Olderkinkybiguy

It’s happened several times. It’s nice when sexual attraction turns more intimate and a mental bond can form. Two times we ended up in a long term relationship and moved in together. Once two people learn what the other enjoys, intimacy can freely flow and being together can reach new heights.

I definitely agree your ass would be fun. Eat it first like it deserves, than impregnate you as I deserve.

Love ass lips. I love a hot ass anyway, but add some lips and it so sexy.

Back in the day when I was more of a whore, I never asked if I was fucking them. On the occasion I was going to bottom, I was more likely to ask their status, but not always. Now that a lot of guys are on PrEP, and U=U has been scientifically proven (I have been undetectable over 20 years) I typically don’t discuss, unless they bring it up. the only hookup site I am on now is BBRT, so in my opinion, I assume most everyone online doesn’t care, but I do list my status as undetectable usually.

The first cock I sucked was cut. I was young and all my friends were cut, so that was all I knew. The first time I saw an uncut cock, I was thrown off. Up to that point, I didn’t know they existed. Now uncut is my preference; the more skin the better.

I typically negotiate the turns before it gets that far. They know I always do it raw and finish inside. I remember only one time when the guy I was fucking asked me to stop, but it wasn’t because he changed his mind or freaked out about the realization of what was going to happen. It was because he could relax enough and my girth was too much for him; possible scenario when you fuck virgins. I reluctantly pulled out and settled for a BJ, and yes I came in his mouth. I eventually got to fuck and breed him, so that made me happy.

Being poz is ok, but has its downsides definitely. The few times I tried using a condom, I had difficulty maintaining an erection, so saved money in one aspect. I love fucking guys and I found guys who were poz were much more adventurous and fun. since I hated condoms, as both a top and occasional bottom, I was always prepared for the diagnosis. After becoming poz, I can’t really say I was anymore slutty than before because I was already a slut. Living in NYC at the time, sex was always plentiful. One of the downsides for me, especially after I relocated to the Oklahoma, has been the negative reactions from some of the others in the community. Than you have the chasers who think nothing of asking me to discount my meds so they can get infected. If I was in some sort relationship with them I might consider it. For a stranger, my health is more of a concern. Another downside is dealing with the medication aspect. After 25 years, it has become habit to take my meds before bed. It’s more the cost and availability. I am still on older meds, so generics are available. Because they are relatively inexpensive, compared to the new drugs, they are also harder to fill because there is less profit. I used to freak every time I got sick, thinking I might have a hard time recovering. After having West Nile many years ago, and Covid a few years ago, I don’t freak out as much. Even with scientific evidence that U=U is legitimate, some guys in my area will choose a guy who tested negative 8 months ago over my recent undetectable lab results (even guys who claim to be on PrEP).

Wow. I’d love for all the loads I wast each day by myself to not go to waste.

I second your comment.

I have always had difficulty distinguishing flirtation from just being nice, but one time stands out. I was in my late 20’s and decided to stop off at a pub for a drink on my way back to my hotel. I was sitting at the bar when a nice looking man stood next to where I was sitting to order drinks. We made eye contact and he smiled at me and asked how my night was going. I told him it could be better, but the Long Island Iced Tea’s were helping. He smirked and said maybe he could make things better. He grabbed the two drinks he had ordered, winked, and walked back to his table. he was probably in his 30’s, thin, sexy dark hair and eyes. The female at his table looked athletic with blond hair, and similar age. He said something to her as she was looking my way and gave me a smiled. Wasn’t long after she came up to me and asked if I wanted to join her and her friend. Soon we were all chatting. After some explicit conversation, they both started rubbing my leg under the table. Fast forward to their place, we were all nude in the hot tub. She was a participant, but really more of an observer to her and I. We all ended up in bed with her telling him what to do to me and where to put my dick. Although the two of them interacted sexually with each other, I was definitely the focus of the night. He sucked me off once. Than I fucked her and he sucked me clean and ate her. Later, she wanted to watch me fuck him, so I creamed inside his ass. I woke up to both of them sucking me, but finished off in his ass. as I was leaving, I noticed some framed photos and got the impression they were not just friends but possibly siblings. I never asked.

As primary a top, a hole is a hole; ass, mouth, and occasionally pussy. If I can get inside it raw and leave my fuck juice in it, I am game. I love variety, so I enjoy both tight and loose. I do enjoy both the challenge, and the feel, of a tight hole. I actually enjoy the discomfort of fucking a tight ass. First I try fucking him with my tongue, pushing as much spit inside as I can; pre-lube. Than a finger or two, than try putting my shaft in. I really enjoy some friction when fucking a tight ass. I love the mental turn on I I start spit fucking a tight hole and he slowly gets looser and more wet. It’s as if he is surrendering to my breeding desire and accepting his role as my raw cum slut. their have been a few occasions where the guy couldn’t take me. Typically they were scared first timers. I also appreciate a well seasoned bottom. A hole that has seen far too many cocks and objects inserted to count. Mentally knowing I am just a random fuck breeding a hungry hole eliminates any hesitation or making it anything more than what it it; two guys pleasing each other. I have on a few occasions fucked a guy who had just gotten fisted. Way different from a tight hole, but still very enjoyable. A sloppy ass is probably the closest to a real pussy in my opinion. Give me a sloppy hole with prior loads and my mind compensates for any lack of friction my dick might be experiencing. as I stated at the start, as far as my dick and mind are concerted, a hole is a hole.

Most public was when my bf and I stopped at an adult theater in Tampa one night on our way home from a club; we were both in our late 20’s. We were cruising the gay theater and i noticed a cute young college aged guy cruising. I watched as lots of guys approached him but he turned them away. I told my by I wanted that guy, so he went over and brought him back to me. I pulled my dick out and the guy started stroking me. My bf whispered something to the guy and he dropped to his knees and took my cock into his mouth. He wasn’t very good at sucking cock; I suspect he was closeted and had a gf. I held back as long as I could. By the time I blew my load down his throat, a crowd had formed around us. I grabbed his head and held him firm as I emptied my balls. My bf was stroking his dick the whole time, rubbing the head of his cock on the upper part of my leg. After I finished inside the guys mouth, my bf came on my leg. Than my bf knelt down and licked me clean. When we were vacationing in Key West, same bf, I lusted after a sexy twink that was staying at the same guest house with his much older “Daddy”. My bf was able to chat with the guy in the pool during the day. While chatting, the guy was checking me out with out his older bf noticing. Late that night, my bf and I were up on the sun deck. A few guys were down a ways getting getting hot and heavy. The twink came up on the deck, walked over to us an dropped to his knees. He pulled down my bathing suit and started sucking me off, no words spoken. The guys down the way noticed who was sucking me and came down for a closer look. My by pulled his dick out and started stroking and the others standing watching did the same. After he swallowed my load, he sucked and swallowed my bf next. Than he sucked and swallowed the other three guys. Than he just walked off and wend back downstairs without saying a word. Before the twink and his Daddy checked out, I did managed to breed his hot skinny ass as my bf jacked off.

If I get the sense the guy next to me wants to show off, I look. I never had sex with anyone in a public restroom, but did exchange numbers on a few occasions that worked out well. When I was much younger, it seemed older men loved showing off to me. my bf from high school house backed up to the local park. He used to tell me me about his adventures in the toilets not far from his house. He said he started sucking off men when he was 14 in the park. I loved hearing him tell those stories before I skull fucked him.

The question of status is rarely brought up. I am sure the advancement in HIV treatment and the availability of PrEP has facilitated the shift. Going back twenty years ago, the subject of HIV status was very common on most hookup sites. Now, most guys seem to make a point that they are on PrEP when confessing their desire for BB sex. I typically don’t disclose my status on non-bareback sites. Instead, I sometimes post a pic with U=U as an indirect support for the community. I don’t really frequent hookup site anymore. I do have a current profile on BBRTS. I also have a profile on FetLife, but don’t disclose my status. I do belong to a few groups that are bareback in nature as well as having a U=U photo in my photos. If someone can’t put the two together, than we would probably not be a good match anyway. the fact that being undetectable, and not disclosing it, remains a crime in many states is amazing. Despite all the scientific evidence that validates U=U. And that someone unknowingly infects others might fair better in a criminal trial is criminal in its own way.