So I know to a lot of people this might sound bad, but I’ve had guys on sex hookup sites who look fantastic in their photos and send me a message. It’s obvious what they want, but despite it being a hookup site, they still seem to want me to ‘chat them up’ as if we’d met in a bar.
No matter how sexy they are, or how much I’d love to hook up with them, I can’t be bothered with a chase. I always am very direct about trying to arrange meets with this type of person, but then they predictably go quiet after that.
Is it just because it makes them feel less of a slut, as if morals come into anything on these sorts of sites? Or are they just time wasters?
Does it turn you on when someone plays hard to get, or do you just get bored like me and move onto the next guy, even if they’re extremely hot?