pozpig

Well put! There is a time and a place for safe sex.....a predominantly bareback party, especially one that is advertised and promoted as such is not one of those places. 

As for the other times and places, I couldn't answer that personally since there is never a good time to involve a condom unless it's finding one full of spunk to play with. 

I agree that having a signed risk consent would be ideal and should be enough evidence to eliminate full responsibility of the infected party. Unfortunately it's been my understanding that such documents, even those that are legally notarized are not binding and not admissible as evidence should it come to that. That is the aspect that I find to be wrong and unjust for those who truly do want to chase and why there are a far greater number of guys going out to anonymously stealth. I personally do "screen" guys who want me to infect them, always leaving the initial meeting to meeting ONLY with the clear understanding I only wish to meet and no sex or gifting will take place until later meetings. I can usually determine if the guy is genuine or just masturbating to the fantasy. Unfortunately thus far it has resulted in no one continuing on a second meeting. Not that I choose, but that I am very forthcoming that it's just a meeting to find out about the guy and subsequent meetings will likely involve my attempt to fulfill their desire. It's amazing how many calls and texts suddenly go unanswered or even better, they're suddenly too busy or unavailable all the time. I think my personal experience goes to show that most guys are just talk and little or no action. 

It's really not just limited to HIV status and disclosure. I just think too many people want to pass blame to others and not take personal responsibility for their own actions. In that aspect it pisses me off that criminal charges can be brought against one person and the other gets off with a hug and "I'm so sorry this happened to you" bullshit rather than "WTF were you thinking? why didn't you do something to protect yourself, it's just as much your fault". I would imagine if we were in an era where personal responsibility were more common then we wouldn't have laws criminalizing just one side while letting the "victim" hold all the cards. One other aspect that I certainly don't agree with is consent revocation after the fact. I have come to understand that although one might consent at the time, a changed mind later can bring about charges. In that event I think documents, texts, emails, etc should be allowed as evidence of consent which I have understood are not. 

I think guys will be much less likely to hide their status now. More importantly there will almost certainly be less hiding. I will admit though that the stigma surrounding HIV status is well and truly still present and it floors me to hear guys tell me how it can be caught. Truly frightening that guys still think what they heard in the 80's is still true. I will admit that I'm a "bad boy" and don't disclose when I cruise the park and out of the many guys I've played with recently, only one guy came right out and asked my status which I answered truthfully without detail. All it took was him hearing I was poz to turn tail which tells me he obviously isn't aware that undetectable is more or less uninfectious. 

I choose to live my life poz and toxic and disclose to those who ask. I believe in shared responsibility in that I am responsible for my own actions just as anyone else is responsible for theirs. If a bottom doesn't ask, and doesn't take personal precautions, they deserve anything they get. Unfortunately the law as it stands today and possibly even after Jan. 1st, sees me as the offending party and the other guy as an innocent victim. 

I didn't say you couldn't have it.  

But the difference for me is that you DO want it. Stealthing someone who doesn't is where I have issue, especially since the stealther doesn't know if the guy they're trying to gift has other plans on when/how/who they get it from. On that same note however if the intended giftee has such plans, they shouldn't be going out and playing with others. 

Just remember......there is a fair bit of truth to most stories and there are plenty of stories of guys taking advantage of the pizza boy.  

Look at pizza delivery. Damn good money! Most of the drivers where I work bring in $30+/hr in tips and wages. As long as your car is street legal, insured, etc. you should be ok. Some places require commercial insurance which is a little more than standard insurance but with the tip income, you can easily make up the difference and still come out ahead. 

I actually did google it. Apparently this all happened about a month ago and the new law goes into effect 1-1-18. It still carries potential jail time but up to 6 months rather than the previous 8 years. As for encouraging stealthing, it would seem that was the primary argument on the right side of the aisle.  

I'm glad to see that we're starting to see how HIV isn't the long term danger it once was seen as. 

WOW, this is for CA?! Sounds great. When does it go into effect? 

You should have no problems finding guys to breed you at slammer. Fresh meat usually attracts quite a few guys. I'd suggest during the week rather than weekends as there tends to be more action and less guys just wanting to watch. 

Thanks. 

I'm actually almost 100% bottom, very rare that I top.

Bit far from me. Complete opposite side of the US actually. I'm in central CA. 

Thanks. Perhaps put a general location. One never knows when a gifter will find their way into your area and it would be a shame to miss out if you really want to get pozzed.