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Discussion on Racism and Fetishizing from Spun BBC Worship
taye replied to ellentonboy's topic in General Discussion
Im actually Black unlike most other responders. It is racist and offensive. A big turn off from strangers. For me, its fake respect and fake admiration. There's race play but that's consensual. There is nothing sexy about being reminded by strangers that you are discriminated against where it jeopardizes your life and quality of life. And then have someone who has no idea what's like to reduce you to a body part to be used while dismissing your struggle, that it's rooted in white supremacy or the fight for your very humanity.. Its not worship, it's a dismissive fantasy and discrimination. No one calls latinos "brown dick" or asians "yellow dick" or indigenous people "red dick". But its okay in porn or sexual fantasy to do it to Black men?? Check out Race Cooper, sex worker and now activist, he has a whole podcast about it. Most people reading here wont respect or dismiss this insight provided but then its not for you. Its for the people who genuinely care, are curious and respect their fellow human...even when fantasizing. Consent is sexy. Even consenting to be used. Peace.- 41 replies
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fuck yeah....this is awesome. more please.
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Yep, lockers or coatcheck in both places. Folsom Gulch (SOMA)/ Nob Hill Theatre (Union Square) both sell poppers/lube. Eros is on market street (main street for SF) easy access to transit/cabs/etc. Eros seems your best bet for sex/showers, location and timing wise. Check their website for times. Again, steamworks is perfect for what you are looking for but yes it's very out of the way. With no traffic, it's 15min car ride from downtown SF but traffiic/slow traffic varies throughout the day/week. So if you are pressed for time, I wouldn't risk it. Best of luck, enjoy the city.
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I live in Nob Hill (downtown SF). Went to Berkeley on Friday. It is EXACTLY a 15-20 min car ride. Google it.
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In SF, there really aren't any real "bathhouses" due to an old ordinances. They are mostly sex clubs. There is eros which is the most like a bathhouse (ie sauna, steamroom, towel dresscode, etc) but it does not have private rooms nor do they have an area to douche. The facility that best fits the traditional bathhouse definition would be Steamworks in Berkeley. Which is a 15min car ride from the city or you can take BART or a cab but traffic can be unpredictable and the cab ride could be around 40 dollars or more. They sexclubs are the Brig and Blowbuddies. That's pretty much it. There are the arcades w/gloryholes but again no bathrooms. Best of luck. Unfortunately, compared to Toronto, Montreal, Chicago, or even LA. San Francisco is pretty limited with the traditional sex venues. However, they are SERIOUSLY liberal with cruisey backrooms and play night at certain bars (Powerhouse (any night), Truck (Tuesday nights), and sometimes the Eagle (special Saturdays). I have seen guys getting fucked bareback and it at these venues and it's not an uncommon sight. Also, it's a pretty gender segregated town. Normally, if chicks are around the dicks stay down. However, try PowerExchange (different from Powerhouse) which is VERY trans and sometimes bi. Have fun.
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[iBLASTinside] Taking Suggestions for My Next Bay Area Trip
taye replied to Feeder's topic in Bareback Bloggers
Mark, LOL. Again, you are presenting half a story. Knowing that I'll probably get trashed on your blog (hopefully not. LOL), I just wanted to clarify and present the other side of the story. Here is my original email: "To: iblastinside Subject: hot... i usually don't take it but i want your load... Date: Mon 19 Dec 2011 11:04 PM you planning on cumming up to sf? dudes in sf usually don't travel. they are very lazy. but i'll come get your load unless you're coming to the city. let me know." So a response that would have gotten you laid would have gone like this: "No, I don't plan on cumming to SF. So come to San Jose " And I would have driven to San Jose. No "dozen questions" (other than to get time and place) and no "trying to convince you to come to the city". I'm chalking up the experience to miscommunication/misunderstanding knowing that you deal with a number of flakes but it was a bona-fide boning offer. So, with that in mind, maybe there might have been other bona-fide offers thrown in with the flakey ones that you discarded like you did mine. That's all I am saying. So as far as advice (that you solicited via your blog) on what to do next time: it might help to reply to offers before dismissing them knowing some just aren't going to work out but know that for sure before assuming or jumping to conclusions. No harm, no foul. Still a fan and still want your load. LOL! (Somewhat)Humbly, Taye P.S. The description of "my hot, beautiful ass" is due to the compliments I have received from others and thank you for thinking I was somewhat attractive from a distance (i think) LOL. Best of luck to you next time in the Bay.