What do you do when tops want to fuck with condoms?

[Bttml00king]

Since crusing in public or ABS stores usually doesn't involve discussion of "into," I would run into situations when tops want to fuck with condoms. As soon as I see or hear them grabbing condoms, I just tell them and sex usually just stops. Occasionally, tops would proceed to bareback if they were really horny. Some would ask me if I was "clean" (really hate the word) after they had bred me. I remember one even wanted to me swear on my grandma's grave that I was clean!! Some would call me crazy or give me lectures. I usually just brush it off because I get tested regularly and am on prep. 

The tops that I don't like are those who prefer condoms and want me to give them ones. I had tops telling me to buy condoms at ABS!! No. If you want to use condoms, bring your own and buy them. 

So my questions - do you ask for bareback before having sex in public or at ABS?

Any tips on how I can avoid these unpleasant situation? 

Thank you for sharing and happy holidays. 

[Cumfilledbottomboi]

I don’t get fucked unless I am bred. I’ll just suck him off to get the load.

[Mtfujisx]

I never really thought about letting anyone fuck me until I was in a bathhouse and watched some guy pumping his load into someone in a room with the door wide open and I was getting sooo turned on and crazy horny to maybe try it. Once the guy pulled out and turned to leave,  he saw me and could tell that I was completely engrossed in what had just happened and laughed saying it looks like I'm thinking about trying it and I just shook my head yes and he grabbed my cock and said I could follow him to his room and meet his friend who was looking for a hole to fuck. 

I went to his room and his friend started chatting me up and asked if I really wanted to try getting fucked and i said yes but I was nervous and wanted to use a condom. He pulled out a condom and rolled it over his cock and his friend started talking dirty to me and touching me up and down and slowly guided me onto the bed and bent me over face down and spread my legs while rubbing my ass cheeks and fingering my hole and putting lube in it and then leaned into my ear and said get ready for the best time of your life and his friend started pushing his cock inside me and  asking me if this felt good and I moaned yes as he was pumping faster and faster and deeper each time then suddenly pulled out saying he wanted me to lay down fully on the bed and climbed back on top of me and pushed his cock back into my hole and said now doesn't this feel much better and I lost control and moaned loudly something like...FUUUUUCK YES and started to hump my ass up to get as much cock as possible inside me and then he started to jerk around and told his friend that he was close to cumming and he asked if I wanted him to pull out. I just yelled out to keep fucking me and cum in the condom and that's when I knew what was happening.....he had fucked me BAREBACK and was filling my hole with his load and I was instantly hooked. 

[Mtfujisx]

Tops want to fuck bareback because it is more raw and sensual and feels wayyyyy better for both sides 

[KylerIsTrash]

Just say no.

I will refuse to fuck with a condom. If a top isn’t interested I’ll offer them to bring me the used rubber when they’re finished fucking somebody else and I’ll unload it in my hole. 

[Bttml00king]

4 hours ago, Cumfilledbottomboi said:

I don’t get fucked unless I am bred. I’ll just suck him off to get the load.

I don't either. Depending on the cocks, I may continue to suck the tops off but usually I get turned off when the tops want to fuck with condoms. 

13 minutes ago, KylerIsTrash said:

Just say no.

I will refuse to fuck with a condom. If a top isn’t interested I’ll offer them to bring me the used rubber when they’re finished fucking somebody else and I’ll unload it in my hole. 

Never thought of that. How often do the tops bring you the loaded condoms? 

[KylerIsTrash]

5 minutes ago, Asnlooking said:

How often do the tops bring you the loaded condoms? 

Not often enough. Less than half of the time. Still have to try. I hate wasting cum. 

Edited December 24, 2022 by KylerIsTrash

[Everopen]

Just say no and move on  half the time they agree to bare

[Bttml00king]

2 hours ago, Everopen said:

Just say no and move on  half the time they agree to bare

That is what I do. Some tops are really persistent and want to fuck me with condoms after saying no It is a total mood killer at ABS. 

[Guest]

I just politely decline. I tell them I like getting barebacked. In my experience, most all guys in an ABS will fuck raw if that is the only option.

[KylerIsTrash]

1 hour ago, Asnlooking said:

That is what I do. Some tops are really persistent and want to fuck me with condoms after saying no It is a total mood killer at ABS. 

For every top that wants to use a condom there are 5 that want to feel your wet and sloppy cunt sliding over their raw dick. Don’t compromise on what you want in exchange for a lame fuck. Your ass looks hot AF and it deserves to be leaking nut. 

Edited December 24, 2022 by KylerIsTrash

[Guest]

They’d have to find another hole to fuck. I haven’t had a condom on me or in me for over 20 years!

Edited December 24, 2022 by Vancrawman

[Bottom Jim]

I have had a few tops who want to use a condom one guy had it out while he was rubbing his raw dick on my ass I just took his dick and shoved it in me He just kept fucking till he blew He loved it

[Guest]

I wouldn't do it. Won't wear one and don't want one inside me.  Not only does the feeling bother me, at this point it's a mental thing too.  Heck, I can't even get into watching porns if theres condoms visible.  

I would just ruin the fuck.  Id stick to oral or find another partner. 

[chaserslut]

Think I'm in a minority here but I still take the cock, although it's nowhere near as good.

I will say though that even recently I've had guys tell me they're gonna use a rubber then never actually produce one and load me.