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Hey Guys, 

 

it occurred to me in the absence of having any top take a grip of me and develop me into the best version of a Cumdump I could be. That perhaps there are is potential mentors out there, that would support and help a sub in its development.

Does anyone out there be them Top or btm have a “mentor”. 

Or perhaps just even a like minded buddy that is into the same journey as yourself?

i tend to feel like I’m very much the lone wolf, and it might be quite good, to have a real life mentor or buddy that motivates me further

Or are we all destined lone wolves that only cum together at sleazy club and that go our separate ways again?

thoughts and feedback welcome.

 

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My very first boyfriend has been kind of "mentor" for male sex. We still are close friends. Then I have been the mentor for my current partner and I think we have a lot more to discover together, sexuality is an unexplored world even late in life.

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On 12/10/2024 at 11:34 PM, Thedogsbolloxxl2 said:

That perhaps there are is potential mentors out there, that would support and help a sub in its development.

That's an interesting topic, Thedogsbolloxx12, and thanks for posting it. 

Mentorship is relatively commonplace within the lives of those honoring the Leather Ethic.  I notice that you chose a photo to post of yourself in some  gear;  perhaps your closer to your answer than you might think.  

Those men who live the Leather Ethic know well that mentoring the less experienced is a most rewarding task.  I'm confident that there are organizations in London that would be a rich resource for you, when you decide to seek out that which interests you.  Do investigate Bluf* - as well as others.  I can guarantee you, there are Leathermen out there that find mentoring (a relative novice?) a supremely fulfilling task.  

I just googled organizations in London, and presto - a number of organizations popped up.  Remember, however:  the match between Mentor and mentor-ee must be carefully discussed (negotiated), so each man knows exactly what is anticipated and what is not.  

Good Luck !!!

*Breeches Leather Uniform Fan club.

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