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Here are your four choices for sex venues outside of using the apps:

1. Fair Theater
2. Private Parties
3. East Side Club
4. The New York City Department of Parks and Recreation

I'm not familiar with the current club/bar scene. Someone else can comment on that.

Or just show up at Paddles which is a party venue in Chelsea any weekend night.

Paddles - now called NYM4M Club, 250 W 26th St, Chelsea.

Visiting SoFL next month. 

Is Club Aqua Miami still open and active?

Or does Club FLL remain the better option?

On 4/13/2023 at 2:31 PM, FunCheerSlut said:

Sadly, it appears that no one (or not many) guys from India visit this site or view these message boards. Over 1000 views and no responses.

I would like to find and meet men in India. Any advice?

On 4/14/2023 at 3:39 AM, germancumbear said:

Any idea what Indian cities are particularly good for bare fucks? 

[think before following links] https://www.ohmojo.com/cruisingspots.aspx?clear=yes&countryname=India&countryid=1

The owner passed away in 2020 during lockdown. (not from Covid)

3 hours ago, Tiboer said:

What type of guys show up?  Racial mix? Age mix?

Blue-collar working-class men mostly from immigrant backgrounds.

Ages 30s through 60s. Some younger guys on weekends.

All races. ALL OF THEM.

It's Queens, New York.

Majority are Latin but also East Asian, South Asian, Caribbean blacks, American blacks, South East Asian, Central and South American, Eastern European, Middle Eastern, Indo-Caribbean, Afrolatino.

Pick a flavor...or three.

On 4/3/2025 at 4:38 PM, NYCAthlete said:

Whats the best time Friday or Saturday to hit Fair Theatre?   Any idea if a rainy day impacts attendance?  Some places are more popular, others less popular with rain.

On Fridays and Saturdays they're open from 10:45 AM until 3 AM the following morning.

Yes, it gets busier with inclement weather but not extreme weather like heavy snow or freezing cold since many take the bus.

1 hour ago, Sub-Cocksucker said:

^^^^ A dirty restroom with dirty old man cock is about as good as it gets.

I have sucked off sooooo many random men at cruising spots (and years ago a gloryhole several nights a week)
Many of these men were much older than me, and had dirty cocks, 
It grossed me out, and made me ashamed at first for quite a while, especially considering I couldnt stop doing it.
after a while, honestly,, I preferred old dirty dick.
Im not sure why, I think part of it is my submissiveness, and how it makes me feel put in my place.
Sucking cock at a local park cruising spot eventually led to be sucking off homeless men.
About a year of sucking homeless then led to me actively seeking out homeless camps.
There are plenty of times I am still grossed out, and ashamed, but, I can NOT stop.
 

You'd love the men's restroom in New York Penn Station or Port Authority Bus Terminal.

Either location is filled with homeless, street performers and other vagrants with questionable morals.

13 hours ago, Gaylorduk2003 said:

From when I douche, I know I have a safe 4 hour window before things start getting messy. I've seen guys on here saying they're still getting barebacked 7-8 hours after starting. How do you guys manage such a long window.

Length of the dick has way more to do with the safe window then actual length of time.

fingerprint ink pad

2 hours ago, Marlin said:

 Nothing hotter when a black top says I'm ready to nut in you. 

23 hours ago, BREEDmeRAW said:

Yes, there are different cultures that use different words for the activity. I am a white gay male that loves to get fucked and loaded with cum. 

BTW: Black Men do NUTT while others often Cum, Breed, Impregnate, Shoot inside. 

I'm adept at code switching.

With my black fuck buddies I use nut.

With my Asian buddies I say cum or milk.

But my absolute favorite is when I hear Latin guys tell me to "dame la leche"

My cock identifies as verga.

Most bathhouses and sex clubs provide mouthwash dispensers. They supply the cheap mouthwash which is just strong minty water and not antiseptic. I would still carry my own.

2 hours ago, Hungryforbbc said:

The non-white dl/bi/gay community generally does not look kindly on that word it screams white like frat bro lilly white and corny. Call it a dick or a pipe or pretty much anything else lol 

Very true.

26 minutes ago, Marlin said:

White guys say cock and I find most black guys say dick. I also note that white guys say cum while black guys say nut. 

Somebody's been busy with the brothas to note the difference between cum and nut.

@jd13

You are a ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ bottom.

The party I'm referring to is this one:

4 hours ago, ginger80 said:

yesterday went first time to some old sauna near my office with lots of mature chubby men which i really like

had good time with several men fucking me... all bare, but no one cummed... is that unusual?

i know some tops want to save it for later but still it was very disappointing, some fucked me in both the wet sauna and the sling room but never managed to make them cum

any tips for future? i love the fucking... but nothing compares to man cum inside me (even if i don't feel it)

 

Wait until closing time.

(or when guys generally start to leave if its a 24-hour bathhouse sauna)

Who remembers The Men's Party in DC?

It wasn't an official bathhouse, but it had private rooms with beds in the basement and some guys walked around wearing only a towel.

Sadly Steamworks San Juan closed many years ago - which I had heard was notorious. 
 

The type of men I like - working class blue-collar family men -  cannot afford to pay $40 bucks for a 4 hour locker on their way home from work.

1 hour ago, BBoink said:

I went to the FAIR Theatre in Queens last night.  Quite a cool place with a lot of potential..  $15 to get in.  Porn on several screens, lots of little hideaway places , dark hallways, booths, and such.  Part of it smelled like cat piss and it was sorta grungy but could be awesome when crowd is right. Anyone know when It gets busy.??

Saturday is the busiest day.

Friday evening and Sunday afternoon are also popular.

Has anyone been to this party and can share what it's like?

The crowd, set-up, sex, party host...?

2 hours ago, MuscleAss said:

Do they accept cards? How much of a tip is expected to whoever brings you to your room?

They don't accept cards. There is an ATM in the check-in lobby and a Chase bank across the street.

I usually give the attendants a $2 tip for walking me less than 10 feet across the hallway to my locker.

What ever you tip won't be enough and you'll likely receive a disapproving sneer as a Thank You.

42 minutes ago, rawinme said:

I'm a computer guy, not a phone or APP person, so I like using sites like Squirt, Manhunt and Sniffles.  I have very good luck with those three.  I miss Doublelist before it went to hell and I miss the old Craigs List.  None were or are perfect but each have (or had) their strong points, too.  For me the pleasure is quality, not quantity, so making quality connections is most important although seedy ABS and outdoor connections can be a huge thrill.  

Grindr Web is nice.

On 3/19/2025 at 2:19 PM, Poz50something said:

Have never been, am not, nor will I ever be on Grindr. Is it because it’s so easy to have a smorgasbord of guys? No - it’s the way they treat non-white guys. BBRTS is okay, now that I state I don’t want PNP. Every other message was ‘wanna blow some clouds?’ ‘I have a friend who my meth dealer’ - no he ain’t your friend…he’s your dealer…. I’m kinda old fashioned. Love the decadence of saunas, but et then, after 11pm, it’s tweak city. 
Used to be on Silverdaddies, but it’s people who want to bla bla bla. 

It's not Grindr. It could be where you live.

Come to New York. There are many grown men who don't drive.

Some will come to your home and steal the crack outta your ass if its not locked up.

Then there are those who show up with large backpacks, head straight to your bathroom and lock themselves inside.

Then there is the guy who will 'accidently' leave something behind at your place as a premise to show up - possibly unannounced - at a later date.

Come to New York.