The ‘ick’.

[cumdumpbear]

Just wondering - what gives you guys the ick? What’s the thing where you go from “I’m really horny for you” to “nope”? 
 

Mine is if a guy asks me if I’m “clean”. It’s 2025, fucking educate yourself. 
 

Also, and this is more in places like London that at home, it’s when you’re chatting to a guy for a while then they mention some kind of payment. Be up front about it from the beginning so we’re not wasting time.  
 

Or guys who can’t get themselves to / from a meet under their own steam. I’m not running Uber here! 
 

I’m sure I have others… I once dumped a guy I was sort of seeing because we went for a curry (I wasn’t bottoming that night!) and he karate chopped the poppadoms in a Miss Piggy stylee!

[topblkmale]

 

Adult men who lack basic hygiene - like unkempt hair and facial hair, no oral hygiene, body odor, untrimmed fingernails and toenails. Basics.

 

[NWUSHorny]

"Let's cuddle 1st" 

"Let's cuddle all night"

I seem to live in the cuddle capital of the world, the cuddling fad seems to be dying off a little bit, but for last couple of years I got a lot of invitations to cuddle and not fuck.

 

[FFBBTTMBOI]

I have a few…

The first is insecure guys who create shopping lists of superficial traits as reasons to put others down instead of accepting people as they are with some empathy. 
 

Second is people turning a light hearted topic into an opportunity to get all self riotous and condescending.

Third is irony and sarcasm.

Forth is bad teeth. 😆

[Pumpinmyhole]

3 hours ago, NWUSHorny said:

"Let's cuddle 1st" 

"Let's cuddle all night"

 

This is only allowed between fucks.  

[SFCumdog]

People who create profiles that are longer than War & Peace.

This ridiculous concept of Side? I mean really, either you want to fuck, or you don't.

And guys who have turned their places into a rabbit warren of spaces carved out of piles of junk. 

[NWUSHorny]

58 minutes ago, SFCumdog said:

People who create profiles that are longer than War & Peace.

This ridiculous concept of Side? I mean really, either you want to fuck, or you don't.

Aren't these the same? They know 1001 ways to have the greatest sex ever, where no one has to even touch anyone else's icky dick, yet they have to explain it in detail.

Edited May 6, 2025 by NWUSHorny

[PozBearWI]

TBH I would rather an in-person demonstration than a written account.

[Erik62]

Only ever happened once but, a young, 30 something, asked "why did I get AIDS 🤔🙄?". I looked at him as if..... (I'm not quite sure how I did look at him). 

    Anyway, as tactfully as I could (NOT), I just said, "I'm HIV Poz, not AIDS & Guys fuck me & leave my hole full of cumm💦💦💦". I had to go & find a cock to fuck me. 

[cumdumpbear]

15 hours ago, SFCumdog said:

People who create profiles that are longer than War & Peace.

This ridiculous concept of Side? I mean really, either you want to fuck, or you don't.

And guys who have turned their places into a rabbit warren of spaces carved out of piles of junk. 

Chat GPT has a lot to answer for! 

[ScottishBoy]

Being all talk and when it comes to it, not being able to get past a semi

[SugarCaneDaddy]

Smells from lack of hygiene and "this is is my first time with a black guy"...I just get up leave 

[RubberAustria]

On 5/5/2025 at 7:16 PM, topblkmale said:

 

Adult men who lack basic hygiene - like unkempt hair and facial hair, no oral hygiene, body odor, untrimmed fingernails and toenails. Basics.

 

Completely agree. If you get messy at a sex club or piss-party it’s ok. But not in your normal life.

[RawNYTop]

Guys who guy on political rants in their profiles.

Instant boner killer.

[Falls727]

Body odour, a rancid asshole, and clots of smegma turn me off. I like some musk and sweat, but I draw the line with the above three.