Suffering in Silence

[Marlin]

I had a very passionate lover for a few years. A handsome black man who wasn't verbal but definitely moaned and expressed his pleasure when fucking me. He would not announce his oncoming climax but I could always tell as his breathing got deeper and he would drive his penis balls deep and stop as it would pulsate. I could not necessarily feel his semen filling me but his dick spasming in his hole certainly told me he was breeding me. as his dick stopped unloading he would stay in me for another minute or so and slowly withdrawal invariably pulling some of his nut with him....the only physical sign of his orgasm

[PleasureU7480]

First of all, I got so hard reading these! So hot! Thank you!

I truly prefer a top to verbally express his enjoyment and dominance as he uses my ass.

As a cumslut bottom, I try to gauge what works for each top. Most growl fairly loudly as they shoot their cum deep inside me. 

The less expressive ones tend to open up more as they hear me moan and beg them to breed me. When I sense they’re close to cumming, my voice gets higher in pitch, as I feel his dominance and know he’s going to conquer me. 
 

I can recall only one time I couldn’t tell if a top finished in me. I was sucking his roommate as he drilled me. He suddenly pulled out and left the bedroom. I asked his roommate if his buddy was ok. He said, “Yes, he came in you.” Then he proceeded to take his turn. He was much more vocal. I loved driving home to my wife with 2 guys’ loads in me. 

[NicNorth]

When I bottom I much prefer to know when a guy dumps his load - adds to the pleasure. 

[myDNA4u]

@BBBxCumDumpsteryou definitely wouldn't be disappointed with me then. I'm notoriously loud when I cum. The louder I am the better it is/ was for me. Being very much of an exhibitionist who's really into group/public play, I really get off on everyone around me knowing some guy is getting my load.

[Guy4GuyCoSpgs]

I am loud and a begger as a bottom and I like my top to feel free to moan and talk nasty to me and as he cums in me call me a whore, bitch ,slut etc.

[Mvillebottom]

6 hours ago, myDNA4u said:

@BBBxCumDumpsteryou definitely wouldn't be disappointed with me then. I'm notoriously loud when I cum. The louder I am the better it is/ was for me. Being very much of an exhibitionist who's really into group/public play, I really get off on everyone around me knowing some guy is getting my load.

A top that’s verbal while fucking me bareback is hot but one that’s loud when they cum is even hotter and gets me super horny and wanting and begging for more raw cock and cum loads!!

[BBBxCumDumpster]

12 hours ago, myDNA4u said:

@BBBxCumDumpsteryou definitely wouldn't be disappointed with me then. I'm notoriously loud when I cum. The louder I am the better it is/ was for me. Being very much of an exhibitionist who's really into group/public play, I really get off on everyone around me knowing some guy is getting my load.

I'd love to take your load in public so all could see and hear!

[TightBott7]

Variety is the spice of life. Overtime I have learned to appreciate and to be grateful for diversity of tops’ fucking styles. With some tops, their rough fucking like an animal instinct speak louder than any words and are definitely appreciated.

 

[LetsPOZBreed]

I've had a mix.  My preference is a guy who can really grunt one out with a good lion roar (natural, not "put on").  I find that even with the quiet ones, there's subtle hints - usually a slight contortion of the face.  But the only real way I know is the change in consistency as the friction in my hole changes from lube to cum.  If you know, you know.  

When I've been on top, I'd say I tend to grunt more now than when I was younger.  Not sure why that is, but I do feel my orgasms have gotten more intense with age.  I'm sure that's a factor to some degree.  

[Ieatcumholes]

On 3/11/2024 at 3:31 AM, versamarried said:

Most of the time when I have had silent tops I have been left wondering if they just got tired of fucking and decided to fake nutting to end the session for whatever reason they have. A lot of the times it is because I rarely actually can tell when a top cums in my ass, no obvious difference in how my ass feels especially if they use a lot of lube. Definitely kills the excitement when I have to ask if they came and do not feel any leakage soon after. 

But once my ass regains some feeling and them cum does start leaking I get the rush I want, just delayed.

I would say maybe only 3  guys left me wondering if they really did finish.

WAY back when I fucked a particular partnered (with a man) guy for the first time, after I came he mentioned that he couldn't tell if I was enjoying myself or not because I hadn't said anything. I told him then (and I tell new bottoms now) that I'm not overly verbal. You can tell how into you I am by how I look at, kiss and touch you...

On 3/11/2024 at 5:56 AM, tallslenderguy said:

i like some indication when a Man plants His orgasm inside of me. For me, His orgasm is almost as important as the seed that cums with it.  Very loud isn't necessary for me, but it that Him and it's real, i want it.  Contrived, or trying to hard is a turn off... can tell when someone is trying to copy porn or putting on some sort of act on how He thinks He's supposed to be.  

For instance, i'll never say to a Top: "talk dirty to me." Not because i don't love it, but i want it to be real, spontaneous.  Fucking is intimate and vulnerable, it can be a chance for two guys to connect at a deep level. i don't have a standard way i want to receive His orgasm, but i do want to know when it's happening. The only time that is a challenge is with Guys Who fuck through Their orgasm.

Some Guys slam balls deep, and that is a language all its own. Some Guys keep fucking while they are having Their orgasm, and it can be harder to tell. i have a FB Who is a muscle Boy. He pounds me very hard when fucking, but alternates between lying on top of me and holding  my body in various ways. When i am giving Him oral, He is very verbal. When He is fucking, He is not. 90% of the time, i cannot tell when He cums.  His fucking is so energetic, but when He is done, He is not one to linger inside of me. He pulls out, gets up and takes a shower.  It can feel very sudden going from pounding to suddenly gone. i often finger myself after to reassure myself He has cum, and i am always gaped and sloppy with cum. 

my favorite is a Top Who wants me to know He has cum though, Who wants to make a point of letting me know He's bred me. 

Inane porn talk is SUCH a turnoff! (Although two of my favorite porn lines from the 80's are "Suck that cock like the cheap bitch you are!" (after he'd paid two guys $300 to have sex with him) and "I want a cowboy who'll ride me til sun up!") Depending on the position we were fucking in, if a bottom gave me inane porn talk, I'd either stick my tongue down his throat or push his head into the pillow. Either way, I'll shut him up... 😜

On 3/11/2024 at 6:17 AM, Marlin said:

I had a very passionate lover for a few years. A handsome black man who wasn't verbal but definitely moaned and expressed his pleasure when fucking me. He would not announce his oncoming climax but I could always tell as his breathing got deeper and he would drive his penis balls deep and stop as it would pulsate. I could not necessarily feel his semen filling me but his dick spasming in his hole certainly told me he was breeding me. as his dick stopped unloading he would stay in me for another minute or so and slowly withdrawal invariably pulling some of his nut with him....the only physical sign of his orgasm

🤯 Have you and I fucked? 🤔

[VersatileBreeder]

On 3/11/2024 at 6:31 AM, versamarried said:

Or like when their physical signals are distinct, rapid breathing, speeding up and then grunting or moaning or any kind of large vocal display they are cumming.

I’m mostly a top and when I fuck this is exactly how I like to cum. I want my bottom and I to be so consumed by pleasure in the moment that I have no words, just body language letting him know I’m about to cum. I don’t say a word, but I make it very clear that I’m close and then just fire away deep in his hole.

[BBBxCumDumpster]

On 3/13/2024 at 12:29 AM, Ieatcumholes said:

 (Although two of my favorite porn lines from the 80's are "Suck that cock like the cheap bitch you are!" (after he'd paid two guys $300 to have sex with him) . 

 

My favorite porn line  is "All day tomorrow,  you're gonna be burping my nutt."

[ktopper]

On 3/10/2024 at 2:29 PM, BBBxCumDumpster said:

I love it when a top whispers something filthy to me even when he's not cumming  yet.

Yes! As a top I do this. I quietly tell the bottom, usually whispering into his ear as I pull him close, how good his tight faggot ass feels and say shit like "I'm gonna make a girl out of you and make you like it." When I'm getting close I tell him I'm about to breed his hot sexy ass and I announce when I'm starting to cum and say things like "you're gonna be shitting cum for a week." Sometimes a bottom is so into our fuck that he will start to cum also. Not often but memorable when it happens. It's like I am fucking him mentally as well as physically. I think I do a lot of this because I started as a bottom and just do what I liked having done to me. I think I am a natural top but when I first got into gay sex it took me a couple of years to figure that out. During that time I had some very hot encounters as a bottom but I always fantasized about what the top must be feeling when he came in my ass.

I'm not loud when topping but I am verbal. It's interesting with fuck buddies at times when I have gotten to know them pretty well. One minute I'm telling him what a hot sexy slut he is and dominating him sexually and 5 minutes later we are talking about cars or guns or bitching about our wives or GFs or whatever.

[ktopper]

On 3/12/2024 at 2:41 PM, LetsPOZBreed said:

 I find that even with the quiet ones, there's subtle hints - usually a slight contortion of the face.  But the only real way I know is the change in consistency as the friction in my hole changes from lube to cum.  If you know, you know. 

In situations where quietness is very desirable, such as some public rest rooms, I often don't say a word, no loud growling or anything. The bottom still knows when I'm cumming, I grab his ass and get very physical even sometimes biting him as I cum. Not long after I got married my wife and I were at a nice restaurant and after we ordered I excused myself to go piss. While standing at the urinal a guy walked up to the urinal beside me and started checking me out. I looked at him and we recognized each other from a local ABS/video store where I had fucked him a couple of times. I was instantly hard and motioned for him to follow me into a booth. He had his pants pulled down and I had my dick out within seconds. He lubed my cock and I was inside him in real short order. I was nervous but also very excited and in probably less than a minute slammed into him with my cock buried to the hilt as I came. I cleaned up and arrived back at my table just as the waitress was setting down a basket of dinner rolls. My wife and I had a very pleasant dinner as I  looked into her eyes and told her how nice she looked all dressed up and told her how much trouble she was going to be in when we got home.

[Cumjunky215]

On 3/11/2024 at 12:55 PM, Guy4GuyCoSpgs said:

I am loud and a begger as a bottom and I like my top to feel free to moan and talk nasty to me and as he cums in me call me a whore, bitch ,slut etc.

It's nice hearing a top tell you that you're only a hole to use and fill, know my place as a receptacle for his jizz. "I like how you always take my dick when I call and babysit my cum". That's hot.