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[IllinoisCumdump]

I wish I wasn’t as picky as I am. A huge dick can make up for a lot of faults but I like getting fucked by guys I find attractive. 

[IntoBBvisitor]

1 hour ago, IllinoisCumdump said:

I wish I wasn’t as picky as I am. A huge dick can make up for a lot of faults but I like getting fucked by guys I find attractive. 

You will give up being picky eventually, that will make you even a better cumdump

[Cumfilledbottomboi]

I’m all about being fucked. I don’t care what the breeder looks like as long as he inseminates me.

[iwantbigloads]

Typically, I avoid guys that im not attracted to looks-wise. But I find myself more often than not scrolling endlessly looking for that “perfect” specimen that strikes every category for me. My pickiness has forced me to turn down many cocks that I potentially would’ve enjoyed.
 

My excuse and reasoning is that once it’s over, im going to regret the act and look back on it with shame. Whereas if the guy is genuinely attractive to me, I’ll look back on it with a sense of accomplishment and pride. My fear of the shame and regret is why I tend to be more picky about looks, generally the most important aspects being face and cock. 
 

However the older I get and the more turned on I get by random casual hookups, I find myself intrigued about taking the load of a guy who’s absolutely out of my range of acceptability. The fear of personal shame remains, however the urge I have to explore the ‘cum receptacle’ side of myself is growing stronger and may possibly push me to having a repugnant encounter soon. 

[Cumdumplvr]

As a total sub bottom, I’ve had hundreds of hook ups from sites like Grindr and Sniffies, I have never turned away a guy, even if I found him on attractive or smelly, even drug addicts. But if I’m turned off enough, usually I’ll get into the doggy position in hopes that they will fuck me and cum quickly, so it will be done. I don’t know whether it was my own sexual needs or the fact that I just like any dick in my hole but now I often look back and some of those guys were the hottest fucks I’ve ever had.

[anonCUMtainer]

Please forgive me if this 'sounds' judgy, I believe context is everything.

The question reveals a lack of experience and tenure. That's ok by the way.  it's like an entry level employee asking senior associates how to do this job really well.

So keep reading!! This resource truly has "it all" if you look and search and are curious. Rarely is there any one "answer" to anything. Life is pure joy in that regard. LOL

Love you guys!! Thanks for sharing your lived experiences here...they are a great resource for me.

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On 3/11/2026 at 2:56 PM, tallslenderguy said:

idk if i'd call it a trend, but it seems more permissible?  That maybe notions of beauty are becoming less central to attraction, that appearance is being modified as a reason to fuck?  

i think there's a lot that goes on with sex that remains unconscious or gets buried under the obvious pleasure that is derived.  i think one of the drivers for gay sex is wanting to be desired... wanting to experience being desired by another guy. Desire can be felt intensely during sex.  Being and feeling desired, i think, is a human need, i think it's at the core of "falling in love."  i see hook up as a concise version of "falling in love,"  where we repeat the intense pleasure and affirmation in sex, over and over with lots of guys vs just one. But i think the root drive is similar to those looking for ltr with one person.  Lots of sex with lots of guys gets the similar pleasure and affirmation that is traditionally sought in ltr. 

i think in hook up, the vehicle is less important than the destination.  Though, we are all individuals still, so we're going to do things differently for infinite complex reasons. But i think there's also simple reasons behind some of our complexities. I.e., the gorgeous gym bodied, carefully crafted look is purposefully cultivated because that is that persons version of desirable.   Depending on the need/desire of the moment, the  package that the guy who responds with desire for him is wrapped in is less important than the actual desire.  The "repugnant" guys repugnancy is less of a factor if he is carrying the requisite type of desire the gorgeous guy is craving. 

i think gay hook up culture has discovered? how to fill a need/desire at its most basic level. 

I mentionned a possible trend only because I see this happenning in porn more and more...