Anyone else notice a big uptick in racist and misogynist rhetoric in cruising?

[NWUSHorny]

I haven't noticed it, but as a white guy I might not notice.

[norefusal]

i live in So New England and i have not noticed any uptick in the good old "no fats, no fems, no asians" stand by that the gay community can't seem to ever shake. 

what i have seen go wild is the whole "use me like im not even human" fetish. it used to be just "cumdump collecting loads, contact me and if a fit i'll send dets" now it's   "took a sedative and about to pass out. here's address. door unlocked all night anyone invited to come breed me while i sleep" like WTF 

one guy used to post every weekend that he was hosting ass up door open. then it was every night. now other guys are posting "hey, heading over to breed the (town name) cumdump. who wants to come tag team w me?" 😮he went from weekend party boy to tourist attraction in just a few years. 

[hntnhole]

I haven't really noticed this - at least in my favorite fuckjoint.  

In the darkroom, no one can see anyone; it's just rut in a hole, switch to another one, etc.  And, in the rest of the joint, I can't say I've noticed any negative behavior relative to race, or any other divisive qualities. 

There are some guys that eat way too much, but that's a choice, not a racial or misogynistic thing.  

[Iker80]

On 1/21/2026 at 8:06 PM, norefusal said:

what i have seen go wild is the whole "use me like im not even human" fetish. it used to be just "cumdump collecting loads, contact me and if a fit i'll send dets" now it's   "took a sedative and about to pass out. here's address. door unlocked all night anyone invited to come breed me while i sleep" like WTF 

Yeah, lots more guys now wanting to get beat and fucked rough, or fucked like you don't like them. Not an energy I feel so kind of don't get it first hand, but each to their own. Sucks though messaging a hot guy I want to roll around with, kiss, make love and he's coming back with "spit on me while you call me names". Guess it can't always be a match!

[blackholeson]

Nothing new to me, being a bottom while black. I was once told "what a waste of black dick," among other things.

And I might be a little guilty of the misogyny thing, admittedly, but I'm gay because I enjoy the feel and fill of a MAN, and for all the times I've been ignored or fucked with just for being black, I think it's fair for me to politely reject the fem twink with painted nails that assumed I was a top for reasons I can't possibly imagine 🤷🏾‍♂️

My area has a growing crowd of "straight men," transgendered, and cross dressers who can all be incredibly rude when approached by a gay man on a gay app. Between that, my own habits, and the usual BS, finding some dick to juice me up has been way more of a hassle than it needs to be...

Also, hello; I'm new here and tend to lurk but I guess I'm feeling some type of way (other than horny) 😅

[BareBack35]

2 hours ago, blackholeson said:

Nothing new to me, being a bottom while black. I was once told "what a waste of black dick," among other things.

And I might be a little guilty of the misogyny thing, admittedly, but I'm gay because I enjoy the feel and fill of a MAN, and for all the times I've been ignored or fucked with just for being black, I think it's fair for me to politely reject the fem twink with painted nails that assumed I was a top for reasons I can't possibly imagine 🤷🏾‍♂️

My area has a growing crowd of "straight men," transgendered, and cross dressers who can all be incredibly rude when approached by a gay man on a gay app. Between that, my own habits, and the usual BS, finding some dick to juice me up has been way more of a hassle than it needs to be...

Also, hello; I'm new here and tend to lurk but I guess I'm feeling some type of way (other than horny) 😅

 

2 hours ago, blackholeson said:

Nothing new to me, being a bottom while black. I was once told "what a waste of black dick," among other things.

And I might be a little guilty of the misogyny thing, admittedly, but I'm gay because I enjoy the feel and fill of a MAN, and for all the times I've been ignored or fucked with just for being black, I think it's fair for me to politely reject the fem twink with painted nails that assumed I was a top for reasons I can't possibly imagine 🤷🏾‍♂️

My area has a growing crowd of "straight men," transgendered, and cross dressers who can all be incredibly rude when approached by a gay man on a gay app. Between that, my own habits, and the usual BS, finding some dick to juice me up has been way more of a hassle than it needs to be...

Also, hello; I'm new here and tend to lurk but I guess I'm feeling some type of way (other than horny) 😅

I think it’s so hard to be black & gay I’m a top & guys blow me off & treat me like less of a person I understand we’re ur coming from 

Edited 13 hours ago by BareBack35