Made me LOL

[NWUSHorny]

5 minutes ago, hntnhole said:

All these replies are perfect reasons to stick to the fuckjoints. 

Pay the freight, go in and get it taken care of, and then go home.  No problems, just the fun part.  

I'd rather pay their admission to a fuck venue or rent a cheap motel room than bring them into my home if I don't know them. Of course if the weather is nice I have no problem with a secluded outdoors spot.

[partying.hard]

Many guys in NYC and SF don’t have cars, but are used to public transit or Uber.  LA you need a car.

 

so, I see a geographic commonality.

[jd13]

21 hours ago, partying.hard said:

I seldom host at home. I have had more men in me than I have had in my home. Theft is real. If I’m hosting, unless I know someone really really well, I’ll get a cheap sleazy motel room.

This, exactly this. Theft is real. Abuse and violence by visitors to your own home are real.

Also, I live with my husband. We're totally committed and completely open. He's more poly and into love connections, and I'm the one who lets anyone fuck and breed me. So out of respect for the fact that this is our home, and I don't even swap names before they fuck me, I don't bring guys home. He knows and understands my hyper-sex-drive, but that's the only price I have to pay for constantly exercising it. Good news is, lots of guys round here can host or like to fuck outdoors so I'm all in

As for those who don't trust adults who don't host... well, often there are good reasons. That's all.

Edited Saturday at 07:45 PM by jd13

[WorkJack]

15 hours ago, Sfmike64 said:

I'm with you. People stole from me frequently when I was doing drugs. I finally started doing it in my basement (with no access to the rest of the house) to stop them stealing my stuff.

I wish I had a separate room like that. I keep thinking of building a detached garage with a "sleepout" just for hookups.

[NWUSHorny]

16 minutes ago, partying.hard said:

LA you need a car.

LA and cities in TX are the exception among larger North American cities in that regard. Most larger cities have a significant population that do not have immediate access to a car.

[hntnhole]

I don't think I'm all that suspicious of guys at home .... I don't think I've ever been ripped off, either. 

I have a ton of gear though, so maybe, and I just don't know it yet .... 

[norefusal]

19 hours ago, topblkmale said:

 

Come to New York. There are many grown men who don't drive.

Some will come to your home and steal the crack outta your ass if its not locked up.

Then there are those who show up with large backpacks, head straight to your bathroom and lock themselves inside.

Then there is the guy who will 'accidently' leave something behind at your place as a premise to show up - possibly unannounced - at a later date.

Come to New York.

 

i lived in nyc for 24 years and no hook up ever stole so much as a penny off the floor from me. i must be blessed 😜

and of course we all got our own way around the big apple. my driving comment was in reference to my current 100% car dependent city. some guys will uber or even walk to me if i host. i'm judging 40something yo men who ask me to come pick them up take them to mine then drop them back home after like im morgan freeman or something. even then it was at least miss daisey's car! 😜

[NWUSHorny]

I don't know that I've ever actually been ripped off, but I just prefer that we have at least a couple of fucks in a neutral location before I let them know where I live, and getting ripped off isn't the only reason.

[Erik62]

On 3/15/2025 at 9:22 AM, partying.hard said:

Oh, the unpleasant stories I can tell.

But, I really do think that everything else 🍆💉💦💦💦♨️💪(LoL) more than adequately compensated for the unpleasantness (LoL😂😂😂) . 

 

[ffabbian]

I got a kick taking a hook up or 2 back to mine when I was living my parents that didn't know I was gay

[foryouruse]

I live next door to a DA whose house is under 24 hour police surveillance. We are friends but partying is a no-no so I don’t bring guys home. I also haven’t always made the best date choices so I really don’t want to bring guys home anyway given some of the things that have happened on dates (theft, phone cloning, etc.). Worse, I share a nice brick wall with my other neighbors and I hear everything from conversations to sounds to kids in their bedroom…I really don’t want to live with what they’d hear from my bedroom.

[foryouruse]

On 3/15/2025 at 4:07 PM, norefusal said:

i lived in nyc for 24 years and no hook up ever stole so much as a penny off the floor from me. i must be blessed 😜

and of course we all got our own way around the big apple. my driving comment was in reference to my current 100% car dependent city. some guys will uber or even walk to me if i host. i'm judging 40something yo men who ask me to come pick them up take them to mine then drop them back home after like im morgan freeman or something. even then it was at least miss daisey's car! 😜

Funny, but I never drove when I partied ever. I find myself Ubering everywhere now and only put 40 miles on my cars last year. I just don’t know how guys are able to drive after partying. I’ve gotten rid of both of them this year, but I had to replace the gas tank in one after the gas turned to varnish. I couldn’t live and play in a state I had to drive after playing though. I would always be worried about having an accident or getting pulled over.

Edited 15 hours ago by foryouruse

[YourNoLimitsBottom]

I don't host unless I know the guy. And I mean "we've been together (dating) or at least friends for a while" kind of knowing. The area I live in has too many bottoms that are desperate for a fuck, going as far as pretending to be tops to lure you in. I don't want some horny bottom desperate for a cock-fix banging on my door whenever they get the urge and refusing to leave.