How many men have you had sex with?

[PGHBttmBear]

I’ve been out since 1984, so I have no clue. From around 1991 to 1995 I was averaging around 1 man per day, so that right there is well over 1,000. 

[NWUSHorny]

No where near enough. 

[VistaCaBB]

I had wished I had kept a written journal but way too late now.  Been doing this for 32 years now. 

[Njn0mc]

So for 2026 I think 6 total

 I was a bit wasted most of the night.

[PozToxVersPig]

Between 7500-12500 according to a carefully thought through excel spreadsheet my buddy since the age of 15 (who has largely similar experiences up to 35) created one night while drinking.

[leatherpunk16]

188 last I counted. That might seem low, but I had sex with many of these men a number of times. 

[4back]

I started so late and met my partner soon after so even counting oral it’s less than 20.

I’m jealous of just the pure variety and novelty you get when you are in the triple digits. Sounds like a good time.

[pdmiller1172]

Between 1200 to 1500

[NWUSHorny]

I'm sure that it has to be well over 5,000 but probably less than 10,000, but could be more. I know I've had a lot of repeats, I keep hooking up with guys that remember my name from a previous fuck that I don't remember fucking.

[Pozzible]

1 hour ago, PozToxVersPig said:

Between 7500-12500 according to a carefully thought through excel spreadsheet my buddy since the age of 15 (who has largely similar experiences up to 35) created one night while drinking.

My god. You really are my idol. 

I haven’t a clue how many for me. I just know that I’ve come a long way (and a lot of times) since my college days when my best friend and I could name every person the other had fucked. About 25 guys back then. But I had only been out for about a year. Now, I’m not sure I could even estimate + or - to within a thousand. But I’ll try.  3500?

[curiouslooker]

2 hours ago, PozToxVersPig said:

Between 7500-12500 according to a carefully thought through excel spreadsheet my buddy since the age of 15 (who has largely similar experiences up to 35) created one night while drinking.

Bravo! Well done

[PozToxVersPig]

46 minutes ago, Pozzible said:

My god. You really are my idol. 

I haven’t a clue how many for me. I just know that I’ve come a long way (and a lot of times) since my college days when my best friend and I could name every person the other had fucked. About 25 guys back then. But I had only been out for about a year. Now, I’m not sure I could even estimate + or - to within a thousand. But I’ll try.  3500?

Just now, curiouslooker said:

Bravo! Well done

Had you asked me back at the outset how many people it might one day be, I wouldn't have ever thought of this number?  I also didn't target myself towards achieving something like that.  

I've had the same friend, since 15, and we largely mirrored each others sexual activity from that age until I moved away in 15 (then after that just in separate states).  We were talking on the phone and a post like this had come up on BZ, and I asked him "do you know your body count?"  His response "getting fucked, fucking, oral also?)  we zeroed in on anal (top or bottom).  We build an excel spreedsheet with every quarter of the year listed over that time period, estimated a weekly average (it changed during certain years/times of year), then added "bonuses" or events that we could remember (going to Folsom, Cumunions, sex parties...).

We both knew it was going to be high but I don't think we thought it would be that high.  We waited to add up the column until the end.  The range came from us questioning our weekly average during certain times....I generally stick with 8000-9000 which is 4-5 a week for 31 years which spread the "EVENTS" over the average.  Even at 3 a week which is for sure low, that's still about 5000.

So it was a math exercise more than anything...

[curiouslooker]

2 minutes ago, PozToxVersPig said:

Had you asked me back at the outset how many people it might one day be, I wouldn't have ever thought of this number?  I also didn't target myself towards achieving something like that.  

I've had the same friend, since 15, and we largely mirrored each others sexual activity from that age until I moved away in 15 (then after that just in separate states).  We were talking on the phone and a post like this had come up on BZ, and I asked him "do you know your body count?"  His response "getting fucked, fucking, oral also?)  we zeroed in on anal (top or bottom).  We build an excel spreedsheet with every quarter of the year listed over that time period, estimated a weekly average (it changed during certain years/times of year), then added "bonuses" or events that we could remember (going to Folsom, Cumunions, sex parties...).

We both knew it was going to be high but I don't think we thought it would be that high.  We waited to add up the column until the end.  The range came from us questioning our weekly average during certain times....I generally stick with 8000-9000 which is 4-5 a week for 31 years which spread the "EVENTS" over the average.  Even at 3 a week which is for sure low, that's still about 5000.

So it was a math exercise more than anything...

I love how you built a spreadsheet for this, true commitment to the discussion with your friend. 🤣😂

[Pozzible]

15 minutes ago, PozToxVersPig said:

build an excel spreedsheet with every quarter of the year listed over that time period, estimated a weekly average (it changed during certain years/times of year), then added "bonuses" or events that we could remember (going to Folsom, Cumunions, sex parties...).

Wish I had started something like this from the beginning. But then, Excel came along decades later. 

[CCbttm]

Total of partners? A dozen or so well before I should have, then a long dry spell until I was 21, started off slow, maybe a new guy every 3 weeks for about half a year. Then a new one every week until I was about 23, and then until 27 it was a blur of 5~6 guys a week on regular ones, maybe 8-10on a good one. It's up there ny normal standards but probably average for a slut. Been on a long dry spell now at 32, and am probably about to start going raging cumdump mode for a bit because the thirst is becoming unbearable.