Which is hotter: Open relationships/cuckolding or cheating?

[Bokkierob]

On 12/9/2023 at 9:54 AM, TwinkChaserSlut said:

Sounds hot! How do that young pussy taste? Are they preloaded? Any pics or vid?

I don't put our pics up on boards but if you want shoot me a private message, I'll send you a couple of pics of us

 

[hntnhole]

On 12/7/2023 at 10:02 AM, ktopper said:

Cheating can be complicated. Sometimes physical needs over ride moral convictions

Maybe, but no more than any other issue, at least as I see it.  Financial arrangements, real estate issues, all kinds of issues can be complicated.  That's certainly no reason to avoid a relationship if that's what the pair desire.  Those kinds of issues bind the two guys legally, as does getting married, and there's no guilt associated with any of that, assuming the relationship begins on an honest basis.  

The rot starts with the dishonesty, if and when it occurs.  If the "moral convictions" become less important than the sexual Lusts, the convictions weren't all that secure in the first place, not deserving of that word.  Convictions are answers to issues we consider seriously, sometimes honing their value for years, and either accept or reject.  "Convictions" have little connection to "physical needs", and separate issues.  

I'm ALL FOR each partner in a relationship getting every ounce of what he needs, regardless of what that is, provided it's openly and honestly agreed upon upfront.  If tons of outside sex is crucial for one guy, and a problem for the other guy, they should get that aired out honestly before the relationship gets too heavily vested.  The issue will surface at some point anyway - it always does - so lay the cards on the table before the emotional injuries start piling up.

Dishonesty is destructive by it's very definition, and it's so easy to avoid.  Everyone has issues - it's part of being human - but why not get a relationship started on a firm foundation in the first place?  It'll only make the "outside" sex all the hotter. 

[TwinkChaserSlut]

Some guys are turned on by being cucked or cucking their boyfriend. Some of these arrangements are 100% agreed upon in advance & some are just tolerated. But ultimately the top & bottom in the relationship get turned on & get something out of it despite any jealousy that often accompanies it. 

[hntnhole]

6 hours ago, TwinkChaserSlut said:

Some guys are turned on by being cucked or cucking their boyfriend

I understand your point, and it's well taken.  

The difference, as I see it, is that the extra, "outside" action - whether on the part of one or both - would be that each guy knows in advance that it will happen, finds it sexually exciting, and there's not one iota of dishonesty in that.  Merely the details of each outside encounter (when, where, how, etc) are missing, and by tacit agreement of both guys.  Whether those details are eventually revealed or not, both guys are aware, and get a thrill out of knowing the other is having outside sex.  

Example:  My life-partner and & had that kind of agreement from the day we met, let alone became a "couple".  We had an office at home, but often one or both of us had to deal with business downtown.  I knew perfectly well how long those larger staff meetings could take, and when he was later getting back home then it should have been, I knew perfectly well that he'd stopped at some glory-hole joint on the way home.  And, it turned my Cock into granite.  When I was downtown, and took longer to get back home than usual, he was naked, waiting on the bed, watching porn.  

Point:  no lying, no (actual) cheating, no harm done at all.  Just two men who loved each other, in all it's thrilling variations.  

[BBBxCumDumpster]

I think open relationships are much hotter.  My ex knows me sexually and has brought some amazing dick home for  me. I love getting loaded up while he watches or while he is doing somebody. Wr still have the arrangement.  A few weeks ago, he watched as two friends of ours DP'd me and one blew a huge load up my hole. There was no deceit, no lies, no guilt, just two very fat dicks stuffed up me, stretching and flooding me. To me, that's hot.

[ktopper]

On 12/10/2023 at 9:40 AM, hntnhole said:

Maybe, but no more than any other issue, at least as I see it.  Financial arrangements, real estate issues, all kinds of issues can be complicated.  That's certainly no reason to avoid a relationship if that's what the pair desire.  Those kinds of issues bind the two guys legally, as does getting married, and there's no guilt associated with any of that, assuming the relationship begins on an honest basis.  

The rot starts with the dishonesty, if and when it occurs.  If the "moral convictions" become less important than the sexual Lusts, the convictions weren't all that secure in the first place, not deserving of that word.  Convictions are answers to issues we consider seriously, sometimes honing their value for years, and either accept or reject.  "Convictions" have little connection to "physical needs", and separate issues.  

I'm ALL FOR each partner in a relationship getting every ounce of what he needs, regardless of what that is, provided it's openly and honestly agreed upon upfront.  If tons of outside sex is crucial for one guy, and a problem for the other guy, they should get that aired out honestly before the relationship gets too heavily vested.  The issue will surface at some point anyway - it always does - so lay the cards on the table before the emotional injuries start piling up.

Dishonesty is destructive by it's very definition, and it's so easy to avoid.  Everyone has issues - it's part of being human - but why not get a relationship started on a firm foundation in the first place?  It'll only make the "outside" sex all the hotter. 

I don't disagree with anything in your post. However I do at least attempt to do the right thing, especially regarding the opposite sex. Any guy looking for dick, well he is probably going to get it, the "morality" is between him and his partner.

[ktopper]

On 12/12/2023 at 10:12 AM, BBBxCumDumpster said:

I think open relationships are much hotter.  My ex knows me sexually and has brought some amazing dick home for  me. I love getting loaded up while he watches or while he is doing somebody. Wr still have the arrangement.  A few weeks ago, he watched as two friends of ours DP'd me and one blew a huge load up my hole. There was no deceit, no lies, no guilt, just two very fat dicks stuffed up me, stretching and flooding me. To me, that's hot.

I have never been in a gay relationship and have no intentions of ever getting into one. But I have hooked up with gay couples and it is damned hot.

[hntnhole]

On 12/12/2023 at 1:12 PM, BBBxCumDumpster said:

and has brought some amazing dick home for  me. I love getting loaded up while he watches or while he is doing somebody

Perfectly said; thanks BBBxCumDumpster.  

One time, my other half brought home a beautiful young man, and the kid loved getting sucked off at the same time he was getting fucked. That kid stayed for almost a week, until - wait for it - his mother kept calling him to find out where he was !!!   I don't like the idea of fucking jailbait, and we told him he had to go home, which he did.  However, he left his jacket behind, so he'd have an excuse (for his mother) to come back to get it. 

It always always, always just drove me into Pig Heaven watching him suck off Cocks/taking loads ... 

[bbgaybro]

Open relationships especially if the top is out slinging dick to young guys to make sure they can take take raw cock.

[Jude]

I don't know whether its a relationship really, but I have a friend who I meet on a regular basis. Because of a medical condition, he can't fuck. When we are together, he invites guys to come and use me, while he watches.