Unwanted cum inside

[meetme]

I’m unable to wrap my head around “unwanted cum”.   Without exception, I’m so glad you’re fucking me I want you to cum in me. And I always answer the Are you clean/ok/safe question with Yes because if I said no he might not put his bare cock in me.  Shoot in me, and be glad the 4 men who shot in me before we me made me wet enough that you can easily get balls deep inside me before you inseminate me. And leave the door open when you leave, thanks

[norefusal]

12 minutes ago, meetme said:

I’m unable to wrap my head around “unwanted cum”.  

lol

i always struggle to answer these things in real time. 

2024 me is like " who the fuck refuses cum? sounds very niche" 

1984 me however is like "this is a fucking hate crime! any top who breeds wout consent belongs in jail!" 

don't think i'm the only older cumdump "making up for lost time" 😜

[tallslenderguy]

13 hours ago, topblkmale said:

 

I don't pull out.

I just don't put it in.

Next.

 

Agreed.  

Given the original question, i'm assuming it's not the Top having and orgasm inside of the bottom that the bottom is concerned about, but the question is having the Tops resulting "cum" inside?  I.e. a top wearing a condom may still have his orgasm inside of the bottom, but the seed is contained in the condom and doesn't go inside of the the bottom.  For me, a Tops orgasm and cum are different, though connected, and i want Him to plant them both inside of me. 

The bottom who doesn't want semen inside of him, in my opinion, has no right to expect bare sex. Anyone with the internet can learn in less than a minute that a bottom is at risk of infection from pre cum that often a part of fucking, though quantity varies from Top to Top. So, if the bottom in question is not totally ignorant, i think he should not expect to have bare sex with anyone he doesn't accept the risk of fluids inside of him as part of the connection 

As for the Top? i agree with topblkmale. If a bottom doesn't want a Breeding Males seed then to me, His cock doesn't belong in that bottom.

To me, a fuck without at least the potential of breeding, is not fucking. To me, the whole point is breeding... though i define "breeding" in a more detailed fashion than physical. For instance, a Top's desire to open, mold, penetrate, control, possess, etc., to me, are all forms of breeding... but that's another topic.  

[hntnhole]

15 hours ago, topblkmale said:

I don't pull out.

I just don't put it in.

I'm with topblkmale ....

If a bottom is in some fuckjoint where guys rawfuck each other, and doesn't want any cum in his Hole, then he should make that known before the fuck begins - not during, and obviously not after.  In some fuckjoints, all the action is raw ... every guy fucks/gets fucked raw.  

[partying.hard]

I make it very clear from the beginning:  I fuck raw.  And I don’t pull out.

However, I will respect a bottom who doesn’t want my load - by not even hooking up.  I’m not going to waste my time on him.

[hntnhole]

1 hour ago, tallslenderguy said:

So, if the bottom in question is not totally ignorant, i think he should not expect to have bare sex with anyone he doesn't accept the risk of fluids inside of him as part of the connection

Obviously.  And if the above "bottom" doesn't have the sense to tell the Top he doesn't want fulfillment, then he really is "totally ignorant".  

 

1 hour ago, tallslenderguy said:

The bottom who doesn't want semen inside of him, in my opinion, has no right to expect bare sex.

Also obviously.  There's only so much that one guy and expect of another guy - particularly in the fuckjoints.  

Whenever there are particular fetishes, requests, limits, etc in play, they simply must be shared before the action begins.  Anything less is unfair to at least one participant, and most likely both.  

[Fistedmike]

On 12/20/2024 at 1:43 AM, fuckyouraw777 said:

I just don't have sex with bottoms who won't let me cum in them...so much less hassle.

Exactly! I don’t let guys fuck me that will only do it with a condom. He damn well better breed me!

[UsefulPig]

On 12/20/2024 at 11:57 AM, partying.hard said:

I make it very clear from the beginning:  I fuck raw.  And I don’t pull out.

However, I will respect a bottom who doesn’t want my load - by not even hooking up.  I’m not going to waste my time on him.

Who would refuse your load?  I'd take anything you'd give and be grateful for the privilege.

[Davidc]

With all the bottoms I’ve met in the last 5 years “ Unwanted cum “ is just an Oxymoron