PozPigCumDump

Love mutual rimming, both to rim and get rimmed. I bet your hole is fucking juicy 😈

Such a waste of perfectly hot cum 😞 That is why I generally prefer sex clubs, as I can move to the next bottom and unload in a willing hole. Naturally, as a bottom I want a lot of cock and cum, but being the slut that I am I am rarely satisfied by just one man, so being in a sex club surrounded by horny men is my favourite.

A private BHZ party would absolutely work, but it would need to be an "invite only" party with people whom you know or someone else vouched for them. Depending on the size of the apartment, you may want to restrict the number of people and also charge a fee. Whoever is serious about the party would not mind paying up for the maintenance of the apartment, including cleaning after the party, provision of supplies like lube, paper towels, etc. Also, you may want to keep the ratio of tops to bottoms of 3:1. More versatiles the better, but even the versatiles would want their holes filled up. There used to be a guy who organised private parties in a nice apartment close to Tiergarten. He would have some 10 bottoms and 30-40 tops. I would pay 100 euros for the upkeep and parties would run from Friday afternoon to Sunday mid-day. Strictly no drugs. The invite would go out a month before and the fee was payable on registration. Usually, you would get a few more bottoms and a few less tops, but overall the vibe was awesome. The only "drawback" was that most people were normal people with normal bodies and of all ages. But the goal was for the bottoms to get as many loads as possible, and leave the tops plenty of time to recover between fucks. They did have beer and drinks available, but everyone understood that the main goal was to have a good time. The guy had a few rules: bottoms can't refuse any top, Tops can't refuse a willing bottom unless they were resting. Cleanliness was appreciated and no piss unless in the bathtub. Clean after yourself and everyone helps tidying up the place. He had a terrace where people could smoke but respeect the neighbours. Music was moderate and loud noises were not encouraged. So, yes, it does work if you set it up smart from the beginning. And the 100euro fee was enough to discourage the no-shows and ensure everyone had a good time. I've only been three times, but each time I had a great time.

My personal best... Hmmm.. 17 loads in a 5 hour session at a sex-club in Berlin some 8 years ago. 10 of them were in the first two hours, but then I needed some rest, so for the rest of the evening I paced myself. I was the fresh meat in the club and all I had to do was to lie in the sling and let the cum flow...

Here in mainland Europe, whoever wears a jockstrap signals that he is a bottom and wants to be fucked. No questions, no doubt, no misinterpretation. If whoever wears a jock wants to fuck, a cock out and into someone's hole will be just fine. That means that the guy just felt like fucking, and that's that. The "shy" tops usually wear full briefs, underwear, speedos, etc. But they do not expose their butt. End of story. Men in other regions may have a different view, of course. Or tops with a fetish for a jockstrap. However, a jockstrap usually means: Hole available for fuck.

Exactly @bareback-flipflop! Point is that for anyone travelling to another country and wanting to meet locals, best thing is to go on the apps most used in that region. That's where you get the critical mass. Indeed, Romeo is widely used throughout Europe, except Spain, Portugal, the UK and Ireland. Grindr & Scruff are worldwide, kinda like Starbucks coffee: universal but lacking local flavour. Similar to when Europeans go to Asia: we sample local food (and men 😁), not just the McDonalds!

There are over 100 million German speaking people in Europe. I don't think that qualifies as "sadly only". Buddy doesn't have the 'universal' coverage of Grindr or Scruff, that's true, but I find the quality of profiles on Buddy, or MachoBB, to be much better than on Grindr and Scruff, when it comes to bareback sex. Grindr and Scruff may be universal but their apps are loaded with fake profiles. Buddy and MachoBB are more niche website catering for bb sex specifically. So if you are on here, on BZ, and you want to hook up with someone in these regions, then I definitely recommend Buddy for German speaking regions and MachoBB for Spanish, Portuguese, Italian and French speaking regions. Even if you don't speak German or French or Spanish, everyone on these two sites speaks passable english. Because let's be honest, you're looking to suck cock and get your ass fucked, not for philosophical dissertations. And one more thing... In Europe (except UK), a lot of people still do go out to bars and clubs for hookups, not just sitting at home scrolling endlessly through profiles. So if you find yourself in Europe, try the bars, sexclubs, saunas or cruising spots for real sex. In Germany you get quite a number of sex clubs where bb is de rigueur , and so in France, Belgium or Spain. To make a long story short, use Buddy for German speaking users, MachoBB for most other latin origin languages. In the UK, you have the BBRT - although that's a hit and miss depending on the city.

1,000 loads in a single day is indeed a nice fantasy. Just like the prince in a fairy tale that's 6'4, 220# of pure muscle, has a 10" cock and shoots 4 times an hour, each time a quart of cum. Whoever bottomed in their lifetime knows that a top may take anywhere between a few minutes to a few tens of minutes to cum. Finding 10 tops to cum one after another is a mighty lofty goal. 1000? Only if you are a dictator in a country with gay men only. Which is fantasy too. I once went with a friend of mine to the Lab in Berlin on a Thursday night. He got between 9pm and 3am some 20 loads. That would be some 3 loads an hour. And the guy was super hot with a bubble but, in his late 20's with good stamina. We went later on to Bull where he got until Friday afternoon another 10-15 loads. So, over 24 hours he got some 30-35 loads. Nowhere near even the 50 mark. And this guy's hole was completely destroyed after this experience. So, as a fantasy, that's a great goal. As a realistic goal? Not so much. Unless you're high out of this Earth, being fucked non-stop for a day is borderline impossible. I may spend a whole weekend at the sexclubs in Berlin, but inbeteween fucks i need some rest as well. Or we get the rest whilst waiting for the next top. On a good evening, I may get fucked by 15-20 tops (different tops). I may get 5-6 loads too, sometimes a bit more. But even 5 tops an hour is a massive strain. Unless of course you get a two-minute fucks and over. In which case, yeah, having 100 or 1000 men sticking their cock in your ass and fucking you for 10 secs is probably doable.

Don't they say "You use it, you loose it"? or ... ? 🤣

Realistically I think I got around 250 this year. I stopped tracking many moons ago and I rarely do 1-1. I mostly go to sex clubs on average twice or three times a week and I get fucked quite a bit, but on average I get some 5-6 loads every time. Sometimes more, sometimes less. To put it in perspective, I get fucked some 10-15 times every time I go to a sex club where I tend to stay about 3-4 hours max. And so I think getting 5-6 loads per visit, it's quite good actually considering that not all tops want to unload right away and there is always more than just one bottom 🙂

I am a gay man and aware that, traditionally, bottoms have been viewed with a lesser admiration and respect. However, in my case, when I bottom I feel equally masculine and comfortable with the guy fucking me. Playing a more submissive role does not imply me feeling less masculine or manly. The top is fucking me because I let them fuck me, not because he'd be 'superior' or more masculine. Any top who crosses the line of respect and fun play (including BDSM, rough play, etc.), and who thinks I am less masculine will see himself thrown out with blue balls. I love getting fucked, absolutely. And I feel comfortable and masculine. Whilst I do acknowledge that some men are into degradation and extreme submissiveness, or role playing, or getting their high from being called names, spat on, and so on, I do see it as a mutual exchange of expectations. When I top (it does happen as well!), I always treat my bottoms with respect, dignity and make sure they feel desired. After all, why would I stick my cock in someone's arse if i don't feel the desire to do so? So to the tops who assume that bottoms are less, boy, I got news for you: It is the bottom who lets you feed them. so consider yourself lucky that you have been chosen. Even as a cum dump, when someone crosses a certain threshold of respect, I get up and move on. Role play, consented verbal abuse, consented degradation and BDSM, is one thing. Crossing into disrespectful abuse is not fun for me.

OP said: "I have never really cared". I assume this relates to an anonymous encounter where the bottom is there to be bred. Getting the load is good enough for the bottom. I see no obligation for the top to stick around, unless there is a personal connection. OP said: "Lately, i got into a conversation with another top and he always makes sure his bottoms cum. I thought it was dumb..." I believe the context matters here, so maybe there is a misinterpretation of where the sex takes place and under what circumstances. If the person who says that he makes sure that his bottoms cum was referring to a 1-1 encounter, personal, more intimate, then I don't find it "dumb" per se. But then it's also the bottom who may want to signal that he's ready to cum, so sticking around is the nice thing to do. If the bottom is happy with just the load, then I don't see the reason for the top to stick around and make sure the bottom cums. Since most of the encounters and breeding on this site involves insatiable bottoms (myself included), I don't see a need for the top to make sure the bottom cums. Unless there is some sort of fetish, once the top unloads, the two should part ways with no further expectations.

Indeed, the fuck culture amongst gay men has changed dramatically over the last 10 years. And it's a good thing... I think! And true, that there is still a lot of education to be had even amongst gay men. PrEP will only almost eliminate the risk of HIV transmission, but not other STD's. However, even before HIV era, men were having bareback sex and syphilis, gono, chlam, and all the others were still present. The thing is that with a little bit of effort all these other illnesses can be treated. A penicillin shot here and there, one or two pills for others, and we're good as new. Of course, for many having to disclose these illnesses means that we somehow have to admit to promiscuity. But let me ask a question? Who the fuck cares what the doctor or the nurse says? When a doctor tries to gives me a sermon about promiscuous lifestyle I tell them in no uncertain terms that my illness keeps them in business and to thank me for billing the system. Without me, their new car, the new carpet or new phone would be so much more difficult to buy. So that's that. I am not diminishing the discomfort or the complications these illnesses come with. But, let's not live our lives in fear. However, I don't live in US where the medical setup favours the rich, so I admit that insurance costs complicate things. At any rate, PrEP did change the gay sex culture and I am happy that we're coming to a point where new infections are coming down, and people are having more uninhibited fun.

On the rare occasions when I top I always tell the bottom that I am poz, toxic, not on meds, and I don't pull out when i cum. If he says yes, ok, go ahead, then he gets the full meal deal. If he doesn't want or if he's hesitant, i don't fuck him. Even in a dark room, I let them know from the beginning. I have been told no, many times. But I got the go ahead many other times. usually 3 in 10 will refuse me. the others.... you get the picture!

Any top who can get his cock hard enough to push it in my hole is my type.