DarkBone Posted Friday at 05:28 AM Report Posted Friday at 05:28 AM (edited) 1 hour ago, Cuteguy69 said: My first is in Ottawa not what name it was back in pass but now its club Ottawa i think Same here! I was visiting from Toronto and I decided to visit a bathhouse for the first time. One of the staff gave me shit for letting some guy suck me in the public areas. When I went back home to T.O. first thing I did was go to the St. Marc's on Yonge Street. The place was ROCKING. Edited Friday at 05:28 AM by DarkBone 2 1 Quote
NWUSHorny Posted Friday at 08:30 PM Author Report Posted Friday at 08:30 PM 14 hours ago, DarkBone said: One of the staff gave me shit for letting some guy suck me in the public areas. When I went back home to T.O. first thing I did was go to the St. Marc's on Yonge Street. The place was ROCKING. I've never understood bathhouses that did not allow you to have sex in open common areas at all. I suspect that in most cases started due to the legal environment they had to operate in. There are also quite a few bathhouses that have some areas where sex isn't allowed, and others that have a clientele that prefers that guys not fuck in the common areas and make there preferences known (huge problem where I live). Quote
hntnhole Posted Friday at 08:45 PM Report Posted Friday at 08:45 PM 11 minutes ago, NWUSHorny said: I've never understood bathhouses that did not allow you to have sex in open common areas at all Neither do I. The entire point is creating a space where men can have sex in any way they'd like (with the usual qualifiers, safety, care, etc) It's seems to be a self-defeating business-model to offer men who crave sex with other men a place where guys can only fuck each other in limited areas. Fortunately, I've never lived in a city like that 💦 1 Quote
topblkmale Posted Friday at 09:28 PM Report Posted Friday at 09:28 PM 50 minutes ago, NWUSHorny said: I've never understood bathhouses that did not allow you to have sex in open common areas at all. I suspect that in most cases started due to the legal environment they had to operate in. There are also quite a few bathhouses that have some areas where sex isn't allowed, and others that have a clientele that prefers that guys not fuck in the common areas and make there preferences known (huge problem where I live). 35 minutes ago, hntnhole said: Neither do I. The entire point is creating a space where men can have sex in any way they'd like (with the usual qualifiers, safety, care, etc) It's seems to be a self-defeating business-model to offer men who crave sex with other men a place where guys can only fuck each other in limited areas. Fortunately, I've never lived in a city like that 💦 It varies by local jurisdiction. New York City does not allow sex in public areas in bathhouses. This restriction includes the steam room and dry sauna. We have hall monitors who will yell at you and possibly eject you from the bathhouse if you're caught. All NYC bathhouses are/were like this. Yes, the New York City Health Dept does send in health inspectors to check occasionally. One NYC bathhouse was shut down citing public sex being witnessed by an inspector. 1 Quote
NWUSHorny Posted Friday at 10:16 PM Author Report Posted Friday at 10:16 PM 39 minutes ago, topblkmale said: It varies by local jurisdiction. New York City does not allow sex in public areas in bathhouses. This restriction includes the steam room and dry sauna. We have hall monitors who will yell at you and possibly eject you from the bathhouse if you're caught. All NYC bathhouses are/were like this. Yes, the New York City Health Dept does send in health inspectors to check occasionally. One NYC bathhouse was shut down citing public sex being witnessed by an inspector. That would take most of the fun out of the bathhouse for some of us. Do they at least allow you to leave the door of your room open? On the flip side, there are a lot of guys in the PNW that would love that kind of law, there are always more guys hanging out in the areas where sex is forbidden and guys that scrupulously avoid the play spaces. There's not much room cruising here either, for that matter. Quote
topblkmale Posted yesterday at 12:29 AM Report Posted yesterday at 12:29 AM 2 hours ago, NWUSHorny said: That would take most of the fun out of the bathhouse for some of us. Do they at least allow you to leave the door of your room open? On the flip side, there are a lot of guys in the PNW that would love that kind of law, there are always more guys hanging out in the areas where sex is forbidden and guys that scrupulously avoid the play spaces. There's not much room cruising here either, for that matter. Absolutely not. The door to the room has to be closed if two or more guys are inside fucking. If the staff walks by and sees guys inside fucking with the door open they will close it. Sometimes slam the door shut. You can lie on the bed in your room, alone, with the door open - jerk off or whatever. But once someone else enters the room the door has to close. Back in the day, traveling to bathhouses in DC, Philly, Atlanta, Florida, California and Chicago felt like freedom. 1 Quote
Yourslave2386 Posted yesterday at 12:52 AM Report Posted yesterday at 12:52 AM Steamworks Chicago. Probably in like 2007 when I was 21. Quote
Rillion Posted yesterday at 01:01 AM Report Posted yesterday at 01:01 AM My sexual life began in SF Bay area post the AIDS crisis having caused the shutdown of bathhouses in SF. So my first public sex experiences were in "sex clubs" in SF. The first one I visited was called "Mike's Night Gallery" and was a converted residence on Folsom Street in South of Market leather district. Closest thing to a bathhouse I went to at the time was Eros on market Street, it was more like a bathhouse but still lacked private rooms. 1 Quote
NWUSHorny Posted yesterday at 02:15 AM Author Report Posted yesterday at 02:15 AM 1 hour ago, topblkmale said: Absolutely not. The door to the room has to be closed if two or more guys are inside fucking. If the staff walks by and sees guys inside fucking with the door open they will close it. Sometimes slam the door shut. You can lie on the bed in your room, alone, with the door open - jerk off or whatever. But once someone else enters the room the door has to close. Back in the day, traveling to bathhouses in DC, Philly, Atlanta, Florida, California and Chicago felt like freedom. That definitely takes away what I love most about bathhouses, no completely spontaneous orgies. Quote
KindaBasic Posted yesterday at 03:05 AM Report Posted yesterday at 03:05 AM West Side Club NYC 1 1 Quote
headnurse20 Posted yesterday at 03:44 AM Report Posted yesterday at 03:44 AM 3 hours ago, topblkmale said: Absolutely not. The door to the room has to be closed if two or more guys are inside fucking. If the staff walks by and sees guys inside fucking with the door open they will close it. Sometimes slam the door shut. You can lie on the bed in your room, alone, with the door open - jerk off or whatever. But once someone else enters the room the door has to close. Back in the day, traveling to bathhouses in DC, Philly, Atlanta, Florida, California and Chicago felt like freedom. I have been a regular at Club Columbus and routinely leave the door open while i am getting bred. Staff never says anything at all! 1 Quote
in-the-bush- Posted yesterday at 03:59 AM Report Posted yesterday at 03:59 AM On 1/20/2026 at 1:11 PM, Tanbbottom said: My 1st was in Toronto Canada, but I don't remember the name. We're talking 40 years ago. I think it was in the basement off Wellesley St., just east of Church. The Cellar! Good times. 1 Quote
topblkmale Posted 19 hours ago Report Posted 19 hours ago On 1/20/2026 at 2:40 PM, hntnhole said: My first tubs experience was at Mans Country on N. Clark St, S. Andersonville, Chicago. And, it was the first of many ..... @hntnhole Did you frequent Man's World - Chicago down the street? On 1/20/2026 at 3:39 PM, NWUSHorny said: Slammer should have been a great place for a 1st time, from my experience it has a lot of action. Either Slammer is a good choice for a first visit to a sex club. There are few left in the US. My first sex club was Blow Buddies - San Francisco. On 1/20/2026 at 5:06 PM, Bruce999 said: My first bathhouse was the Northern Sanua in Flushing, Queens, NY. The place was real slezzy and a lot of fun. Northern Sauna was my second bathhouse. Sad its gone. Reading through this thread confirms to me that the best/most popular bathhouse in the US is Steamworks Chicago. 1 Quote
NWUSHorny Posted 19 hours ago Author Report Posted 19 hours ago 3 minutes ago, topblkmale said: Either Slammer is a good choice for a first visit to a sex club. Slammer also has Club 541 in Palm Springs now, which would also be a great choice for a 1st fuck club to visit. No private rooms, and no prohibitions on fucking in the common spaces. Like Slammer in LA it does have cubicles that lock for those that are shy being a slut in public, as well as a dark room for those that don't like putting on a show for their fellow sluts. I haven't been to the one in Ft Lauderdale, so I can't comment on that one. Quote
NWUSHorny Posted 19 hours ago Author Report Posted 19 hours ago 15 hours ago, headnurse20 said: I have been a regular at Club Columbus and routinely leave the door open while i am getting bred. Staff never says anything at all! All of the bathhouses I've been to, at least allow leaving the door open. I have been to a few that don't allow fucking in any common areas, which as an exhibitionist I don't like. I've openly fucked or been fucked by staff members at most of the bathhouses I've been to, so most do not have restrictions like that. Quote
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