PozPigCumDump

Exactly @bareback-flipflop! Point is that for anyone travelling to another country and wanting to meet locals, best thing is to go on the apps most used in that region. That's where you get the critical mass. Indeed, Romeo is widely used throughout Europe, except Spain, Portugal, the UK and Ireland. Grindr & Scruff are worldwide, kinda like Starbucks coffee: universal but lacking local flavour. Similar to when Europeans go to Asia: we sample local food (and men 😁), not just the McDonalds!

There are over 100 million German speaking people in Europe. I don't think that qualifies as "sadly only". Buddy doesn't have the 'universal' coverage of Grindr or Scruff, that's true, but I find the quality of profiles on Buddy, or MachoBB, to be much better than on Grindr and Scruff, when it comes to bareback sex. Grindr and Scruff may be universal but their apps are loaded with fake profiles. Buddy and MachoBB are more niche website catering for bb sex specifically. So if you are on here, on BZ, and you want to hook up with someone in these regions, then I definitely recommend Buddy for German speaking regions and MachoBB for Spanish, Portuguese, Italian and French speaking regions. Even if you don't speak German or French or Spanish, everyone on these two sites speaks passable english. Because let's be honest, you're looking to suck cock and get your ass fucked, not for philosophical dissertations. And one more thing... In Europe (except UK), a lot of people still do go out to bars and clubs for hookups, not just sitting at home scrolling endlessly through profiles. So if you find yourself in Europe, try the bars, sexclubs, saunas or cruising spots for real sex. In Germany you get quite a number of sex clubs where bb is de rigueur , and so in France, Belgium or Spain. To make a long story short, use Buddy for German speaking users, MachoBB for most other latin origin languages. In the UK, you have the BBRT - although that's a hit and miss depending on the city.

1,000 loads in a single day is indeed a nice fantasy. Just like the prince in a fairy tale that's 6'4, 220# of pure muscle, has a 10" cock and shoots 4 times an hour, each time a quart of cum. Whoever bottomed in their lifetime knows that a top may take anywhere between a few minutes to a few tens of minutes to cum. Finding 10 tops to cum one after another is a mighty lofty goal. 1000? Only if you are a dictator in a country with gay men only. Which is fantasy too. I once went with a friend of mine to the Lab in Berlin on a Thursday night. He got between 9pm and 3am some 20 loads. That would be some 3 loads an hour. And the guy was super hot with a bubble but, in his late 20's with good stamina. We went later on to Bull where he got until Friday afternoon another 10-15 loads. So, over 24 hours he got some 30-35 loads. Nowhere near even the 50 mark. And this guy's hole was completely destroyed after this experience. So, as a fantasy, that's a great goal. As a realistic goal? Not so much. Unless you're high out of this Earth, being fucked non-stop for a day is borderline impossible. I may spend a whole weekend at the sexclubs in Berlin, but inbeteween fucks i need some rest as well. Or we get the rest whilst waiting for the next top. On a good evening, I may get fucked by 15-20 tops (different tops). I may get 5-6 loads too, sometimes a bit more. But even 5 tops an hour is a massive strain. Unless of course you get a two-minute fucks and over. In which case, yeah, having 100 or 1000 men sticking their cock in your ass and fucking you for 10 secs is probably doable.

Don't they say "You use it, you loose it"? or ... ? 🤣

Realistically I think I got around 250 this year. I stopped tracking many moons ago and I rarely do 1-1. I mostly go to sex clubs on average twice or three times a week and I get fucked quite a bit, but on average I get some 5-6 loads every time. Sometimes more, sometimes less. To put it in perspective, I get fucked some 10-15 times every time I go to a sex club where I tend to stay about 3-4 hours max. And so I think getting 5-6 loads per visit, it's quite good actually considering that not all tops want to unload right away and there is always more than just one bottom 🙂

I am a gay man and aware that, traditionally, bottoms have been viewed with a lesser admiration and respect. However, in my case, when I bottom I feel equally masculine and comfortable with the guy fucking me. Playing a more submissive role does not imply me feeling less masculine or manly. The top is fucking me because I let them fuck me, not because he'd be 'superior' or more masculine. Any top who crosses the line of respect and fun play (including BDSM, rough play, etc.), and who thinks I am less masculine will see himself thrown out with blue balls. I love getting fucked, absolutely. And I feel comfortable and masculine. Whilst I do acknowledge that some men are into degradation and extreme submissiveness, or role playing, or getting their high from being called names, spat on, and so on, I do see it as a mutual exchange of expectations. When I top (it does happen as well!), I always treat my bottoms with respect, dignity and make sure they feel desired. After all, why would I stick my cock in someone's arse if i don't feel the desire to do so? So to the tops who assume that bottoms are less, boy, I got news for you: It is the bottom who lets you feed them. so consider yourself lucky that you have been chosen. Even as a cum dump, when someone crosses a certain threshold of respect, I get up and move on. Role play, consented verbal abuse, consented degradation and BDSM, is one thing. Crossing into disrespectful abuse is not fun for me.

OP said: "I have never really cared". I assume this relates to an anonymous encounter where the bottom is there to be bred. Getting the load is good enough for the bottom. I see no obligation for the top to stick around, unless there is a personal connection. OP said: "Lately, i got into a conversation with another top and he always makes sure his bottoms cum. I thought it was dumb..." I believe the context matters here, so maybe there is a misinterpretation of where the sex takes place and under what circumstances. If the person who says that he makes sure that his bottoms cum was referring to a 1-1 encounter, personal, more intimate, then I don't find it "dumb" per se. But then it's also the bottom who may want to signal that he's ready to cum, so sticking around is the nice thing to do. If the bottom is happy with just the load, then I don't see the reason for the top to stick around and make sure the bottom cums. Since most of the encounters and breeding on this site involves insatiable bottoms (myself included), I don't see a need for the top to make sure the bottom cums. Unless there is some sort of fetish, once the top unloads, the two should part ways with no further expectations.

Indeed, the fuck culture amongst gay men has changed dramatically over the last 10 years. And it's a good thing... I think! And true, that there is still a lot of education to be had even amongst gay men. PrEP will only almost eliminate the risk of HIV transmission, but not other STD's. However, even before HIV era, men were having bareback sex and syphilis, gono, chlam, and all the others were still present. The thing is that with a little bit of effort all these other illnesses can be treated. A penicillin shot here and there, one or two pills for others, and we're good as new. Of course, for many having to disclose these illnesses means that we somehow have to admit to promiscuity. But let me ask a question? Who the fuck cares what the doctor or the nurse says? When a doctor tries to gives me a sermon about promiscuous lifestyle I tell them in no uncertain terms that my illness keeps them in business and to thank me for billing the system. Without me, their new car, the new carpet or new phone would be so much more difficult to buy. So that's that. I am not diminishing the discomfort or the complications these illnesses come with. But, let's not live our lives in fear. However, I don't live in US where the medical setup favours the rich, so I admit that insurance costs complicate things. At any rate, PrEP did change the gay sex culture and I am happy that we're coming to a point where new infections are coming down, and people are having more uninhibited fun.

On the rare occasions when I top I always tell the bottom that I am poz, toxic, not on meds, and I don't pull out when i cum. If he says yes, ok, go ahead, then he gets the full meal deal. If he doesn't want or if he's hesitant, i don't fuck him. Even in a dark room, I let them know from the beginning. I have been told no, many times. But I got the go ahead many other times. usually 3 in 10 will refuse me. the others.... you get the picture!

Any top who can get his cock hard enough to push it in my hole is my type.

Update for anyone heading to Maspalomas these days: 1. Dunes: still some action during the day, but somehow in the 4 days I went by there weren't too many people. Lots of wankers and watchers, but action seems to be less intense than in previous years. 2. Factory: always good. many people and lots of action. definitely my favourite. good mix of ages, tops and bottoms, with lots of action happening everywhere. a definite 9/10. 3. Zoo. good between 10:30 and 01:00. then the crowd thins out and mostly bottoms stay in hope of a last load. The most uncomfortable slings and more 1-1 action rather than group. Very clean and diverse clientele although many do come to socialise and only occasionally have sex. 7/10 4. Strong Construction. Always packed, dirty toilets, lots of Stand & Model, many OF making vids. Dark areas will get you some action, but way too crowded and everyone looking for the elusive 25cm black top who shoots gallons. 5/10 5. Reds. More laid back smaller club, but clean and mostly men over 45-50. But you get more action and fucks and loads than at Construction. Great terrace for smokers and if you are exhibitionist and like to fuck or be fucked whilst others are watching, then this is a place for you. Even on the smoking terrace, men wank openly, suck and fuck with no worries. A good 8/10 6. Noxon. Mostly for puppies and piss lovers. Good mix, depending on the night. Early bar so pretty much all dies down around midnight. They do have themed parties (Load and Breed ), but can be a hit and miss depending on the night. I find drinks to be a bit on the pricey side but a good option. 7/10 7. Tom's bar. Small and mostly socialising for bears and leather. You can get some action although it's not the main attraction. If you like bears and leather, this can be your place to meet others. For me.... 5/10 8. Cruise bar. Lots of mature men, mostly with clothes on. Lots of looks and buttslapping, but action is on a low side. If you like 50+ daddies type this is a good place to be. Note however to watch for your valuables. As many people go dressed you need to keep an eye on your phone and wallet. Needless to say that thiefs and pickpockets don't care about your sexual orientation. my rating: 4/10

The path we walk on this journey is always a deeply personal one. There is no right, wrong, left, right, up or down direction. The path changes with the journey itself and we all encounter different situations along the way which sometimes change the direction of the path. Someone at the age of 20 will have a different path than someone at 35, 50 or 60. What your are describing @homosapiens is your journey until now and you reached a point when you need to decide what's best for you. Bear in mind that personal circumstances determine your future path: age, general health considerations, career, family, friends, environment, etc. Since I tested HIV+ many decades ago I made a conscious decision not to take any meds. I was in my late 20s and I was clinically healthy. And so I saw no reason to infuse myself with medication which was, at that time, having more negative side effects than positive. And I also decided to take better care of myself: more fitness, better diet, avoid as much as possible anything that would knowingly harm me. It's been now close to three decades and while I do carry the virus I managed to stay healthy. Except of the VL which goes up and down with every test, everything else checks out just fine. I have had hundreds if not thousands of of sexual partners along the way. Each and every one of them was duly informed that I am HIV+, that I don't take any medication, and that I am most likely infectious. Even at bathhouses, saunas or sex clubs, I make sure I whisper in the ear of anyone who comes in contact with me that I am poz and likely infectious. I had a huge number of rejections, of course. But I was always upfront and honest. Even now, in the age of PrEP, I let the others know that I am poz. In a dark room, it only takes me a few moments to quickly turn around and let the guy fucking me that I am poz and not on meds (I learned that in a few languages too LOL). And so I leave it to the other guy to decide for himself. No pressure, no expectations, no lies. Now, back to your original thoughts... How will you manage going forward? It is up to you and your personal context. Everyone will tell you their story and their actions, but none will match your own experience, past and future. Science tells us that PrEP is the way to go now. If you are comfortable with it, and if you're healthy with no obvious side effects, staying on PrEP and being neg is a good thing. It carries less stigma, less paperwork, allows you to travel freely and reduces the visits to the doctors. Removes the need to explain, disclose, and justify and gets you pretty much the same quality of life the majority of men enjoy. If your mind demands sex without PrEP, then you need to evaluate the risks and be very practical about the consequences. But, as I said, the path you choose is different for everyone and deeply personal. You need to ask yourself a few questions to determine the reason for your decision but in the end YOU need to be happy and deal with the decision. What people put on their profile and what is going on in reality... there's a significant difference. I personally made a (somewhat) informed decision decades ago and to this day I stand by my decision. Living carefree and letting the nature runs its course is a personal choice that cannot be translated to someone else's life. And feelings of 'sex is so much better without PrEP' may be temporary, while the virus stays with you for life. YOU are the one who needs to determine if the risk is worth it or not. And as I said in the beginning, we all have a different path which also changes with age and context. And as for certainty you seek to reassure yourself that many men are on PrEP and the risk is low... Nobody can give you an answer with absolute certainty. PrEP works for the overwhelming majority who take the pill religiously. And most likely works for you too, so it all depends if the urge is just mental and borne out of a fantasy, or if you are tired of PrEP and something inside you tells you to stop and live as you wish. We are all products of our desires in all respects: money, love, health, kinks, comfort, etc. You just need to figure out how would your life unfold if you stop prep and somehow test poz. If you are content with the outcome or not, it's up to you to decide. As an anecdote, in early 2000s I met a French guy who tested poz in the late 80s. He is now close to 70. He has never been on meds and lives a full life, clinically healthy and content. And I met many people who took their meds religiously but were overwhelmed by other illness. One or two cases are just a drop in the sea. My point is that we all want to be happy, young and full of vitality and carefree. But unprotected sex is not the only risk in life but one that you can minimise and remove the hassle of additional headaches... And just to be super clear for anyone who reads this comment and thinks that I somehow advocate on not being on meds if you're poz as being a good thing, this is definitely not the point. I am only saying that in the context of OP's wonderings, we should only do what's in the best interest of yourself, and caring for others' wellbeing too. PrEP or no PreP, condoms or not, it is up to you my dear @homosapiens and the partners you enjoy with.

What is the name of the place you are talking about? All sex clubs in Maspalomas have glory holes. winter pride starts on monday 10 november. also, description hole-in-the-wall is generally understood as a small bar, eating place, etc. It does not carry any sexual meaning in general terms. I am in Maspalomas now.

Any poz pigs heading to Maspalomas ?

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