curiousone

I thought you were exclusively a top...what a shame...100% tops are going extinct. =/

We are in the same boat. And yes there are things you can do to help. Basically, judging from your post we are having the same experience. For me it's not the width that's the issue, in fact some guys have stretched me so large without an ounce of pain I'm surprised, it's the length. Anything above 7 inches, I'm just unable to take. A guy who pushes all the way in hits this "wall" that causes extreme pain, I have tried to bite a pillow, endure the pain but it ends up becoming way too much to endure. As another poster said, you have to realize that everyone's body is built differently but also realize that the body is ever changing just like you can build a muscle overtime. Do many squats, trust me this helps. I did a lot of research on bottoms who had this issue and I found something like squats stretches a certain part of the body in the process that improves that area inside your body over time. The next thing is work from a small dildo. I have an 6-8 incher that I just sit on for about 30 minutes a day. This definitely helps, at first you're going to feel extreme pain but overtime it will lesson. It won't be right away so don't expect immediate results, it took me a while before I could move one size up. Eventually, you'll be able to go from sitting, to riding, to fucking yourself with the toy with not even the slightest pain. Now in the meantime, when taking long cocks it helps if you're on your stomach. That is the only position that was doable with me for a while. Something about the alignment of your body makes it so the cock slides ride in without the wall being in the way. Positions like doggy would hurt, and missionary was a bitch to deal with, that one would always be the most painful. On another note, please don't try to force something in that's too long. I had read some of the wrong knowledge one time that I should just "take a long cock and get used to it" so I did and I ended up in the hospital. You want to adjust your body not shock it. Small increments of lessening the pain, don't try to shove anything and if you feel uncomfortable try something else. Also, remember dicks are dicks and they all need attention. Don't be a size queen. I love a smaller dick as much as I love a bigger dick.

I'm 22 I bareback and I bottom...bottoms and versatile guys don't turn me on. The only guys I have sex with are alpha dominant tops. Although people don't think there's a difference there is. Personality wise and mannerisms, no matter how much a versatile guy may think he's dominant he'll never be as alpha male as a top as a versatile guy will always submit at some point to another man. At the end of the day a true top will bend over for NO man and that's what separates an alpha male from a regular male.

I'm almost always fucked on my stomach on the bed.. I specifically look for tops who enjoy this position the most for many reasons. Primarily, because I can accommodate almost all sizes versus other positions will hurt me when taking a larger cock. I don't really feel the load, but my favorite part is when the top is cumming. If I'm on my stomach I'm able to feel every vibration of the top's body, versus other positions won't give you that. A lot of people here just mentioned the cock pulsing, but it's not just that, the top's leg shake and tense up and although I'm not a fan of hurtful pain, I do enjoy that few seconds when the top is pumping his load into me that he pins me down and pushes his cock in as deep as it goes. Yes, it usually hurts, sometimes pretty painful but I definitely enjoy this part. I don't think any tops do this intentionally I just think it's the natural response to coming. I love feeling the legs suddenly pin me down and the hips thrust hard into my butt. From there it's grunts, and sighs of relief mixed with heavy panting. Then what I love is when a top thrusts hard causing me some pain deep inside, then the heavy sighing and then they just collapse on my back with their dick still inside. Their hot heavy breathing and their sweaty torso is on my back. I have had a few tops just fall asleep like this right on top of me and I definitely don't mind.

What are your other lawsuits about?

Prefer cut. Wouldn't mind either but prefer cut.

22 years old...I used to be a condom nazi...I would even scold friends for not using protection. If any guy didn't have "safe only" listed in their profile it was a no... Over a year ago I got my first Android phone and downloaded Grindr...I was extremely horny one night and a very attractive guy messaged me at 1am...He was a block away from my house and I didn't drive at the time so the fact that he was close, hot, and a complete top was an offer I couldn't refuse. I asked him if he was clean and he said yes but he didn't have any condoms. I told him I would bring some and brought three. When I met up with him he was extremely dominant, a quality I look for in tops. He was pretty good at foreplay and walked me around the block for about 15 minutes, he would rub and grab my ass as he was talking to me, kiss me on the neck, tell me how good looking I was. Basically he was hitting all the right buttons and I was going into extreme heat. We walked a little more and he led me to his garage. He began kissing me, rubbing my ass and he told me to get down on all fours and I did. He pulled down my shorts and jockstrap with such an aggressiveness my hole was throbbing. Then he put his 8" inch thick cock in. I took a whiff of poppers and let him go to town, it hurt a little because I hadn't been fucked in a very long time but it was an odd mix of pleasure and pain. About half way through the it occurred to me that he wasn't wearing a rubber. But every time I debated whether or not to stop and make him wear protection his next thrust would interrupt my thoughts into a sharp division of pain and pleasure doused in a high of poppers. I was trying to gather myself and make a decision to make him put on a condom but it was already too late as he had busted inside me. It was one of the biggest shocks of pleasure and surprise I've ever had. The way he climaxed was as if the weight of the world had been taken off his shoulders. I'm not sure how long I was on the ground for but I was still in shock. I had just had bareback sex...something I have NEVER done and would NEVER do. He noticed I was still on the ground on all fours and told me to stand up and pull my shorts up. He had me walk home with him and slapped me on the ass a couple times. He let me know I had a great hole and told me that he shot the cum pretty far inside then kissed me and went inside. I was a little quiet because of the shock but something just felt "right". On my way home a little bit of the cum began dripping down my leg, when I felt my hole there was a little bit of cum around it. Having his load felt fantastic. After that experience I began barebacking pretty much nonstop and noticed a difference in the tops who fuck me. I'm a big fan of a loud cummer. I love the grunt and tugs a top gives right before he's about to cum, then when he unloads in my ass I don't care if he screams at the top of his lungs. It lets me know my ass gave him the pleasure of a lifetime.

Met a guy on Adam4Adam and began chatting with him I'm 22 he's 45. Had chatted him up for a year now was just too nervous...But a few nights ago I got so horny I decided to hookup with him. We didn't have anything planned. The night was supposed to be movies, kissing, then cuddling we agreed on that. We smoked me up, he handed me a few beers then crawled into bed with me as we watched a few episodes of family guy. I began to rub his leg and play with his feet, part of the cuddling. I gradually moved up his leg more and more...I could feel a warm and growing "lump" and began to massage near it. I put my head over his crotch area which was under the covers while still pressing my fingers nearby. My hand was under the covers my head was over...After a few minutes he got and closed the door to his room, he turned down the TV, climbed on the bed and pulled my briefs down. I was quite uncomfortable but he told me lay down on my stomach. I did such and he began to rim me, so well that I almost came. He ate my ass out extremely well, best I've ever been rimmed. It went on for while and my hole was wet and throbbing. He spit on my ass, used no lube, and began to mount me. I was tight as hell but he kept pushing in. It took a while but we both gasped when he did the big "slide" balls deep. Then he began to fuck me...He began to ask for me to back my ass up on his dick which was a little hard since I was so tight. Eventually, I began to open up and he picked up the momentum. It was about 20 minutes or so of deep sliding that he finally shot his load in me. He said it was great boy pussy and he hadn't fucked a hole in months. I slept over and he fucked my hole again the next morning. This time I was much more open.

My two cents. 22 years old...I used to be a condom nazi...I would even scold friends for not using protection. If any guy didn't have "safe only" listed in their profile it was a no... Over a year ago I got my first Android phone and downloaded Grindr...I was extremely horny one night and a very attractive guy messaged me at 1am...He was a block away from my house and I didn't drive at the time so the fact that he was close, hot, and a complete top was an offer I couldn't refuse. I asked him if he was clean and he said yes but he didn't have any condoms. I told him I would bring some and brought three. When I met up with him he was extremely dominant, a quality I look for in tops. He was pretty good at foreplay and walked me around the block for about 15 minutes, he would rub and grab my ass as he was talking to me, kiss me on the neck, tell me how good looking I was. Basically he was hitting all the right buttons and I was going into extreme heat. We walked a little more and he led me to his garage. He began kissing me, rubbing my ass and he told me to get down on all fours and I did. He pulled down my shorts and jockstrap with such an aggressiveness my hole was throbbing. Then he put his 8" inch thick cock in. I took a whiff of poppers and let him go to town, it hurt a little because I hadn't been fucked in a very long time but it was an odd mix of pleasure and pain. About half way through the it occurred to me that he wasn't wearing a rubber. But every time I debated whether or not to stop and make him wear protection his next thrust would interrupt my thoughts into a sharp division of pain and pleasure doused in a high of poppers. I was trying to gather myself and make a decision and then he busted inside me. It was one of the biggest shocks of pleasure and surprise I've ever had. The way he climaxed was as if the weight of the world had been taken off his shoulders. I'm not sure how long I was on the ground for but I was still in shock. I had just had bareback sex...something I have NEVER done and would NEVER do. He noticed I was still on the ground on all fours and told me to stand up and pull my shorts up. He had me walk home with him and slapped me on the ass a couple times. He let me know I had a great hole and told me that he shot the cum pretty far inside then kissed me and went inside. I was a little quiet because of the shock but something just felt "right". On my way home a little bit of the cum began dripping down my leg, when I felt my hole there was a little bit of cum around it. Having his load felt fantastic. After that experience I began barebacking pretty much nonstop and noticed a difference in the tops who fuck me. I'm a big fan of a loud cummer. I love the grunt and tugs a top gives right before he's about to cum, then when he unloads in my ass I don't care if he screams at the top of his lungs. It lets me know my ass gave him the pleasure of a lifetime. I've been tested. I'm negative, prefer to stay that way. But I continue to bareback. I see a noticeable difference in raw sex with tops. There's a bigger climax, and most tend to get a bit more "wild" because it feels so good to them. I'm not saying I haven't had good sex with condoms. But man...the tops face and screams when he unloads bareback into my ass is something I love to see. It's hard though. Like another poster said it's like playing "Russian Roulette". I try to screen my tops as much as possible by asking questions. Are you clean? When's the last time you were tested? How many sexual partners do you have? But as other posters have said. Some people lie, and some people just don't know. I'm sure there are people out there who believe they're 100% clean but in fact they have an STD. I realize some people just don't get tested and say they're clean just because everyone else they've been with has been "clean". In my venture into these types of forums and sites I have come across POZ Tops who have stories of how they have stealthed neg bottoms which can be a little scary. On the bright side most of these POZ Tops only stealth the bottom if the bottom doesn't ask their status. I am still very afraid of the few tops there are who as another poster said. Will just tell you what you want to hear. There are HIV POZ people who will lie to you intentionally although I'm sure there aren't many of these. For now, I continue to bareback. Safe sex isn't out of the question. If a top wants to throw on a condom who am I to stop him...But I do offer up my hole raw.