Penetrating a difficult hole

[Pozguyinchi]

On 4/19/2024 at 12:26 AM, topblkmale said:

 

if a bottom is too tight he's probably not cleaned out properly and most likely inexperienced at handling larger sized dicks past the second hole

 

That's a NO for me. I'll pass.

 

I think you would like mine then. I have long passed tight. 

[Pozguyinchi]

After many years of use I can say I am not tight at all. I do feel for the guys that are. A true bottom is committed to getting used. He should make sure that whenever and wherever the need arises he is up for it. In the beginning lube and poppers are great to assist. You can also use plugs and toys. Of course nothing beats the real thing. Once you get comfortable with the process and know you are clean and k ow your body everything else falls into place. There will be a day when you see a 9” cock and get excited to have it in you and not panic and think how is it going to fit. It lets you truly worship the man and serve him the way it’s intended.

[Olderkinkybiguy]

Since my cock is above average in girth, I have had this issue, especially in my 20’s and 30’s when quite a few of the bottoms were relatively inexperienced. By the time I got them totally open to taking me raw, I had them somewhat relaxed and ready. I typically ate their ass and used a finger or two to get the lube inside there fuck hole. Since my cock gets thicker as Itgeir ass slides towards the base, it helped when I would go slow and stop occasionally to give their ass time to adjust. If they still had some difficulty, I found poppers typically relaxed them enough so I could get all the way in. On a few occasions, I had to pull out and let them rest. I found fingering them help stretch them open. I remember only one the guy couldn’t take me. He was a young virgin (legal age-barely) that was just too nervous. But the next time we met, he managed to take me. 
 

for the few times I have been fucked, I found copious amounts of alcohol and poppers helped me relax. I don’t know if anyone else has experienced this issue, but I found it easier to take thicker cocks, rather than really thin ones. One guy I remember felt like I was being jabbed with pencil repeatedly; he was so ridged with no give. The thicker and bigger cocks seem to be more forgiving and flexible. Maybe I was just a size queen back than? Who knows. 

[PozPigCumDump]

5 minutes ago, Olderkinkybiguy said:

I found it easier to take thicker cocks, rather than really thin ones. One guy I remember felt like I was being jabbed with pencil repeatedly;

I can so relate to this! I don't have a habiy of refusing anyone, but I am in pig heaven when i get fucked by a thick cock. Add some PA or Jacob's Ladder and some cum, and that's ultimate orgasm. Thin cocks can also be fun, but my preference goes for thick ones that stretch my hole and test the limits of my guts.

[hexfet]

A lot depends on chemistry of course, those outer rings need lube, grinding, tongues, and slow insistence and the tightest boys will let you on in.  And start to feel that head against their insides and now the pleasure starts.  Of course depending on anatomy, getting balls deep might require punching thru the deep ring (bend).

The deep ring is trickier to open sometimes - and where you have to feel the bottom out and decide how much resistance, how much he's grunting when you push into it - and how much more cock he's gotta take.  Usually with a little time and pushing a bit more every few thrusts, it will let you in.  Sometimes you need to try a different position to get things to bend around a bit differently to initially pop that deep ring open.  Make the angle a bit easier.  

But sometimes once its warmed up and its close but not quite open, a little muscle definitely does the trick 🙂

But its so worth it.

[pdmiller1172]

1 hour ago, hexfet said:

A lot depends on chemistry of course, those outer rings need lube, grinding, tongues, and slow insistence and the tightest boys will let you on in.  And start to feel that head against their insides and now the pleasure starts.  Of course depending on anatomy, getting balls deep might require punching thru the deep ring (bend).

The deep ring is trickier to open sometimes - and where you have to feel the bottom out and decide how much resistance, how much he's grunting when you push into it - and how much more cock he's gotta take.  Usually with a little time and pushing a bit more every few thrusts, it will let you in.  Sometimes you need to try a different position to get things to bend around a bit differently to initially pop that deep ring open.  Make the angle a bit easier.  

But sometimes once its warmed up and its close but not quite open, a little muscle definitely does the trick 🙂

But its so worth it.

I would definitely love for you to use spit and precum instead of lube and for you to muscle your way in!