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You can't please everyone, and you can't be everyone's "type". You just have to accept that and not take it personally. There will be a dick waiting or wanting you at some point, just relax.

You may have. He was big into web camming and live streaming. That's how I met him initially, he lived in California at the time I lived in Florida. But he did a victory tour, and I ended up hooking up with him in Orlando and then having him at my apartment a few days. He was traveling quite a bit when I met him, I know P-Town and PS, as well as Florida, are some of his favorites. He's not exactly the "nicest" guy, but that's not the reason you want to hook up with him.

If I have one complaint about straight porn is - why are all the women screaming? I walk into an ABS that is filled with primarily bi or guys on the DL, and all I hear is women screaming because they have some big dick in them. So what, don't they know that is what the majority of gay men are looking for? I love these gang bangs where they have a dick in her cunt and one in her mouth so I don't have to listen to the screaming. It's just distracting, that's all....

Well, maybe I am just too vanilla or too tight, but fisting is not something I want to get involved with. I respect the opinion of those that do enjoy it, good for them. It's just not for me. I have seen guys actually bend in a certain way, and self fist. The first time I saw it I wish someone had a camera to take a pic of my expression. I have fisted as a top, a beautiful guy who was really into it, extremely clean, and told me he enjoyed having me doing it. I guess having long, skinny fingers help. He's returned the favor by surprising me with an occasional fuck, so I'm good there. I just don't want it done to me, no thank you sir. You have a penis sir, please use it accordingly.

A little bit of discomfort, or as I call it "knowing he's been there" is okay, TO AN EXTENT. I don't want any guy who is going to fuck me to the point that I miss out on someone new because I am too sore or possibly torn up. Like they say, you miss the bus and there is always another one coming around the corner. The same can be said for big dicks, every time I think I have never played with one that exceeded all the others, I am pleasantly surprised when some guy comes along and out does him. I just don't think the down time is worth missing an opportunity that might present itself shortly thereafter.

I knew when I posted that alleged "kink" it would be scoffed at based on the crowd on this Forum. I knew I wasn't the only one that did that, I suppose I thought the guys at the front desk probably weren't paid much, so any added benefits were appreciated. I remember a time when they actually would "show you" to your room, I don't know if others have experienced that but it happened to me on several occasions, Not sure if it was in Florida, or Philly or in Vegas. I suppose a piece of ass was much more appreciated than the $1 tip I would give the guy. That's just the way I think - call me vanilla. I am not offended by the multiple posts that having sex with a bathhouse employee isn't a kink - I am just a little surprised just how many of my fellow BZ members have done it. Oh, and to the poster who returned the condoms to the front desk, BRAVO!

My favorite kink, if you want to call it that, was having sex with everyone who worked at the front desk as well those who swept the hallways. In my "prime" I was a frequent visitor at the baths on Broward Blvd in Fort Lauderdale. Having sex with every employee I could always guarantee myself a good room, by that I mean a good location. They did have one larger room that played porn and even though it was in a corner, I LOVED that room. So if sleeping with the staff is a "kink" that would be mine. I avoided the baths that were local to me in my part of Florida because it was like going to a bar during happy hour, everyone standing around taking in their towels. I went to Fort Lauderdale to have sex, not gossip. I loved the silence of Lauderdale and the different shifts, the "lunch time - I only have an hour crowd", the 5 pm to 9 pm crowd who were coming from work and had to be home. You can spot them a mile away coming in with a tie on. And of course, the post 2 am crowd on weekends, or any night for that matter, who were there and meant business. They had been out all night and they wanted to finish the night off by blowing several loads.

Yeah that is indeed Joey Stephano, a/k/a Christian. There is a book about his life if you want to hear more of the details - he may not have been on earth very long but while here he has some real "ups and downs", so to speak. Pretty sad actually....

Austin Shadows is now a grandfather. I have known him in 1996. I won' doxy him because I know his legal name, I actually bowled with him in some gay bowling tournaments. Last I heard he was not in the best of health, so if anyone knows of an update on his health situation please let me know. Interesting, he stopped doing studio work (like T.I.M.) but I did see him in a group scene that was filmed probably seven or eight years ago. He wasn't credited (maybe he wanted it that way), he was a top in the back fucking someone. The last I heard he was living in Atlanta and had no intention on returning to porn. I think some people forget, but time marches on, and these guys do age. I know Kevin Slater was working for an "agency" in NYC and was available, but most are on the wrong side of 50, some of them are close to 60. That's not to say they would not be an incredible fuck, but not sure how many of them are still "in the business". I had read Brad Maguire comment he was finished with porn, yet he showed up in a film about a year later. He was escorting in the mid 2010s, but not sure if he still active today. They are people just like us, I suppose if you see them online, all you have to is ask. Dawson (of Dawson's 20 and 50 load weekend) is still on BBRT, and probably other sites. I believe he is like 48 now, still looks good.

Yeah they tell you it's a "dry" heat in Palm Springs in June, only to find that it is a 110 F.. and they have to open "cooling" locations for the homeless. Dry heat my ass, it's fucking hot. I don't care if I can be naked almost everywhere I don't want to burn my dick off.... I'll stick with Saint Pete for now, not too far from the beach and, despite the hurricanes, I do sometimes get a breeze. I am not on the beach but it's a 5 minute drive. If you stay in Philadelphia or New York you still have to deal with June, July and August (and even into September) and my God, those streets with all the row homes you practically died, I could hardly breathe. I'm convinced almost everywhere you move , you are going to have to deal with heat, possibly dangerous weather and of course if you do remain up north you could have bitter winters and snow. Or not. Depends on this damn El Niño or El Nina thing, I never know what to hope for. One brings cooler temps and more rain while the other seems to bring hurricanes, or at least more of them. After going through 2 major storms this summer I would love to get the hell out of here but when I look at my options I really have no where to go. Friends moved to Ashville, NC, and we all saw what happened there.... I thought of leaving the country but then I thought about medical care and medication and I thought I better think twice.....

I think I am going to have to give up on Rio and stay in São Paulo the next time I go to Brazil,. The situation. you described sounds a little scary, but exciting at the same time. The problem with hotels in Rio is security and at two different upscale hotels I was told I could not take unregistered guests to my room. They said my chances of being robbed were high and they could not take the security risk. But there was an alternatives. I later learned that prostitution was not a crime, there were articles about the subject during the 2016 Olympic Games in Rio, the city obviously wanted to be discreet about the subject but.............no one was arresting anyone. One location is Rio I heard about was from a gay man at the hotel I was staying at, The Intercontinental. He was nice enough to give me the address, and it was in a residential area. I thought I was going to something like a bathhouse. When I got there this guy who had a German accent, blondish, greeted me and charged an incredibly low admission. I could then decide if I wanted a room, a locker, or just lay out by the pool. The had a little counter where you could buy burgers and soda, and a large pool where everyone was naked. He asked me what kind of guy I wanted and then he took me to another area. Behind glass there were maybe 30 guys, all naked, who had numbers on stickers attached to their bodies. They were all waving, or wagging their dicks at me. He told me I could pick anyone and have them sent up to my room. My bf at the time was quick to grab someone, I selected a guy who had competed in some body building competitions (or so the manager told me) and I don't think he was used to getting fucked. But I fucked the hell out of him. So, after showering, having a burger and soda I met up with my then boyfriend, and we were given our bill - just like you would get in a restaurant. So for our time there it came to a whopping $12 dollars, my bf was calculating the amount and I was so surprised how easy the whole process was. This was several years back but I am not embarrassed to say that paying $12 for the two of us was something we were proud of. My bf was money conscious and he thought we could not have gotten a better deal. We went back the next day. We again were greeted by the same manager, and this time he said a lot more about the facility. He said poverty was rampant in Rio, and the value of the dollar against the Brazilian currency was strong. Thus, the cost to us was minimal. He told us some of what you mentioned. That there were many homeless gay men, some who may or may not rob you, all over Rio. He said his place offered a safer alternative because these guys looked at the situation as their "job" and they didn't want to upset visitors there for the day, and get banned from the facility. He said they made more money in a day then many guys in their 20s were making in a week or even a month in Rio. He said some were nicer than others, that they may offer to meet outside of the "club", but if we agreed to that we were doing it at our own peril. He said many lived close by and some were indeed, homeless. So I can't say I haven't given cash to a homeless gay man, more like a "trade" (no pun intended) for services. I know Rio, and even in Acapulco, I have run into hotel management that told me "no" when it came to having locals in my room. I could have drinks with them in the hotel bar but that was the extent of it. Who the hell wants to fly to another country on vacation and not fuck with the locals? Not me! I want to taste the local "cuisine'. I have to admit to you, Brazilian men are fine, one of my favorites. Fortunately there are a bunch of them in south Florida so if you come across one I say go for it. I don't think a Brazilian guy has ever disappointed me, either as a top or as a bottom. Glad to read a post from someone who has sampled Brazilian men, that story and setting sounds hot....

I would not call Inn Leather "Methy". There are tons of places to stay that all all gay, and clothing optional, and I am sure there is meth use going on there as well. It's not as if you are going to see guys slamming or hitting a pipe in the common areas, that is just not going to happen. What people do in their rooms is their business. Of course the fact that each room has a sling in it is really inviting. Would I say it's as a fancy place, no I wouldn't. But you can be naked and open about your interests and not have to worry about the management telling you to close your blinds. Seeing what is going on in a room is really a unique experience. Some guys are in their own world, involved with the guy in the sling. Others use it almost as a way to promote themselves, sort of a "look at me" and may try to entice you to come into their room to play. The fact that they have day passes is a very smart marketing tool on the part of the owners. You'll find that guys who book for multiple nights are usually from out of state, enjoying the weather. So by offering the locals the opportunity to enjoy the location adds to the amount of guys those who are renting rooms have to select from. It gives locals a chance to go someplace and see just who is visiting from out of town. To me, it's a win for everyone. The long term guest from out of state, the local who may want to let loose and see who is visiting from out of town, and of course management, who earn extra cash by allowing guys to purchase a day pass. The last time I was staying in Lauderdale for several days I stayed somewhere else. I had a particularly "forward" friend who suggested we go over there, say around 10 pm, and just crash the place. I don't know how he got us through the front gate but he did know the manager on charge, and suggested I proposition him in order to get a room. I went over and said hello to the guy and he said something like "sorry, but we are all booked for the evening". He never said, "get out", or "leave", he was just walking around the property and by this time guys who had their curtains open had actually come out of their rooms to say hello. After a certain hour you know who is there for the evening and the day time visitors are gone, so we were "fresh meat" and people were trying to get our attention. Now I am not suggesting that you trespass, but how different is this from going to some strangers room at a hotel where there is no key card required? Not much really. So if you're feeling confident and you go under the "oh I am looking for a room" routine, you might be pleasantly surprised. I have heard stories of guys being chased out of there, but I suppose it who is working that day or evening, and also how you conduct yourself if you do manage to get on the property. Many registered guests will actually wait up front and let guys in who they are expecting to play with. You run the chance of being embarrassed if they realize you don't know anyone registered in one of the rooms, but I was honest and said I didn't have a reservation and was merely looking for a room. As I mentioned he never asked me to leave the property, I suppose that's a chance you just have to take. Most guys had their blinds open, I never saw any kind of drug use going on. I am sure it goes on in just about every gay guest house in Lauderdale, at least that has been my experience. However, most guys try to be discreet about it.

I have a bi-sexual friend who I fuck around with, one of the better looking guys I have played with in my entire life, who insists that the men in straight porn are far better looking then the guys in straight porn. We have, on occasion, done some party favors and ran across the street to an ABS, which shows straight movies in a semi-large seating area. We've taken ALL our clothes off, in the middle of the day (like a Wednesday afternoon) and fucked like rabbits. I've gone in there high as a kite, and he knows the guy at the front desk. He throws a $20 bill on the counter and we just go back into the movie area and fuck. Everyone watches, but no one bothers us, especially management. He always says things like, "look at the screen, he's sooo hot" and then we go back to what we are doing. He insists the guys in the straight videos are far superior and I have to say he has pointed (no pun intended) guys out who would be big in gay porn if they ever decided to do "gay-for-pay". After we get off, we just put our clothes on and walk right past the front desk clerk. He never says a word.

I got the very same email, EXACTLY the same, word for word. Ignore it, just delete it and if you like report it as scam. He's a nobody.

I have posted about this very same subject in another thread. 99.9 percent are idiots, who have no capabilities to do what they say they will do. They found your email address from a previous hack and decided to harass you. More than likely they are in Eastern Europe, they'll ask for payments in BitCoin and sometimes even ask for the money in Euros rather than dollars, that is a clue to any American. They don't have your content list, and I know I never have "pleasured" myself while visiting an adult web site that they claim they recorded. It's just a scare tactic. Just block them and report it as spam. Find yourself the best Malware protection that works for your type of computer, turn your location settings off on your smart phones unless you absolutely need the app. And always use a VPN whenever possible, I know some sites will try and force you to turn it off but I have found sometimes I can sign on with my phone and it will connect, while my laptop may not. These people are desperate. My former employer told me my information was on the black web, and they were right. I have had to freeze all my credit reports and only open them for creditors when I need to. It's part of the world we live in, it's not fun, but you can survive it. Don't let it control your life, the person harassing you in probably sitting in the basement of his parent's house and has no idea who you are. But protect your financial information and make sure to check your credit reports regularly.