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Is bareback (and breeding) the new standard?


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Don't have much to compare to because I'm only 22, but I do know that when I started using apps about 6 years ago saying I preferred raw meant less people would interact and some would even block me. Now, saying I require raw gets me just as much interaction if not more than not having it. Also, I've noticed it's usually the less attractive guys that outright refuse bareback – in other words: ugly people use condoms, hot people fuck raw. 

That said, in my experience, those tops that prefer raw still are concerned about the bottom's PrEP intake. So it's not carelessness, just realistic risk assessment.

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On 9/27/2024 at 3:28 AM, losthole said:

Don't have much to compare to because I'm only 22, but I do know that when I started using apps about 6 years ago saying I preferred raw meant less people would interact and some would even block me. Now, saying I require raw gets me just as much interaction if not more than not having it. Also, I've noticed it's usually the less attractive guys that outright refuse bareback – in other words: ugly people use condoms, hot people fuck raw. 

That said, in my experience, those tops that prefer raw still are concerned about the bottom's PrEP intake. So it's not carelessness, just realistic risk assessment.

If you are 22, I need to jump on a plane and hunt you down!

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I’ve noticed most of the guys whose profiles say “safe only”, “condoms required”, “ no bareback”all fuck raw.  None of those I’ve hooked up with wanted to discuss, pulled out a condom or asked for a condom. All put their hard raw cock right on in.

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12 minutes ago, ncbttm4bbfun said:

I’ve noticed most of the guys whose profiles say “safe only”, “condoms required”, “ no bareback”all fuck raw.  None of those I’ve hooked up with wanted to discuss, pulled out a condom or asked for a condom. All put their hard raw cock right on in.

There's a theory that it's a front in case with their friends see a horny but not sleazy profile. I've had some bad experiences of shitty msgs after random raw sex with guys complaining I wasn't safe with them! It's been too much hassle so I've gone back to anon cruising and sauna fucks with no follow-ups.

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55 minutes ago, ncbttm4bbfun said:

I’ve noticed most of the guys whose profiles say “safe only”, “condoms required”, “ no bareback”all fuck raw.  None of those I’ve hooked up with wanted to discuss, pulled out a condom or asked for a condom. All put their hard raw cock right on in.

My observation also

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I travel quite a bit and the answer is very location specific and tied directly to PrEP availability. 

In places like the USA I can't remember the last time anyone mentioned condoms and BB is the absolute normal again. 

In some euro countries where PrEP coverage is shaky you'll see a lot more condoms and BB is not quite the standard and needs to be negotiated. 

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