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I’m a bit ambivalent. 

At a venue I usually refuse where a bottom asks me to wear a condom and pull off a condom where one of those annoying men tries putting it on me without asking. They either relent or I go looking for someone else. However, if they’re cute I’ll try to fuck them with a condom although with a rubber I often lose interest or go soft if they can even get the condom over my thick cock. When I’m bottoming I discourage condoms but with often relent just to get the cock in my hole. But I find them uncomfortable and will ask them to remove it which often works once the guy has fucked me for a little while and is worked up.

On a hookup it’s a bit different. The guys who fuck with me have usually read my bareback only on my profile so it’s not a problem. However, if they insist I go along with it as I can’t lose the fuck. However, I usually find guys are persuadable to go raw when I explain I’m on PrEP and they’ve seen my hard cock. 

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I always refuse a top wanting to fuck me with a condom, pretty firmly, no matter how hot he might be. But at the same time, I don't complain about it: it's just a matter of different boundaries: he wants safe, I want bare. I treat it as if we're two bottoms basically: there will be no fucking, but that's no reason I can't get on my knees and make you cum with my mouth and throat.

If I'm asked why I refuse, I say that bare feels much MUCH better, infinitely more intimate, warmer, closer, more thrilling, aeons hotter, and the risk is so horny too. Plus when he cums, with a condom, only one of us - him, the top - gets to enjoy the cumshot. If he fucks me raw, we both get to enjoy your cumshot inside me.

And I do, so so much. Not just in the moment, but for hours afterwards. The jizzjoy thrumming inside me, the feeling of being marked, his DNA transgressing me and swimming through my bloodstream into my brain. To fuck me up a little bit more each time...

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I am a Dom Bottom.  I refuse condoms.  I am into PNP, I blast/slam and I insist on only playing with guys who blast/slam.

 Everyone who blasts/slams will fuck raw.  It's the guys who puff that can insist on using condoms.  I explain that I can and will administer a blast/slam to them.  Once they have had the blast/slam the idea of using condoms is totally removed from their thoughts, they are now insisting on raw. 

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3 hours ago, jd13 said:

I always refuse a top wanting to fuck me with a condom, pretty firmly, no matter how hot he might be. But at the same time, I don't complain about it: it's just a matter of different boundaries: he wants safe, I want bare. I treat it as if we're two bottoms basically: there will be no fucking, but that's no reason I can't get on my knees and make you cum with my mouth and throat.

If I'm asked why I refuse, I say that bare feels much MUCH better, infinitely more intimate, warmer, closer, more thrilling, aeons hotter, and the risk is so horny too. Plus when he cums, with a condom, only one of us - him, the top - gets to enjoy the cumshot. If he fucks me raw, we both get to enjoy your cumshot inside me.

And I do, so so much. Not just in the moment, but for hours afterwards. The jizzjoy thrumming inside me, the feeling of being marked, his DNA transgressing me and swimming through my bloodstream into my brain. To fuck me up a little bit more each time...

fuck yes

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I'm finding very few men insist on condoms anymore. Most guys are on PrEP, Virtually all poz guys are on meds and more and more men on doxy. 
I don't have a huge circle of playmates but it's been a really long time since I've met a man that insists on either of wearing a condom

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