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SomewhereonNeptune

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  1. Two theories: 1. The “I’m leaving to never return again…did you hear me, I’m not coming back…I’m back to make sure you heard me the first 7 times about not returning, I’m dead serious this time, I’m not going to logon here again…screw it, I’m back because no one deleted my account to force my own compulsive behavior” syndrome. Instead our reaction should be “Don’t go away mad, just…go away.” 2. Ever get stuck in a long line of traffic and you want to finally get to the head of the line and find yourself disappointed because you didn’t see carnage? The wreck has since been cleared and you’ve just wasted an hour of your time without anyone else’s misfortune to make your day. Don’t you just hate that? Hell, I try to get a good view to make sure I see the mangled vehicles and ambulances scooping up the injured because we all can’t resist watching a good train wreck. 😁 Or car wreck.
  2. This is refreshing to hear in these forums. Us 'lurkers' who come in with more questions than answers often wonder about whether all of these guys who seem to embrace the risk behind chasing or being pozzed tends to leave readers thinking there's legions of people going out there and making such decisions. I've wondered that most cannot be authentic. I do know guys who are poz, some who've made the decision to come off meds (partly due to cost), others who never sought it out, some who lament their state but plod onward, and some who have vehement positions on those who are seeking out HIV. Chap I've met claims to have gotten it from someone who wasn't religious about medications that gave it to him -- don't know if I completely buy that he got it from oral sex, but I take him at face value. I'm glad there are some reasonable people who can express sound reasoning and concern. Thank you for putting that out there.
  3. Though not technically r@pe and not technically under consenting age (so not statutory r@pe either), a friend (at the time) who was actually a predator threw himself onto me under the guise that he had feelings. In hindsight, he was really fucking harmless to me since I was bigger than him (in multiple ways). He did this to another friend of mine who was the same age (he was a few years our senior), and when we compared notes, we both thought he was pretty pathetic. Neither of us had any desire to go into explicit details other than to laugh at his lack of game. Or rather the one feeble approach he had for coming onto guys. My concern many years on is that his MO tends to be involvement with youth groups (Boy Scouts being one) and whether or not he is grooming younger boys as a predator of them. I didn’t consent to him wanting to force himself on me and no penetration happened to me, nor did I have interest in penetrating him (for a wide variety of reasons). Don’t really know why I’m sharing other than a way of processing that early confusion in a kid’s mind that makes him question his sexuality before he might be ready to process that. Plus it was a time I was awkward anyway, so I hated him for creating that confusion before I was ready for it. On the positive side of it, I’ve learned that gay men aren’t in general the predators or pedophiles that are fodder for fiction. I’m no longer uncomfortable around other guys after a slight bit of therapy to uncover that. To the original question: No. Definitely not attracted to his type. Nor was my friend.
  4. When I left New York and stopped commuting in/out of the city, they were starting to upgrade the cheaper motels along the GW Bridge approach on Route 4. The ones they probably can't do much about are along US-46 to/from the bridge (between the Turnpike and the bridge). More than a couple looked the part of a day-rate / nooner type arrangement. There's one in Wayne on NJ Route 23 almost across from a bus park-n-ride that has a reputation as a hooker haven (Wayne Motor Inn or something similar), so that gets you out to Jersey and connected to bus transit. Follow the commuter traffic and you're set for the night.
  5. There are plenty of hotels around Harmon Meadows in Secaucus if you look around Harmon Meadow Blvd that regularly host people with ads in Doublelist and other sites. If you want to go on the same sketchy side that @NastyRawBottom wanted, the 5-mile or so expanse of US 9 known as Tonnele Avenue has plenty of low-end motels between the Holland Tunnel and 495. All of the above are served by Uber/Lyft. Doing a bus to/from Port Authority Bus Terminal entails between 0.7 and 1.4 miles of walking. If you follow the commute going in the evening and coming back the next morning, the time-tables won't be terrible. Consult Google Maps for routes and options. It's also optimal for guys from Jersey who don't want to contend with tolls and parking into NYC.
  6. From being around NY/NJ there are seedy places along US Route 1-9 in Jersey that are cheap and in sketchy areas. They tend to pop up on Doublelist and other sites for hookers so clearly they wouldn't use those locations if they were bothered or heavily monitored. Not NYC but police across Jersey are pretty fragmented so stuff flies under the radar all the time.
  7. Flushing Motel (34-50 Linden Pl, Queens) has that certain hourly-rate ambiance to it with the mirrored walls and sketchy location. But it seems like it's primarily for nooners. For overnight, it gets almost as expensive as better hotels. Jets Motor Inn (139-06 Queens Blvd, Queens) screams cheap motel/likely to stay next to meth tweakers. Dumpy furniture, old bath fixtures, hot & cold running roaches. JFK Inn is right near the airport. Looks super sketchy and sleazy. Really dated, shitty housekeeping. I'd have recommended the Hotel Carter off Times Square if that was still open and you didn't mind a super sleazy hotel complete with bed bugs. They finally closed that eyesore. I know your request was serious and I was trying not to joke with this -- you aren't looking to stay at The Plaza -- so I went for the cheapest properties that didn't have a lot going for them. Someone could have a lot of fun trying to find the worst hotels in NYC, for years the Hotel Carter was it and had no equal. People actually got murdered there and it was a haven for crime. Good luck, come back safe.
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