topblkmale

Breeding means receiving male sperm DNA that's different from your own.

In my case breeding means accepting this strong ancestral Sub-Saharan African DNA.

2 hours ago, RawNYTop said:

Is there some sort of bathhouse directory app that lists all the open bathhouses in the world with information, pics and reviews?

Would love that...

Try gaycities.com - considering it's an old website and most bathhouses in the US have since shut down.

Back in the day all of the gay bathhouse chains had decent websites.

• Flex
• Midtowne Spa
• Steamworks
• Club Baths
• The Club
• Club Body Center

5 hours ago, 50latinos said:

Not to brag but you all should move to South Florida. We have one in Miami, three in Fort Lauderdale + one super busy and hot sex club.

I haven't even been to the newer bathhouse yet.

South Florida and Providence, Rhode Island are the gay bathhouse capitals of the US.

Who saw that coming?

Slings don't work for me. The motion of constant swinging throws my rhythm off. 

Swallow the load as the cum shoots down your throat. 

Don't swish cum around your mouth, spit or gargle with my seed. This ain't wine tasting in Napa. 🤣

The first thing I did when I got my drivers license at 16 years old was attempt to cruise the truck stops. 

I had heard that you have to hang around the showers.

Or even better, take a long shower yourself and leave the door cracked slightly open as an invitation to fuck.

Then I've heard something about flashing your headlights (at night).

But its 2024 so Sniffies and Grindr are most likely more effective.

[think before following links] https://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-12964925/World-leaders-meet-Davos-thrash-plan-protect-against-Disease-X-hypothetical-pandemic-kill-20-times-people-Covid.html

3 hours ago, ErosWired said:

Do you have an image? Perhaps we’re not talking about the same thing. Piercing from the inside of the anus through to the exterior essentially pierces the end of the rectum - that is, a bowel perforation, or the piercing of an organ, albeit the very opening end of it. Given what must pass through the area, it would be practically impossible to keep clean.

@pozcumslut27 probably means the gooch

I want to fuck a pierced hole. (Said no top ever)

Relax. Use poppers if you need to. And practice with real dicks. Big ones.

No one likes a tight hole. If you're tight, your whole body is tense and that's a bad fuck.

19 minutes ago, Traviscraymer said:

 

another new nyc party called Kink Brotherhood.  BSDM focused.  I’m going to try to check it out at the end of the month.

Most likely its the same party rethemed with a name change and new e-mail address. Same location. Same party promoter.

On 10/3/2023 at 1:16 PM, stef85hki said:

Bbrt works for me.

I would suggest also to check out the dark room in the Toms bar. Rarely people use condoms there.

I met two good life-long friends from Mexico City both on bbrt a few years ago when it was still a decent site for meeting guys.

Also Cine Savoy is a must.

Can anyone provide updated recommendations on cruising and meeting locals in Dubai?

✈️ DXB will be used to layover to other destinations later this year. 

🚫 I am not interested in meeting other tourists from the Americas nor Europe. I'm focused on local non-western guys (Arab, South Asian, African).

Yes, I'm aware of the local customs, culture and laws regarding homosexuality. 

Tap foot for BJ

Download a copy and read Tearoom Trade

Sus 👎

On 12/27/2023 at 1:03 PM, GyroLover said:

So I got my first load this week and I have a question.  I’m new to this so I apologize if this is a ridiculous question but here goes. 
 

while getting fucked I had the extreme sensation that I needed to go to the restroom.  I cleaned out and there was no mess during the sex which was a relief!!  
 

while getting fucked I was clinching like you would to not shit yourself.   If I had not been clinching like that would I have likely made a mess?   The clinching, while tolerable, was a distraction for me.  I’m just wondering how I can make this already enjoyable act even more enjoyable for me and my boy.    I know that with practice I’ll figure more out but in thought I would seek the advice of some more experienced bottoms.  
 

thank you in advance

 gyro

I'm sure the members here would be better able to diagnose the problem if we knew the size of the dick that bred your hole.

I'm no expert (I am actually), but this again sounds like another second hole issue.

On 1/3/2024 at 1:14 PM, blackrobe said:

@BlackDude and @topblkmale, I'm interested in the reasons and rationales for why you think banning diversity, equity, and inclusion programs is a good thing. Can you help me understand your thought process here?

Since this is the LGBT politics forum, I won't go too deep into the DEI agenda regarding race. However, DEI does not benefit black men whether intentional or unintentional.

1 hour ago, ErosWired said:

You say you don’t understand why it’s such a turn-on. The answer is simple: You’re not ‘straight’. Your sex life as you describe it, which you say you have lived for the last 20 years, is that of a bisexual. No ifs, ands or buts, no qualifications. You fuck both women and men, and are therefore, by definition, bisexual - which, as studies into human sexuality since the 1970s have consistently shown, is what the great majority of people actually are to a greater or lesser degree.

You might find it less confusing if you simply gave yourself permission to abandon the conventional sexual orientation labels altogether, and not label yourself as anything. There’s nothing that says you have to. So you order from the full menu, sometimes ride the other bus… good for you. You’re getting a bigger slice of life than people who deny themselves needlessly. If you’re wondering what it all means, it means that’s what you like. Congratulations on your self-discovery.

I agree.

@str8uncut Label yourself as a breeder.

1 hour ago, HoneyBuns1980 said:

I’m sure you mean well, but that type of fetishism of Black men by non-Black men in the world of M/M sex is part of the problem. I can’t count the number of times nor tell you how annoying it is when non-Black guys (usually White guys) at this very site relay their personal experience of a particular session and always find it necessary to include the factoid that it happened with a Black guy, even when it really isn’t central to the story or conversation at all. And, it largely depends on whether the Black guy is a top or bottom. If he’s a top: he’s the Mandingo fantasy. But, it’s a full 180 degree difference if he’s a bottom. 
 

This seems to be a recurring theme in this thread.

May I know exactly what the problem is and why it annoys you? Serious question. I don't intend to troll nor be disrespectful of your viewpoint. In fact, when I was younger, in my early 20s, I had the same opinion of white men fetishizing BBC. Now I don't.

Also, as a black man, would there be a problem if I fetishized let's say Asian men? Or is this type of behavior only inappropriate for white men?

Lastly, I almost always include the race/ethnic background when sharing detailed sexual encounters with others. I find it normal among gay men, especially for those of us who have been with multiple men from various cultural backgrounds.

Its kinda like sharing stamps in our whore filled passport books.

1 hour ago, RawNYTop said:

That's what I was thinking, shots fired!

Its not harsh nor shots fired. I live in a dicey dense urban area where I'm more personally cautious about my interactions with folks on Grindr. Location-based gay hook-up apps can be jail broken, hacked and deep web sourced for personal information. Revenge on Grindr is real and understanding criminal intent doesn't make one a sociopath.

State prison.

28 minutes ago, Nik101 said:

Am curious if the polled preferences apply to both east and south asians.

Have noticed the racial preference against south asians as a theme among some white subs - they even go so far as to call my indian cock a BBC instead for some reason which always makes me laugh.

The term Asian most likely refers to East Asian men. As a black American man who prefers South Asian men, I use the term desi since I'm attracted to those men with backgrounds from all over the subcontinent.

On 1/4/2024 at 9:24 PM, blackrobe said:

To summarize what I think I heard from you:

"The DEI programs at Texas Universities did not effectively or authentically represent the concerns of black people and address their issues. That these programs were in fact a way of paying lip service to helping black people while instead providing a vehicle to help white people and those looking to pass as white.

Direct advocacy by communities and their organizations would be more effective at getting their issues addressed within the Texas university system."

As someone who's had to work inside a DEI structure to try and move forward a specific set of issues and concerns, I well aware of the way a DEI organization can structurally slow or prevent progress. 

Do you have specific data, citations, or evidence on how DEI in Texas universities failed and justified the creation of this ban? Based on the broad reporting it seems as though it supporters are more ideologically than specifically data driven. That is, I don't think the proponents of the ban are proposing a better, more effective solution for driving up under-represented minority enrollment and graduation, but instead simply wanted to remove the program and let the chips fall where they may.

The author of the bill that created the ban stated that his goal was in "promoting a merit-based approach where individuals are judged on their qualifications, skills, and contributions" which would seem to structurally disadvantage students across the black community and many others.

I'm trying to figure out if your support is based on specific knowledge of the situation in Texas, a general belief that DEI is always structured to fail or be unfair, or a simple idealogical agreement with those proposing and securing the ban.

I don't intend to direct this at you personally @blackrobe but to me, this reads as racism of low expectations.

On 1/4/2024 at 8:25 PM, BlackDude said:

Because many black people now have caught on to the “diversity” and “minority” game. Let’s look at this committee.

1. A white man

2. A white woman

3. A white LGBT person

4. A white disabled person

5. A Latino who identifies as white 

That’s often what we get from the DEI programs: the illusion of diversity. When in fact, it’s just like affirmative action. Alluding to racism as a reason for a policy, but written to ensure everyone else (especially white and white adjacent or aspiring) people get the benefits.

If people want to advocate for their groups, they should do so. But I'm also  for transparency. Many of these DEI programs were established with the intent providing the illusion of diversity 
 

 

👍👍

I caught on to the game.

@BlackDude Your DEI list excludes:

99. A black man

11 hours ago, BlackDude said:

I, for one, think that’s a good thing

Agreed. Its a good thing. 👍