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On 10/25/2024 at 8:37 AM, JamesL100 said:

Lube does the job and helps keep your inside ass in good condition ...

This is the main thing. You can't "strengthen" the walls of your rectum. So use lube, and if you use toys, make sure they're relatively smooth, or at least no more "rough" in texture than a man's cock. Veiny dildo yes, spiked dildo no.

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In addition to lube you need to TRAIN your hole.

Something needs to be in your hole every day.

Like @Pozguyinchi said, sleeping with a plug, it doesn't have to be big, makes a huge difference.

I follow a program much like going to the gym. Just like arm, leg, chest days for my hole I have width, depth, and speed days.

I detailed my own program here:

 

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Good lube and practice, learning to relax your hole. 

I like rough fucking, one of my regulars calls it "consensual rape." He introduced me to Boy Butter lube. It's coconut oil based so not safe for latex toys or condoms (lol what's a condom?), but it's not greasy at all, washes up with soap and water, won't stain sheets, stays slick for hours, smells like sun lotion.

Recently used it for the first time with another buddy of mine who doesn't rough fuck but has a beer can fat cock and can go for 3-4 rounds in an afternoon. When he was done for the day my hole was bruised and gaped. But no tears.

You can also get disposable "lube injectors" to shoot some up into your rectum which can help if you've got some well endowed buddies. They're also great to slick up your guts before a gangbang scene. Keeping your rectum slick will helping prevent the pulling that can become problems. Check sites that sell hardcore toys or cater to the fisting crowd.

Beyond that, the more often you bottom the more "hole control" you develop. And after a long fuck session or with multiple tops, self care is essential. A after a shower I'll apply a little Vaseline and work it into my hole with a finger if they really roughed me up, just to keep everything lubricated to prevent chafing while I walk.

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2 hours ago, BlindRawFucker1 said:

How does Boy Butter Lube taste?

Honestly, it doesn't have much flavor at all. Tastes like lube, is about all I can say. If you were thinking it would taste like a Pina Colada, I'm sorry to burst your bubble. It's not intended to be flavored.

Normally after my buddies are done using me, I like to suck their dick, limp or not, while I rub one out to finish myself off. It doesn't have anywhere near the strong soap taste that I get from silicone lube.

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On 10/25/2024 at 5:50 AM, Londoncumdump10 said:

Apart from douching. One of the things I have had a challenge with is anal canal tears. Does anyone have any suggestion on how to avoid this. Or how you can strengthen to avoid this from happening? 

Are you trying to stretch too wide too fast instead of building up or just not using enough lube?...........ive had anything and everything up my ass over xxx amount of years and never once had a tear........i think lube or lack of is your problem.

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I've had the same issue, 2 fissures in a year that took me out of service for months. I aways use LOTS of lube (love to have my hole wet and sloppy) and stretch with a plug before going to a bathouse right up until the time I get there. But yes, good points that I should have something in my hole every day to better prepare.

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