother came through with his name and I just let that one slide. Never responded. It would have caused unnecessary drama. It weirds me out now I spot him checking out guys, I wouldn’t have noticed before. 

My father almost hooked up with me until I realized it was him. He still tries, but I genuinely have zero interest at this point. He still sexually harasses me each time we talk. It has negatively impacted our relationship as I do all I can to avoid him now. 

Spit roasting a father with his son, tag teaming twins, and brothers at the same time is enticing. Especially when both are massively your type I just dislike my own personal family members on enough different levels I have no desire to have sex with them. Every family dynamic is different though and for some it is a hot bonding time. 

Did they ever found out it was you they were hitting up?

[Guest]

2 hours ago, thedudenextdoor said:

Did they ever found out it was you they were hitting up?

Dad did and still tries to get me to do things. To the point it damaged our relationship.

I never responded to my brother. That was back when Craigslist still showed names in the notifications