Public Signs of Interest

[BlackDude]

I think I just missed another opportunity. This hot, middle aged, “rough” looking Russian type guy, tats and all, was in the grocery store. Hot as fuck, he crunches  down to get something off the bottom shelf to reveal no underwear under his grey sweats. Beautiful ass. I mean they were damn near falling off. He had to see me staring. I was going to make a joke about cooking or something but I froze. Obviously he has no woman at home: he’s in the grocery store struggling buying bread with ill filling clothes. 
 

My dick is so fucking hard: but bummed because I froze. 

[albentley]

On 12/2/2024 at 5:28 AM, BlackDude said:

I think I just missed another opportunity. This hot, middle aged, “rough” looking Russian type guy, tats and all, was in the grocery store. Hot as fuck, he crunches  down to get something off the bottom shelf to reveal no underwear under his grey sweats. Beautiful ass. I mean they were damn near falling off. He had to see me staring. I was going to make a joke about cooking or something but I froze. Obviously he has no woman at home: he’s in the grocery store struggling buying bread with ill filling clothes. 
 

My dick is so fucking hard: but bummed because I froze. 

You should have just said something non-sexual such as - this is a great shop isn't it - and then gauged his reaction.

[anonCUMtainer]

This is an excellent topic. I wish I had some wisdom or tips and pointers to leave behind here - but sadly I find I am in the same boat. Clueless.

I am actually wondering how often this happens.  By "this" I mean spontaneous hooking up by a chance public encounter.

How often am I missing the signs? Or do I just need to be more bold, and "go for it"? I think I am too shy or not sure how to handle the awkwardness to 'go for it" but I need to figure it out, wink.

Love you guys xoxo

[albentley]

9 hours ago, anonCUMtainer said:

This is an excellent topic. I wish I had some wisdom or tips and pointers to leave behind here - but sadly I find I am in the same boat. Clueless.

I am actually wondering how often this happens.  By "this" I mean spontaneous hooking up by a chance public encounter.

How often am I missing the signs? Or do I just need to be more bold, and "go for it"? I think I am too shy or not sure how to handle the awkwardness to 'go for it" but I need to figure it out, wink.

Love you guys xoxo

I think the problem is that you are overthinking it.  Just start a normal but very friendly conversation and see where it leads.  

[DNG999]

I only noticed once, and he made it pretty obvious. Sadly I wasn’t with the right company to respond 😞

 

Other than that I have no gaydar!

[hungry_hole]

Let's be honest. "Public Signs of Interest" is not an exact Science. 

It works better in a bathhouse where showing interesting in someone can be more obvious.

[bcbip]

I missed countless signals, but fortunately there were a few applicants who more clearly indicated that they were interested in me. I had an "action" with them, even if it was occasional.

[SmoothPinkHole]

Great topic.  One thing that I became aware of is that everyone feels the same way - that social queues are often unclear or confusing.  So, I take it upon myself to be a little more forward and clear.  Someone who is not interested most likely won't interpret your second look or a crotch-grab as anything other than a random movement.

[ffabbian]

Public signs of interest are easy to spot but most of them don't end up as a hook up. Who's got that much time? I certainly don't.  

It's all about eye contact and level of confidence. He likes what he sees when he maintains eye contact for 3 seconds or more: turning his head  to look at you when he walks past you, I always turn around after a couple seconds to see if he has:  sneeking several glances towards you: giving you a quick up and down  check. 

 When a shy guy  likes what he sees most became more shy. .whereas a confident guy will either remain so or become more confident especially when he gives me that wry smile when he notices me checking out his bulge. 

 I find it more confusing at gay venues especially  with guys that stare like they hate me but are actually interested. I never know till they appeoach me.