Cumsump here need advice on motivating myself

[Guest Jon]

I’ve been a cum dump for about 2.5 years. Some days I’ll take 10 loads easy, some from regulars, some random and some ass up face down. Love it! I’d spend most of my day getting cock and cum 🙂

 

Lately I just don’t seem as motivated. Last night I got ducked by 2 guys, got bred once and swallowed 2 loads too. I want to do it again, it’s a friend’s birthday and he wants to fuck but I’m just not super motivated. How do you guys motivate? Porn? Edging? Wearing a cock cage?

[Guest Jon]

3 minutes ago, Guest Jon said:

I’ve been a cum dump for about 2.5 years. Some days I’ll take 10 loads easy, some from regulars, some random and some ass up face down. Love it! I’d spend most of my day getting cock and cum 🙂

 

Lately I just don’t seem as motivated. Last night I got ducked by 2 guys, got bred once and swallowed 2 loads too. I want to do it again, it’s a friend’s birthday and he wants to fuck but I’m just not super motivated. How do you guys motivate? Porn? Edging? Wearing a cock cage?

I guess I could just go through the motions like a good cum dump should, but I’d like feel like a bitch in heat. Here’s a pic of my boy pussy just for fun 🙂 I’m getting a nice slit

[ottawawhtverbttm]

1 hour ago, Guest Jon said:

I guess I could just go through the motions like a good cum dump should, but I’d like feel like a bitch in heat. Here’s a pic of my boy pussy just for fun 🙂 I’m getting a nice slit

Hot 😈🐷💦!

[Hunter22]

10 hours ago, Guest Jon said:

I guess I could just go through the motions like a good cum dump should, but I’d like feel like a bitch in heat. Here’s a pic of my boy pussy just for fun 🙂 I’m getting a nice slit

I'd love to drive tongue deep in that pussy tasting all the loads 🐷

[phillygwm]

It might be a physiological issue.  Low testosterone is one possibility, meds are another (i.e. anti-depressants etc.)

I'm not a bottom but interest in sex affects gays, straights, tops, and bottoms.  I had prostate cancer and for years after didn't have a strong sex drive.  Turns out my T was low.  I can't take T supplements because it might aggravate my PC.  But you could, if that's your issue.

I'd start with bloodwork and go from there.  Assuming that's normal, I'm not sure how you "motivate" yourself; maybe a gay friendly therapist?

[verbalBTTM]

You just might need a break, that happens to us all.

[hntnhole]

7 hours ago, verbalBTTM said:

You just might need a break, that happens to us all.

He's right, guestJON. 

For all the carrying-on here at BZ about permanent, constant fucking/getting fucked, the fact is that occasionally we do need either "a break", or some time to deal with other facets of our lives.  

7 hours ago, phillygwm said:

It might be a physiological issue

So is phillygwm. 

There are times, sometimes recurring regularly, when we simply aren't all that interested.  Getting checked out at your doc is a good start in alleviating whatever the issue is.  Another is to simply regulate yourself to only x number of days/nights per week, or only on weekends, or some other contrivance.  It keeps the actual breeding fresh and exciting, and all the other facets of your life "in place" too.  When any one "thing" is given too much predominance, our "balance" can get skewed up a bit. 

You'll get it figured out, and then it'll be in the past.  

[verbalBTTM]

1 hour ago, hntnhole said:

He's right, guestJON. 

For all the carrying-on here at BZ about permanent, constant fucking/getting fucked, the fact is that occasionally we do need either "a break", or some time to deal with other facets of our lives.  

So is phillygwm. 

There are times, sometimes recurring regularly, when we simply aren't all that interested.  Getting checked out at your doc is a good start in alleviating whatever the issue is.  Another is to simply regulate yourself to only x number of days/nights per week, or only on weekends, or some other contrivance.  It keeps the actual breeding fresh and exciting, and all the other facets of your life "in place" too.  When any one "thing" is given too much predominance, our "balance" can get skewed up a bit. 

You'll get it figured out, and then it'll be in the past.  

I get in my moods, where there's a solid week I can't fuck enough. Other weeks I'm completely content with doing nothing, sometimes even saving my seed. Don't feel pressured to play, it should be fun, not a game you're trying to level up in.

[phillygwm]

On 12/10/2025 at 6:05 PM, verbalBTTM said:

I get in my moods, where there's a solid week I can't fuck enough. Other weeks I'm completely content with doing nothing, sometimes even saving my seed. Don't feel pressured to play, it should be fun, not a game you're trying to level up in.

Great point.  Nobody is horny ALL the time.  Maybe you just came.  Maybe there are issues at work or with family or finances.  Those tend to squeeze out your bandwith for sex.  If it's one of those things that ebbs and flows, that's absolutely normal for all of us and you can usually determine what's getting in your head.