Questions that don't deserve their own thread

[Cutedelicategay]

Only ever taken my late husband's cock; from being a virgin, until his ski accident death. His cum leaking out was our ritual. Grief keeps me mostly solo, but have opened up to one other man since but these questions hit home from a one-cock lifetime perspective. I maybe able to answer these questions after my Amsterdam and Berlin trip for 10 days in end of March 😆 

1. Tops skipping spanks on red ass: He rarely spanked—preferred deep grips and eye contact while breeding. Some tops stop once it's red to avoid real pain, shifting to pinning and internal pounding instead.

2. Groups/depravity appeal: Never done it, but the pull is total surrender—multiple loads, raw chaos to escape the void. Depravity yes, but mostly numbing grief.

3. "You're tight" gasps: Real, not BS. Even after years of his nightly breeding, he'd still moan how snug I gripped him. Hole stays responsive with emotion and muscle memory.

4. Grinding deep on cum: He always buried balls-deep, hips circling as he throbbed and flooded me. Said it planted seed deepest, maximized every pulse without risk of slipping. Made me shoot hands-free.

5. Balls-deep, full pull-out, repeat: Loved the visual/sensation—hole gaping empty, then that tight pop and slide back in. Felt like claiming me anew each thrust.

6. Bad days on a bottom: Never—he stayed tender, fucked slow and deep for comfort, not anger.

7. Orgasm ranking (my experiences):

   - a. Cumming while fucked: #1—prostate milked, untouched load while he bred me. Soul-deep.

   - b. Edging then cum: Intense solo buildup, but lonelier now.

   - c. Cumming in ass: Never topped.

   - d. From BJ: Nice quick release, no comparison to being filled.

Miss him constantly. Hole still feels like his. 

Edited February 6 by Cutedelicategay

[hntnhole]

2 hours ago, openjock74 said:

Is that true or bs that tops just say?

I don't think Tops "just say" x, y, or z.  Generally, we'll say what occurs in that particular moment, and often it's complementary (in a slutty sense) of the bottom.  The hotter the bottom is for the load, the better the fuck.  

For instance:  "your hole feels great - you've been taking a lot of loads and it tastes/feels fantastic" ... "you're a first class breedboy, aren'tcha" ... "what a hot cumdump ... your hole is beautiful after taking all those loads" .... on and on .... 

Now.  It may well be that Tops who adore cumdumps will say stuff like the above to fan the fires of breedlust in the bottom ... the hotter the bottom is for more cocks/loads, the better the fuck for the Tops.  That kind of breed-talk can backfire, but in the sleazier fuckjoints it'll almost always result in a hotter fuck.  

Point:  Tops, skip the "you're so handsome" / what a beautiful tan / how long have you been working out?/ what a gorgeous smile/ bullshit.  The bottoms want hard raw cocks pumping loads up their guts more than anything else.  

[yoursinmine]

On 2/6/2026 at 11:59 AM, hntnhole said:

I don't think Tops "just say" x, y, or z.  Generally, we'll say what occurs in that particular moment, and often it's complementary (in a slutty sense) of the bottom.  The hotter the bottom is for the load, the better the fuck.  

For instance:  "your hole feels great - you've been taking a lot of loads and it tastes/feels fantastic" ... "you're a first class breedboy, aren'tcha" ... "what a hot cumdump ... your hole is beautiful after taking all those loads" .... on and on .... 

Now.  It may well be that Tops who adore cumdumps will say stuff like the above to fan the fires of breedlust in the bottom ... the hotter the bottom is for more cocks/loads, the better the fuck for the Tops.  That kind of breed-talk can backfire, but in the sleazier fuckjoints it'll almost always result in a hotter fuck.  

Point:  Tops, skip the "you're so handsome" / what a beautiful tan / how long have you been working out?/ what a gorgeous smile/ bullshit.  The bottoms want hard raw cocks pumping loads up their guts more than anything else.  

You seem like a guy id like to have his hands on me. Love everything you said

[yoursinmine]

I've had a lot of group fucks over the past year. And during that time, I've had exactly one do. And that was super short, they both wanted to cum and so they bred me at the same time. 

So my question is do guys not like it or am I just fucking the wrong guys?

[nyct]

9 hours ago, yoursinmine said:

I've had a lot of group fucks over the past year. And during that time, I've had exactly one do. And that was super short, they both wanted to cum and so they bred me at the same time. 

So my question is do guys not like it or am I just fucking the wrong guys?

Most of the times I’ve initiated DP, either me or the other top(s) have some sort of relationship with the bottom, know he’s into it, and enjoy seeing him react as we stretch his hole. When we’re just using some random boy for our own pleasure, I’d usually prefer to take turns rutting.

Not something I’ve thought much about but I would guess it’s because I generally want to plant my seed as deeply as possible. Just given the angles involved, DP isn’t ideal for that - it can be fun for a few minutes and then I get selfish.

[hntnhole]

On 2/8/2026 at 6:08 PM, yoursinmine said:

You seem like a guy id like to have his hands on me. Love everything you said

I don't see any "reaction" doo-dad for "blush", so - - - here it is:  Thanks for the kind words.  

[NWUSHorny]

11 hours ago, yoursinmine said:

I've had a lot of group fucks over the past year. And during that time, I've had exactly one do. And that was super short, they both wanted to cum and so they bred me at the same time. 

So my question is do guys not like it or am I just fucking the wrong guys?

I agree with @nyct the position isn't easy for any of the 3 participants of very comfortable for the tops. I actually commend your skill as a bottom for making it work even for a short time. I've done it as one of the tops several times, but never successfully as a bottom. The 1st top always slipped out before the second top could start stroking in and out.

[hntnhole]

There's got to be a way to overcome this problem - it's really nothing more that an "engineering" issue 😄