Preferred terms and derogatory names during sex talk

[max2001]

I love verbals when I'm getting it. "Slut" does a lot for me, and "boy". But anything to confirm I'm lower than them.

I was seeing a guy that had a girlfriend - just fellatio - who called me a bitch a lot which really turned me on.

No idea why  but as my name is Max, I've had a lad call me Maxy while we were getting it on, and only while we were getting it on -  and for some reason that's always been a turn on.

[LM10]

Being called a faggot, fag or pig really gets me turned on. When in a group situation, i always want to be talked about rather than to, and preferably referred to as "the fag" or "it" or "the hole". Verbal is good!

[jd13]

Homophobic abuse during sex, dehumanisation and all that: I love it. Call me faggot, fag, homo, slap me, spit on me, knock me about a bit while you're fucking me, call me boy, girl, bitch, say i'm just a hole or a cunt to you, something to cum in. Fuck yeah, I love all that. Lean into it, get creative, see how nasty your verbal can get with me. I'll take it, I'll love it.

But abuse or dehumanise me outside of sex? No fucking way: it's a wild thrill not a lifestyle.

[RobertBottomSlut]

On 2/5/2025 at 2:12 AM, BritishCumdump said:

I've got an Irish master who loves to call me faggot constantly,

Being called Faggot turns me on to no end. When I hear it, I feel that I’m going to be fucked by someone who really knows me. I get hard just typing it. 

[Bokkierob]

Definitely no fem names. I call Drew’s hole his hole, boy hole, fuck chute or arse. I never use derogatory names for him. He refers to my hole as man hole, or daddy hole. I call him boy, son or lad. He calls me dad, sir or boss. SO it’s like :Daddy, are you gunna breed my boy hole”. “Hell yeah son I’m gunna pump my load deep in yer fuck chute”. It works for us.

[Room4ustwo]

4 hours ago, jd13 said:

Homophobic abuse during sex, dehumanisation and all that: I love it. Call me faggot, fag, homo, slap me, spit on me, knock me about a bit while you're fucking me, call me boy, girl, bitch, say i'm just a hole or a cunt to you, something to cum in. Fuck yeah, I love all that. Lean into it, get creative, see how nasty your verbal can get with me. I'll take it, I'll love it.

But abuse or dehumanise me outside of sex? No fucking way: it's a wild thrill not a lifestyle.

Yes, the abuse is only while having sex.  It's hot while I'm getting videoed, and I can't answer myself because my mouth is full.

[BlueSaphir]

I don’t mind to be called fat, faggot by someone within the community. But I found I prefer to called slut, girl, bitch, cunt, puta 

Edited February 9 by BlueSaphir

[BadInBrooklyn]

On 2/6/2025 at 10:18 PM, Sfmike64 said:

See that's the thing. It's all just a game. Keeping it in perspective is the key.

Ya'll can't see me, but I'm quite short (5'7"). The other day this guy ran a stop sign and almost hit me. I flipped him off in my convertible (I had the top down) and he FOLLOWED ME to the dog park. Then he proceeded to call me faggot (first word out of his mouth of course). He was driving a stupid huge small dick pickup. Typical idiot male. Then he proceeded to insult my Fiat 500c (a fag car) and called me a short legged hobbit. Which is HILARIOUS. I do rather look like a hobbit, but I take that as a compliment. Hobbits are cool. 

Did any of this upset me? ROFL! Of course not! I've been out for 44 years and nothing a macho twit like that says can hurt me. Would it have hurt me at 16? Sure. But I'm an adult man now and some people are just insecure idiots.

All that said.....if I was feeling subby and a hot man wanted to fuck me and called me a dirty fag, it would make my cock hard and I'd lube up my cunt. 😈

LOL I love it.  I once had an altercation in a parking lot where a guy called me a "four-eyed BMW driving freak".

I was wearing Ray-Bans and driving a Volkswagen Rabbit.

[KindaBasic]

Being called names is a big turnoff. Not because I am thin-skinned, but because I can’t take the other person seriously. 

[hntnhole]

It all depends on how the remarks are delivered (assuming good-will on both guy's part).  

When the filthiest, most depraved conversation is delivered in the right way, it's more likely they'll shoot their loads than shrivel their dicks.  Even in the fuckjoints, a bottom's Lusts can become even more whorish - wanton - pervectly "filthy", particularly when his Lusts are endorsed in the right way by others.  

Tops:  try this next time you're in some fuckjoint:  tell the bottom you want next that you've been watching him - even though your Cock may have been up some other guy's Hole - and you can tell how much he loves what he does - how beautifully he takes loads, blah blah blah ..... it's like pouring gas on a fire. 

Bottoms:  Tell the guy you want next how much you love hard raw Cock up your gut - how thrilled you are when it pumps even more sperm up your cumHole, how you can never get enough hard raw Cock.  If there's enough light, look the Top in the eye as  you say it - no embarrassed giggle, no smirk on your face - just a guile-less, statement of plain old fact.  As though you're saying 1 + 1 = 2.  No gilding the lily - just a plain, genuine, matter-of-fact series of statements.  

[SamCummyCunt]

I like hearing myself called "bitch" and "can I get a turn at your bitch" drives me bananas. the top may sometimes look at me for approval but I prefer if they just answer for me. 😈

 

Edited February 10 by SamCummyCunt