How long did it take from the moment you started liking men to when you felt brave to have sex?

[Sharp-edge]

I started realizing that something was attracting me towards other boys when I was very little. I was a kid I wouldn't understand (I'm 32 now). I liked their nipples I think. I had noticed that I enjoyed more being around boys than girls but there was nothing romantic, it just felt better. At 12/13 I started to actively like classmates. I was scared though. I didn't know what I could do if i had a naked man/boy in front of me. I would be scared. I had sex at 18.

Sometimes I think that for my case I would just need a man of my liking to be patient and teach me how man sex is made. I somehow feel sorry because I never had that experience.

[Bokkierob]

A year. I knew I liked men, not boys from when I was 13. I had no idea how to proceed so I’d hang around locker rooms at the pool or gym. I’d walk around naked in front of men I liked hoping that one of the men would be brave and horny enough to hit on me. At last a guy at the pool caught me staring at his cock. I noticed him staring back so I brushed up against his crotch. he started chatting to me and told me I had a nice body. I told him I liked his hairy chest and his big cock. that sealed the deal. He asked me to follow him back to his place. I went willlingly. Back at his, he undressed and I saw a man’s hard cock for the first time. He undressed me and massaged my body, ass, cock and balls. He asked me what I liked. I told him that this was my first time. He just muttered “oh fuck” He made me hold his cock and rub it. I said I liked that. Then he made me kneel in front of him and he told me to open my mouth. I was so excited. He put his cock in my mouth and told me to suck him. I did and I loved it. So did he. After only a few minutes he shot his load in my mouth. I wasn’t ready for how much sperm a man can shoot so I swallowed as much as I could but most of his load landed on my face. That was how I met my first Daddy. After a few visits I was swallowing his loads and a couple of weeks later he broke in my ass. So just over a year between knowing I liked men to swallowing loads and taking a cock up my ass

[MKSub24]

A brave move on your part Bokkierob. I spent nearly two years building up the courage to make a move on a mate who I thought was gay. We were camping together and one night after a few drinks we were settling in for the night and I reached over and rubbed his cock. He reacted badly, I had made a wrong assumption and the final two days of our camping holiday were spent with very little communication. I am still friends with the guy and we have never spoken a word about the incident since. That was over 30 years ago. It was a further 2 years before i had my first proper encounter with a gay man.

[Sharp-edge]

19 hours ago, Bokkierob said:

A year. I knew I liked men, not boys from when I was 13. I had no idea how to proceed so I’d hang around locker rooms at the pool or gym. I’d walk around naked in front of men I liked hoping that one of the men would be brave and horny enough to hit on me. At last a guy at the pool caught me staring at his cock. I noticed him staring back so I brushed up against his crotch. he started chatting to me and told me I had a nice body. I told him I liked his hairy chest and his big cock. that sealed the deal. He asked me to follow him back to his place. I went willlingly. Back at his, he undressed and I saw a man’s hard cock for the first time. He undressed me and massaged my body, ass, cock and balls. He asked me what I liked. I told him that this was my first time. He just muttered “oh fuck” He made me hold his cock and rub it. I said I liked that. Then he made me kneel in front of him and he told me to open my mouth. I was so excited. He put his cock in my mouth and told me to suck him. I did and I loved it. So did he. After only a few minutes he shot his load in my mouth. I wasn’t ready for how much sperm a man can shoot so I swallowed as much as I could but most of his load landed on my face. That was how I met my first Daddy. After a few visits I was swallowing his loads and a couple of weeks later he broke in my ass. So just over a year between knowing I liked men to swallowing loads and taking a cock up my ass

That is so great and I'm glad you had a positive experience. I don't know if I should have tried something similar back then. I suppose it can be also a cultura thing. 15 years ago when I was an adolescent I don't think I could have that outcome in a country like Greece. But I definitely needed a man like the one you described.

Did he wear a condom?

[BlueSaphir]

I knew at a young age. I had few crushes at high school. But obviously I never took the courage. They are straight boys who later on married to women now. I live in a small town throughout my childhood. So being gay was seen as unnatural for an extremely conservative town. 

Not until age 22 or 23? I let myself to meet someone online on xtube. I let that one guy took my virginity. Rest is history. 

I come to learned my town has some DL guys. Most are afraid of being ousted as a freak. 

[PozTalkAuthor]

You start by liking men, then continue your journey with LICKING men, and then... 

 

Seriously: my attraction for males started when I was 11-12, I assumed it was the affection for my stepfather and how coldly my biological father treated me. Then at 16 I had my first fake-boyfriend (just cuddles) until I turned 21 and it started by using my tongue on a man's body. The guy who's 20 years older than me and we are still friends.

[Sharp-edge]

13 minutes ago, PozTalkAuthor said:

You start by liking men, then continue your journey with LICKING men, and then... 

 

Seriously: my attraction for males started when I was 11-12, I assumed it was the affection for my stepfather and how coldly my biological father treated me. Then at 16 I had my first fake-boyfriend (just cuddles) until I turned 21 and it started by using my tongue on a man's body. The guy who's 20 years older than me and we are still friends.

you're right about that. I think the journey begins with licking. It's the tongue that pushes through

[PozTalkAuthor]

19 minutes ago, Sharp-edge said:

you're right about that. I think the journey begins with licking. It's the tongue that pushes through

 

I proudly label myself as "side-versatile" (anal is not the only phase of an erotic encounter).

When he started playing with his tongue on my ears, than neck, nipples, I was in heaven but when he began licking my hole I was his.

Same I did with my bf, he was labeling himself "straight" before. My current partner. As soon as my tongue accessed his hole, I had him. "I just turned 53 with dozens of women left behind, and know nothing about sex", he said. Now he's 55 and we still have the world ahead!

[Sharp-edge]

1 hour ago, PozTalkAuthor said:

 

I proudly label myself as "side-versatile" (anal is not the only phase of an erotic encounter).

When he started playing with his tongue on my ears, than neck, nipples, I was in heaven but when he began licking my hole I was his.

Same I did with my bf, he was labeling himself "straight" before. My current partner. As soon as my tongue accessed his hole, I had him. "I just turned 53 with dozens of women left behind, and know nothing about sex", he said. Now he's 55 and we still have the world ahead!

An interesting way to call yourself. At first I didn't enjoy bottom as well, I was a versatile dude. But I always felt that I needed at least a couple of guys to breed me despite not liking it that much, I needed the cum to take the seed.

[PozTalkAuthor]

7 minutes ago, Sharp-edge said:

An interesting way to call yourself. At first I didn't enjoy bottom as well, I was a versatile dude. But I always felt that I needed at least a couple of guys to breed me despite not liking it that much, I needed the cum to take the seed.

 

I have learnt about "sides" on a gay discussion group. They talked about some men who for whatever reason aren't not into penis-anus penetration - including people with whatever disability or, for example, who had a relationship being both total bottoms. 

And, why not, folks who having HIV were afraid to use their sexual organ thinking it was a danger.

Let me say "liking men and licking men" has allowed me to grow up in sexuality twice. The first male-on-male experience, and the first after-pozzing encounter. 

[Falls727]

I knew that I wanted cock from a very early age. I actually remember begging my father to touch his cock when I was six. He was hesitant but finally relented. I even remember putting the tip in my mouth. I’ve been a whore ever since. I’ve know what I want and I am not ashamed in getting it. There is such a primal need to fuck and get fucked.

[Bokkierob]

5 hours ago, Sharp-edge said:

That is so great and I'm glad you had a positive experience. I don't know if I should have tried something similar back then. I suppose it can be also a cultura thing. 15 years ago when I was an adolescent I don't think I could have that outcome in a country like Greece. But I definitely needed a man like the one you described.

Did he wear a condom?

No, he didn’t. He was patient with me and took care when he first penetrated me. He was soon fucking me regularly for almost 3 years and never wore a condom.

[Bokkierob]

23 hours ago, MKSub24 said:

A brave move on your part Bokkierob. I spent nearly two years building up the courage to make a move on a mate who I thought was gay. We were camping together and one night after a few drinks we were settling in for the night and I reached over and rubbed his cock. He reacted badly, I had made a wrong assumption and the final two days of our camping holiday were spent with very little communication. I am still friends with the guy and we have never spoken a word about the incident since. That was over 30 years ago. It was a further 2 years before i had my first proper encounter with a gay man.

I wasn’t really being brave. I was a horny kid with no experience so I looked for an older man who would take the lead and teach me. I did nothing except submit (willingly) to him.

[Sharp-edge]

1 hour ago, Bokkierob said:

I wasn’t really being brave. I was a horny kid with no experience so I looked for an older man who would take the lead and teach me. I did nothing except submit (willingly) to him.

Well I'm so jealous of that (in a positive way). I got fucked by a stranger when I was 18. I met him at an app, got into his car later that night, he fucked me in a beach. I asked him to use a condom, the condom broke (or he broke it) none of us cared. He said in time I will be able to control my asshole and open it at will.

[NBBTTM]

I like to say I found men later in life, and this is true.  But thinking back, earlier in life, finding my first Penthouse in a treehouse, it was the pictorials with anal sex, with big hard cocks that attracted me.  And the Forum stories involving anal sex. Particularly the ones with men discovering men, they always turned me on the most, for some reason. I started playing with my own ass around 12 or 13, not really picturing men, but just enjoying the sensations of anal penetration, loving feeling my ass being filled. I was always shy around women, and totally avoided being in men only situations as a kid, Always showered by myself in gym, solo sports, etc... I was also solo sexual, only by myself. Then, puberty....

 

 

Women became attracted to me. I would sleep with the interested one, always going for anal, I was always fascinated by the sensations they must feel, being penetrated anally. This was all in my 20s, my first years being sexually active. Always enjoying the sex, especially when they would play with my ass. And always watching porn.  I really started noticing the men then, their cocks, and how much pleasure that they were bringing the women when fucked in the ass. The connections between men and anal pleasure were forming in the back of my head, and curiosity was building. I would still play with my ass, still enjoying the sensations, but graduating to dildos and plugs for myself. And it was also the time that men began hitting on me. I was curious, but never enough to go through with anything. This was over a decade of activity.... 

 

Then, in the next few years of life, something changed in me. My own ass play became more frequent. I was flirting and teasing more with men online Cocks and anal porn became my focus, as I started wondering how a real cock would feel for the first times while playing deep. And after my GF asked if I was gay, and broke up with me, that's when I started seriously noticing men also. I started experimenting physically, sucking two cocks and being fucked bare by one of them on my first night out experimenting with gay sex. It was so long after my teens and the first curiosity about anal sex and men in general that it was eye opening, awakening something in my now 30ish year old self. I loved everything about my first man on man evening, being used for pleasure. I now knew that pleasure of a big hard cock penetrating, everything about it was intoxicating. And I kept experimenting... over the next few years, I was with women less and men more, discovering my attraction, what I liked, the smell the tastes of men and cock. My porn habits had changed from men fucking women in the ass to men fucking men in the ass.  I loved every new thing I discovered, but also tried to resist still, thinking I was just experimenting a little bit. I fought for a few years, denying, then fucking, denying then fucking. For years. Until I met up with one man. He wasn't particularly good looking, but I was attracted right away. He was passionate, and our connection was real and intense. I was attracted to a man.  

 

My fight is over. After so long, so many years, This site and everything I have discovered has made me realize I was always gay, just avoiding my reality... So long story.

 

Short version...30 some years.