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Announcement: BBBH.com Purchased, Hookup Site Coming
rawTOP replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
I'm writing it from scratch, so it'll be mid-year before it's got a decent feature set. The last few weeks I've been working on a registration page. There's a surprising amount of complexity to do things right. I hope to have registration working later this month. And at that time I'll have a rather basic browse profile functionality. Then it will be a matter of layering on features. -
Most, if not all, of the guys who say they were pozzed while topping (and I believe) are uncut. But even so it's incredibly rare - even for uncut guys.
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As a top your risk is quite low - just a bit more risky than a safe sex bottom. Especially if you're cut. So don't worry.
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And that's the sad part. The drugs have been this effective for 18 years now and the establishment PR is still refusing to believe the science.
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Yes. Period. I don't believe there are any documented cases of a poz guy with a consistently undetectable viral load and no other STDs making someone poz. There are plenty of documented cases of the virus being transmitted while wearing a condom - condoms fail 5 to 10% of the time.
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Then you don't understand this site at all. Most people here will tell you to get yourself on PrEP and stay neg. There is no need for you to be poz. HIV is not an essential part of being gay. Stay neg.
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Where can I find Russian/Slavic cock in NYC?
rawTOP replied to armypiss's topic in New York Metro Area
Most of the Russian/Slavic guys are in Brooklyn and Queens. Homophobia is a huge issue with them. I have no clue how you go about finding them. -
I need to know A LOT more information. What browser? What OS? What exactly do you see? When EXACTLY does the problem start? On clicking play? And anything else that may be relevant.
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Guys, be careful with this site. They're using PayPal which is against PayPal's terms of service. It won't be long until they lose their ability to take payments at which point the site will probably shut down or at a minimum your access to the site may be lost and you could be out some money.
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The idea of a leather perfume is an oxymoron. Perfumes are an anathema in the leather community. The idea of a butch perfume is just a contradiction in terms. If you want to be butch learn the art of smelling like a man – naturally.
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Just the opposite. I prefer holes that haven't seen a lot of use. The bottom might complain for the first minute I'm fucking him, but then his hole feels nice and tight.
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Encountering any problem? Post them here...
rawTOP replied to rawTOP's topic in Tips, Tricks, Rules & Help
See the link in the post just above yours. It explains how to opt-in to parts of the site that are now opt-in only. -
Well, you posted in the right thread. Now I suggest you read the thread and follow the instructions.
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Here are some scenes where there's a scorpion tattoo on one of the guys… http://www.rawtop.com/porn/bb/scorpion-tattoo This pic was by far the clearest and most dramatic…
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It's illegal, or at least people can't charge money to view it, so it's unlikely there will be much of it to be found.
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If you're not familiar with what's going on in Portugal you should take a read… http://www.spiegel.de/international/europe/evaluating-drug-decriminalization-in-portugal-12-years-later-a-891060.html They've decriminalized all types of drugs. Drugs are still illegal, but they're the status of a parking ticket now provided the amounts are under certain levels. And here's a quick run down of the results… We all need to think differently about the drug problem. I know it bugs me to no end all the drug use in the gay community. Initially I put the chem sex section here in part just to segment the conversation. I'm not sure if it does good or harm… It's my hope that through talking about it people put themselves at lower risk or understand the risk they're taking. But I don't know really.
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Going extinct? I was vers. Then I was a total top. Now I'm more of a vers top. Still sorta hate getting fucked. Enjoy topping a lot more.
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Agreed, plus drug addicts spend a lot more time having sex than sober people… But, a lot of times drug use comes from other personal issues and with things like family rejection, issues at work, etc. gay men just have a lot more personal issues than straight folk. I'm watching Dexter at the moment and I'm up to the point where he has a kid and he's burning candles at both ends and dropping a lot of balls in the process. The fact that gay guys aren't typically pulled in all directions by family obligations means we can do things that are more "indulgent" and "irresponsible" if we choose to. Drug would be part of that.
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Evading daddy fucked me bareback
rawTOP replied to gfboy1988's topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
That's the thing - most poz guys don't have something that's "communicable" - so why should they tell you if you don't ask? I suspect "I'm good" meant "I'm undetectable" and October was the last time his viral load was checked. He probably didn't want to go through HIV 101 with you to explain that the safest person you can have sex with is a poz guy who's on his meds and consistently undetectable. (Actually, the 2nd safest - the safest is a neg guy on PrEP - probably). I also suspect you live in a state which mandates disclosure. Say thank you to your legislators for putting you in a position where the guy felt the need to tell something other than the full truth. -
Those aren't rosebuds. Rosebuds are when the insides of your ass "prolapse" (hang out). Rosebuds look like this... What this thread is about is just puffy ass lips, not a prolapsed hole.
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As a top I don't see swollen assholes very often, and don't really have a preference. But I get like that when I get fucked, which may sorta prove your theory of "depends on how often you get fucked". BUT, back when I was a twink I was getting fucked fairly often (though not a lot), and I got puffy back then too. Here's a pic of my ass after a photographer fucked me during a shoot for Playguy back in 1991:
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I'm just wondering why it is that some assholes get puffy and swollen when they get fucked and others stay pretty smooth. Here's an example of what I mean by puffy/swollen (click to enlarge): And here's one that looks like it's been fucked, but isn't puffy/swollen: Anyone know why some assholes get all puffy when they're fucked? Do you tops have a preference?
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OK, you guys have talked me out of giving teens under 18 limited access to the site. I still think it's a good idea - even a responsible idea - but the powers that be can be rather unreasonable when it comes to teens and their natural impulses for sex - there's no point challenging that structure. If I do anything it'll be down the road and only 18 & 19 year olds will be able to see the 16 & 17 year olds. Since most places have close-age exceptions that should be OK. But again - nothing for now.
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If you talk to some of the other "founders" of BBBH, the concept is bigger than iBi. I did what I could to include him.
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I get emails telling my my mailbox is full. They happen once it's full and someone tries to send another message.
