Hyper impatient people on hook up sites

[wh0rehole]

I do like when a top is scrolling on his phone while I orally service him. Reminds me exactly what I am for him.

I also had a play mate who was a complete and total sex addict, so he would scroll his phone watching porn and through all the apps while we played. Honestly I was fine with it because I never knew when a 3rd, 4th, or 5th might show up.

Edited April 24 by wh0rehole

[Heir2012]

13 hours ago, JamesL100 said:

I find it's insatiable btms who bulk msg everyone locally. You see about setting something up and they disappear. More like their hole will explode if not fucked and filled.

Actually, I think you're right. 

It also depends on the app. On Recon, like here, I'm versatile, and I get messages from tops and bottoms. But, the desperate fuckers are the tops needing to bust a load. They also want to chain me up, whip me, and make me their slave even though that isn't in my profile. 

But, yes, I think it depends on the app and the purpose. Sometimes it is a bottom needing a long line of men to fuck them. For a top, they can go only a few times depending on age and other factors, meaning they might not be as desperate or their desperation is more fleeting. 

[badubydo]

I get them too. Or the ones who don't read, get all hyped and then after talking be "send me your address* when my profile clearly says I cannot host. 

 

But the one who expect me, a bottom, to drop EVERYTHING I'm doing to go over and get fucked is hilarious. Or the ones who can barely get it up but want me to spend a day "fucking" at their place. 

 

I'm over all the bs on these  hookup apps

[in-the-bush-]

I’ve seen it in guys’ profiles before, in a few variations: “online doesn’t mean on call”. #BePatientForPenis #LuckOfTheDraw

[in-the-bush-]

On 4/22/2024 at 4:07 PM, ellentonboy said:

I am of the opinion, and I think this is fair, that if you are actively looking to hook up, then keep your phone or laptop close by, and respond accordingly.   But I know of many guys who sign on in the morning, and they don't check their devices for 6 or 8 hours, or even more.   To me, that is wrong.  I don't sign on to any hook up app unless I am actively looking and able to interact with guys.  To me that is the right thing to do............

I’m in the same camp. I don’t leave myself perma-logged-in to Scruff or BBRT.

[KindaBasic]

This is why every top should bottom a handful of times. I admit that back in the days of yore, when I was exclusively a top, I was a lot more impatient. But after I started to get fucked, I realized how much time it takes to be a prepared bottom. 

[sub4oralcum]

I've had guys like that plenty of times. Sometimes I'm on Grindr because I want to chat. Sometimes I'm looking to hookup.

One guy would text me 5 or 6 times in quick succession when I wasn't even logged in. Or, he would continually try to negotiate where or when we would meet. One time it was 12 messages while i was not logged in. I finally pulled the trigger and blocked him. 

[barecubtop]

I always laugh at the ones that go something like this:

Them: You looking?

Me: Yes

Them: You host?

Me: Yes

Them: Address?

Mind you, at this point they don't have any stats or pics in their profiles, nor have they expressed anything about what they're into or looking for...do they really expect me to give them my address?

[Sfmike64]

It could’ve been worse, the initial message could’ve just said “s’up.”🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣