What is with some people

[Bottom Jim]

I was talking to this young guy and he wanted to come over and fuck He even said he was capable of two loads.

gave him address and he said he would be there at 10 

then he asked a whole lot of questions which I answered but become suspicious 

he then said he was nervous but okay

Then at 9:45 he just disappeared 

why go on a site (this was sniffies) if you really don’t want to have sex Stay off site 

[Loveitraw]

That's just hookup sites. Seems to be about 90% timewasters and 10% genuine guys. Have to wade through it to find something decent. I'm pretty good at filtering out the flakes but you can never avoid them all.

[Hole4u]

I bet he got off from the hunt for home and that’s why he ghosted you. Most guys just stroke to these dating sites and apps.

I had the opposite. I was going to a top’s house to be bred. Pic exchange, got the house number all that good stuff. As I was waiting to turn into his complex he calls me and says he saw me waiting to turn and got so excited he shot his load, so leave lol. 
 

The most annoying is when a guy is in a hotel and invites me over and won’t give a room number until you’re in the parking lot then ghost you when you arrive   

[backdoorjimmy]

18 hours ago, Bottom Jim said:

he then said he was nervous but okay

Then at 9:45 he just disappeared 

why go on a site (this was sniffies) if you really don’t want to have sex Stay off site 

Based on this, I'm guessing he wanted to go through with it. But when it hit him that his fantasy was about to become a reality, he panicked and ghosted you. I try not to take it personal when this happens. It used to piss me off (it still kinda does) but I try to remember how nervous I felt when I had my first anonymous hookup.

Sorry you got stood up

[bareback-flipflop]

Maybe there was something more or less accidental in his case - as some of the comments say. 
However, there are too many similar cases to be happen it every time accidentally. 
10/9 dates fail (disappearance, no answer anymore, deleted profile, I am banned)