I have been with my bf for 2 years now... he is poz, I am neg. I was previously in a 19 year relationship that ended badly....for both of us. I have finally found what I have been wanting all of my life and I won't waste a single minute of this relationship..including fucking raw. I want him in me, I want to feel him in me. I don't care he's poz. His levels are undetectable, doesn't mean that the virus isn't there. But I live this life once, and I have to live it to the fullest. He worries now and again, but it's my body, my choice. All or nothing at this point.
When he found out he was poz, his so called"friends" rejected him, dating was impossible and he had nearly given up on finding happiness.. well guess what? There is someone out there for everyone, he found it and so did I. I do worry sometimes, but whatever happens we will deal with it together. I have no control over the future, but I embrace it and really cherish the time we have together and yes it also means when we have sex. He's a pig, I'm a pig...so what.....