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On 6/17/2025 at 2:31 PM, Tiboer said:

 

 

What did you first try or see at a bathhouse?

 

 

Serosorting.

I learned how to tell the difference between HIV+ and HIV- guys.

Answer: You can't.

On 9/13/2021 at 10:36 PM, mascraw said:

my 1st time in rambles was in 1978 - old school aids here - lol 

My first time at the Rambles was in 1994.

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Sounds like one of the guys used an alcohol-based cleaning wipe on his dick before you sucked it.

Maybe he got sucked and/or fucked someone's ass. Then 'cleaned' off his dick with one of those wipes...and you sucked him.

I know from experience those wipes cause a burning sensation on the penis. Especially the head.

On 3/3/2025 at 3:57 PM, theplayerking said:

In a big gay Mecca like New York, it really depends on your looks and your willingness to put a face pic in your ad. If you’re young and hot you can put an ad on Sniffies and have guys lined up around the block waiting to load you up. If you’re average, you’ll have a hard time competing with the gorgeous muscle cumdumps (including minor porn models) offering their fuck holes for free. 

On 3/6/2025 at 5:29 PM, Eastvillagefun said:

I second that. I've had a hard time being a cumdump here but go to other cities and I can get a good number of tops to load my ass

In New York you have to situate yourself in a busy working-class area outside of Manhattan. New Yorkers rarely travel outside of their borough for sex.

Atlanta is a way better option since its a car-centric city and already has the reputation for being sleazy.

1 hour ago, brnbk said:

The prep looks like a Hispanic White¹ guy.  A lot of white Hispanics do identify as white and they definitely think of anyone native to the Americas as a slave. I am unaware of his sexual orientation: News reports do not mention a family -gay or straight, so I am thinking he is "single". 

Single white male and right wing political orientation is a deadly combination and a good predictor of future violent behavior. 

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We just have a one sided version. We don't know what the neighbors did, even though we do have clues from the video where Jonathan is saying - someone threatening someone with a gun is grounds for deportation. My suspicion is he is referring to this neighbor who did come out with a gun, and threatened to kill him. Jonathan decided to take a pitchfork and walk around the street rehearsing his lines and in the video he does explain why he is doing what he is doing - so that you understand what it feels like to be threatened. 

If there where problems with the neighbors Jonathan would have moved out long ago. Everything around his home was fine until he came out as gay and decided to move a hispanic bf in.

Very bad cocktail of racism and homophobia. 

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 ¹[think before following links] [think before following links] https://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/americas/crime/jonathan-joss-killing-suspect-speaks-out-b2765503.html

Reading this statement is very I'll say interesting as a black man (and someone who is informed on hate crime stats regarding the race of the perpetrators of violence against LGBT people and unaliving of trans women in the US.

In the meantime, I'll continue to steer clear of single white males, right wing of course, and their predilection towards violence.

19 hours ago, BBBxCumDumpster said:

When I was coming of age in New York in the 80's sexual habits were different. I'm speaking from my many many experiences and from porn then and now.  For one thing, you didn't hear sub or submisssive or top or bottom often.  You were French active ( you suck) and Greek passive (you got fucked.) Now those expressions are antiquated. But bottoms aren't just bottoms: now, many are submissive, implying they want aggressive tops. 

And speaking  of tops, they generally didn't hold your head and fuck your throat or gag or choke you.   That seems much more prevalent in the last  25 years or so.  I experience it nearly every time I bottom. In contemporary porn it's almost the norm.  And ass- eating wasn't the norm either.  Now, in RL and porn, nobody gets fucked without being eaten out. I remember one time getting my add eaten in the 80's. I'm not complaining about trend but noticing the way we have sex now is different than it used to be.  At least in my experience.  Does anyone else remember differently?

I remember 69'ing.

And French kissing.

On 4/15/2025 at 5:58 PM, NHeat said:

I saw a Grindr profile today that said "if you say cock, you must be an old man." Never thought about it being a generational word. What do you think? 

On 4/15/2025 at 10:05 PM, Hungryforbbc said:

The non-white dl/bi/gay community generally does not look kindly on that word it screams white like frat bro lilly white and corny. Call it a dick or a pipe or pretty much anything else lol 

On 4/16/2025 at 12:00 AM, Marlin said:

White guys say cock and I find most black guys say dick. I also note that white guys say cum while black guys say nut. 

On 4/21/2025 at 4:48 PM, BREEDmeRAW said:

Dick is what most Black Men call it. To me, dick is what youth would say, while most call it cock, a cock sucker will call it a cock. Whatever you call it, my hole needs to be drilled and filled. Pump your meat inside my ass and NUTT deep inside my ass.

 

 

On 4/23/2025 at 8:55 PM, wetbred said:

Agree, 100%. Not sure its a generational thing, but it is a racial thing

Generational and racial.

Just about all black men say dick.

Dick is almost always used in urban areas.

Here in New York, most non-whites say dick.

Cock is used by whites and recent immigrants to New York who are ESL. I've noticed eventually they also start using 'dick'. Or at least they do when talking to me.

Eventually the usage of the work 'cock' in the US will go away as the demographics shift. AAVE slang terms usually take hold in America and especially the younger generations.

That's why the guy on Grindr stated: "if you say cock, you must be an old man."

13 hours ago, ThickVers-Bottom said:

Hey there!

Im planning solo trip later this year and I need some suggestions on places that are “black bottom” friendly. Maybe somewhere on the West Coast? Typical prefer white guys but haven’t had much luck. They usually want me to be a “Dom Top” which isn’t usually my thing. 

 

I would like somewhere that may have a bathhouse or fun cruising area.

That's a tall order.

That city does not exist in the US.

Do you have a passport and are you open to other 'races'?

On 4/27/2012 at 9:34 PM, hungtopinky said:

What's the best bareback hookup site that is also HIV-friendly right now, that's free, user-friendly, and stuff? I use BBRTS, but seems not many guys know of it or aren't on it. Just wondering if there are one or two more that are as good or even better than BBRTS. Maybe something like adam4adam, only for bareback lovers?

7 minutes ago, Guest Dunks7l said:

Try squirt.org

No whey José

1 hour ago, BlueSaphir said:

Eric Swalwell 

That's a hard no for me.

But I'll vote for Senator Eric Swallowswell.

I thought the topic of this thread was the unaliving of Jonathan Joss and other attacks on black and brown gay and trans people.

4 hours ago, Softhsnds said:

I love to cumkiss with after I given a blowjob but found that a lot of guy’s aren’t into to cumkissing ? Which I love ❤️ what’s your opinion on this one be interested to know? 

If you have leftover cum after sucking some guy off, you did it wrong.

1 hour ago, Bicumpig said:

Depends on the cock and the guy too. All the cocks I've had so far were below average. Who wants to suck a stranger's 5 inches for 20 minutes? I've only sucked 4 cocks so far and 3 out of 4 came in 2-4 mins so I'm not that terrible. If only one guy couldnt cum, maybe it was his problem, but he finished when I told him to jerk off in my mouth.

Only sucked four dicks! 🤯

That's a slow night by BZ standards.

We've got to get your subscriber count up.

1 hour ago, Poz50something said:

All depends….if he’s not wearing a raincoat, love it for hours and hours….but with a condom, even 5 minutes is too long…. Had a guy recently who wore one, and the feeling of polyurethane sliding down my throat is enough to make me retch. 

The fact that you have a condom-wearing blow job timesheet with flow chart already filled out is alarming. 
 

1 hour ago, viking8x6 said:

I usually wear the key loop on my calf rather than my wrist.  I push it up to a point where the elastic is stretched a bit and holds, rather than flopping around.

52 minutes ago, SamCummyCunt said:

I move it up onto my bicep where the elastic is a little tighter and tuck the key as much as possible so that it stays snugly in place throughout my time there.  I've seen guys do that on their calve as well. 

Yeah but who knows where that key has been. 
 

17 hours ago, Bicumpig said:

I would say 5 min is best. 10 min is fine depending on the cock. At 15 I'm getting bored and frustrated that he's not cumming down my throat already.

If you’re bored and frustrated after only 15 minutes, you’re either not a cocksucker or not a good cocksucker. 

 

Measurements please on all this throat fucking. 
 

9 minutes ago, BBBxCumDumpster said:

This is being controlled from the top. Someone is trying to craft an anti-DEI narrative.  I'm guessing some right wing shadow group posted bail. 

Since this victim is not a heterosexual white male,  I don't have high hopes for justice  or even press coverage.  I'm  KKKaroline Leavitt is crafting some cold heartless fictional one shot statement to put this to bed.  To this administration and to Texas, this is not tragic; it's inconvenient. 

The perp isn't a heterosexual white male either.

12 hours ago, 11bi11guy said:

I’m hoping to get some input from other guys who like to go to the bathhouse. I always get a room, and they give you your room keys on an elastic loop. Most guys cruise wearing the loop around their upper arm above the bicep. My problem is that no matter how many times I try to tuck the keys into the elastic band, they always fall out and start jingling.

I haven’t noticed other guys getting annoyed about it, but it sometimes takes me out of the moment. It’s annoying for me to hear/feel when I’m trying to get spitroasted on the floor of the maze, or jacking off with a cock in my mouth at the slurp ramp, or on my back trying to pinch a guy’s nipples while he’s pounding me.

I’ve never taken a close look at what other guys do with their keys—I don’t bring my glasses with me and it’s usually too dark/steamy to focus on details like that anyways. What do you guys do with your keys? Wear them on your arm? Fold em into the band somehow? Secure them in another way? Shove em up your ass? Inquiring minds want to know….

Easy bathhouse locker hack:

• Bring your own combination padlock.
• Leave the key in the locker.
• Use your combination padlock to access the locker contents.

There's just way too much to unpack here.

I'll defer and let the "I love homeless BBC' crowd chime in first.

I've learned not to interact with anyone wearing puppy masks on the LGBT Politics forum. They're the most ferocious. 

6 hours ago, iamcontent said:

Donald Trump won because of the outdated Electoral College System. Midde America is 65% to 70% white. That is who voted

That's incorrect on many levels.

Bathhouse Barry won.

Twice.

2 hours ago, 4xxl said:

But how can I know which is the right?

It's one place. I'm describing different areas inside.

90-18 Astoria Blvd, East Elmhurst, NY 11369

5 hours ago, Tiboer said:

 

Other than those, are there any specific characteristics that may turn your head?

 

'Straight acting' with a big behind.