Why do I like being watched and shared?

[Falls727]

I love watching other guys get bred. I especially like to be watched when I’m getting railed by a couple of guys. It encourages other horny men to join in and pretty soon my asshole is dripping with seed. I done this before when I’ve been in a sling at the bathhouse. It’s the sights, smells, and noises that ensure you will get fucked and bred.

[Cumluver99]

I absolutely luv being watched take loads in my pussy will fuck anyone anywhere 

[ffWhole]

I would say that my progression to a full blown cum slut, wanted to be whored out and used is at a point that I cannot live without.
Saunas so far are my go to places...
I haven't had the chance to special breeding parties, but I hope to add this to my list of venues as well... In a private session with a friendly couple I was filmed and that was a definite added bonus.
But I prefer larger groups. I am an exhibitionist and love group sex, so I love being watched and having other guys join in. I have this insatiable need for feeling the need being used. Verbal interaction between the tops - what a cum dump I am, and that I should get loaded up and used as a filthy cum collector is driving me crazy by the thought alone already.

[hntnhole]

5 hours ago, phillygwm said:

if I'm speaking to/directing/coaching the top

Interesting .... Do you get an invitation (from the Top) first?  Or just start the "directing/coaching" without waiting for one?

[phillygwm]

5 hours ago, hntnhole said:

Interesting .... Do you get an invitation (from the Top) first?  Or just start the "directing/coaching" without waiting for one?

To clarify, it's usually not an entirely anonymous situation.  I can see where that might be unwelcome 🙂  I don't do baths or sex clubs often.

If it IS among a group where I don't know anyone, which frankly doesn't happen as often at this point in my life, I might talk to the guy but I wouldn't say I'm exactly giving orders/direction.

Edited Saturday at 01:16 AM by phillygwm

[hntnhole]

18 hours ago, phillygwm said:

To clarify, it's usually not an entirely anonymous situation

Ahhhhhhh .... then I understand better.  The scene (as I initially read it) wouldn't get any guy very far in most fuckjoints.  I was imagining that scene in a place like Slammer - and a "bossy bottom" wouldn't get very far - at all. 

Breeding with friends / acquaintances would be exponentially different - friends/buddies sating each other's lusts with a base-line of mutual friendship is a whore-se of an entirely different color.  Thanks for that explanation.  

[Watch-me-share-me]

On 7/6/2025 at 4:01 PM, gaypigbb said:

Piggy group sex is such an amazing thing! It's sensoric overload with everything floating together into a mix of liquids, touch, movement, sounds, taste and smell. Add the emotional stuff of anticipation, lust, pleasure, + +, and it becomes the most fantastic experience that it is. I love it. The more everything floats, the better. When I don't really know (or care) what cock is where, what hole i lick, what enters my holes, how much spit and cum covers my throat and face. 

 

Being shared in a setting like this just heightens the experience even more. You add the emotional aspect of the guy whoring you out, his expectations and approval, his lust and pleasure. And of course the social power dynamics. 

 

Wow I love group sex!!

It is all of what you have had said! I think I get to totally let go and yes, enjoy all the different cocks, tastes, holes, and spit (I love spit). I just let go and indulge in being a cum Pig. My fuck buddy love to get a big hit of poppers and we breathe it back and forth among each other. 

It's such an intense hit and it drives me wild. After that I just give myself to the group.

[Watch-me-share-me]

On 7/6/2025 at 10:13 PM, kinkysuBB said:

The religious angle is interesting. I live what used to be a very conservative Catholic society (Ireland). Beginning with my parents generation that started to shift and in my lifetime things have swung very much the other way, so much so that we’re now one of the most liberal countries in Europe. We’re not Berlin level but we’re level of ahead of most places in terms of live and let live.

It’s a slightly different situation for you I think. As a Mormon in (I assume) the USA, you’d have been part of a conservative group in an overall liberal nation (I know the USA is a big place and there’s nuance and geography to this, but overall America was a lot more liberal than Ireland anyway until relatively recently). So it’s probably a personal liberation for you and finding your place in a bigger society that allows for that?

Unfortunately the Catholic guilt thing is still big here, particularly among older men (not ancient, anyone who grew up in the 80s or before). And it’s a small place with few degrees of separation between people and word travels fast so even younger guys have a level of discretion you don’t find in bigger cities and countries. Guys are more timid about joining in on this type of sex, particularly if cameras are involved or big groups where they might end up knowing somebody. That probably doesn’t apply to you outside your old Mormon circle, in which case enjoy that and run with it! 

I am submissive and there something beautiful about giving myself completely to the group of men who are there to breed me. I had not through of that, so much and it's nice to reflect on it. There is also something about going to a sex club, or Daddies house that I don't know, and by not knowing who there are, I can surrender my hole and let them use me. 

My fuck buddy also encourages me to do this, as he knows what I won't deep down ( We've talk a lot about what we both want). 

On the religious aspect. I think I can put it to one side when I'm in this scenario and allows me to really play out my deep desires. 

[Watch-me-share-me]

On 7/8/2025 at 3:20 AM, theplayerking said:

It’s the most complete way for a gay man to own his sexuality and be proud of it.
 

 

It is sometimes this simple. It is about owning my sexuality and enjoying it as well! 

[Watch-me-share-me]

On 7/9/2025 at 6:25 AM, hntnhole said:

I know this kind of mating ritual isn't available everywhere, but that doesn't mean guys can't aspire to deepening their sexual acts to match their lusts.  Reading these responses only makes a guy all the hornier to get out there and jump into the pool of writhing, breeding men.  

To those who live in more restrictive areas, it might be up to you to advance the possibilities for other, more repressed rawmen.  If you can possibly manage it, why not start a group of men dedicated to pigsex in your area?  Start small - maybe a handful of guys - word will spread, and more will turn up.  Tell the attendee's to tell other guys they know.  Once we taste the sweetness of sating our lusts (however temporarily), the impetus is already there. For men like us, there's hardly a bigger thrill than sharing ourselves with those just like us.  

Nothing comes of nothing, right?  Why not try it?  

So beautifully described! It is a mating ritual,  not a way I had thought about it but now that you mention it it is fantastically, beautiful, filthy and hot.

Giving into your lust is also extremely satisfying and it's like feeding that sexual hunger that I have previously tonight because of. My religious are bringing.

[Watch-me-share-me]

On 7/9/2025 at 6:43 AM, norefusal said:

it's the perfect marriage of praise and degradation

you're shared because you're just that good, but you're passed around like an object

they talk openly about how hot you are, but not to you, in front of you, to each other, like you're not even there 

but its not shameful because you're just living your truth, you're a shameless slut 

 

Yes, the idea of being passed around like an object is so sexually encouraging. And your description about the praise and degradation is spot on. 

I have had several occasions where they're talking about me but not to me while they're in the sling room together.

I remember  it quite vividly and it was like I was being spoken about as an object, but yet it was filthy,  beautiful and made me want to be more of a better Pig bottom.

[Warmnsalty]

Being watched takes things to a whole other level. I LOVE sucking and getting fucked, I'm submissive, it's all about a guy using my holes for his pleasure. I love feeling like a slut just there to be used, one on one is great but add another person or people watching and it's a whole other level. Went to a party last weekend, As soon as I walked into one of the rooms a guy comes over and asks if I bottom, I said I'm all bottom and grabbed his cock. He said then bend over, I bent over the bed, he lubed up and mounted me. His first full thrust I moaned and said fuck ya and looked up, three guys were watching. I laid there, enjoying the thick cock that was fucking me. Dude used me for 5 min or so then pulled out and said I need to stop, don't wanna cum yet. Fuck I hate parties for that reason, so many guys waiting to cum. Oh well, I stayed in position and watched as one of the watchers came over and took his place. Love looking into others eyes while cock is in my ass, telling the top how good he feels. A third guy fucked me, none of them came but loved being used for all to see. After #3 I got off the bed and went to check out another room. Can't wait till this weekend to do it all again. 

[verbalBTTM]

5 hours ago, Watch-me-share-me said:

So beautifully described! It is a mating ritual,  not a way I had thought about it but now that you mention it it is fantastically, beautiful, filthy and hot.

Giving into your lust is also extremely satisfying and it's like feeding that sexual hunger that I have previously tonight because of. My religious are bringing.

I wonder if it's releasing rather than giving in to. Do we surrender to our passions or do we realize they need to be let out to give a ying to the yang of our lives. After many men blow there loads a post nut clarity appears, perhaps because much like our garbage bins they need to be emptied or else an overflow happens. 

Speaking from some experience, men who are put in chastity begin to go nuts due to an inability to release that overflow. The level of need severely increases to new heights, much like a hunger. Perhaps that's a reason why we consider pumping a load into a fellow man to be a sacred act that we all appreciate. 

Leaving the philosophy aside, it's fucking hot to watch and be watched in any role. That communal reassurance that a room full of pigs offers us is beyond words and feeds upon itself. There's a rhythm to an orgy almost like a communal dance or a choir. The bigger the better and we all know that on a fundamental level as if it comes from the aether.