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Dang -- you men are so far ahead of me! No wonder I'm rock hard all of the time!

YTD -- I've given about 50 loads, received about 12, plus about a dozen oral given and received.

One of the sweetest guy's I've ever bottomed for was a married guy I met on ManHunt. He would fly into town several times each year, rent a hotel and invite me over. He wanted to see a recent NEG test result the first time (as he refused to use rubbers) - that first time he also asked me to lay on my stomach and he fucked me while kissing and licking my neck and ears. After he came inside me, he sucked me (shocker!) saying it was only fair if I got off too. Then I left. Over a couple of years he became more romantic and playful with his lovemaking -- I imagine he had boys like me in all of the cities he traveled to and he had sex with us just like he did his wife back home... sweetly, respectfully, quietly, controlled, but always raw, hot!

It takes a really hung top to make me cum "hands-free" (10+ inches), but I've been training my nipples (http://nipplepigs.tumblr.com/post/98377832860/how-to-make-your-nipples-hardwired) for the last year and they're beginning to truly be hardwired -- I can't cum from nipple work yet, but I can cum from GOOD nipple work and an average size cock working my hole.

3 years since my original post here -- and while I've been topping more and more since then, I become a submissive cock/cum whore in the presence of a sexy, hung and confident black man. I enjoy sex with all races, but no one (yet) has been able to make my arse a hungry, quivering, 'cum-without-touching-my-dick' man pussy like the black men I've been fortunate enough to be with... They tease, finger, eat, work, fuck, breed (I've never had one ask for a rubber) in a way that leaves me fully satisfied, but still wanting more.  Thank goodness my husband understands and occasionally likes to watch or participate!   Anyone else had the same experience? And, If you're a sexy, hung, black man traveling to ATL hit me up!

I prefer bottoms either completely naked or in a jock strap -- and tops in harnesses (symbol of power/authority).

Just had this discussion with a pal and am curious about what others think -- I tend to think of anything less than penile penetration and the exchange of body fluids as 'sexual' but not really SEX, and therefore things like sucking, jacking, maybe FF probably doesn't constitute as 'cheating' on your partner unless there's some emotional connection -- assuming you happen to be in an exclusive situation. My pal on the other hand disagrees and says any sexual contact equals sex and would be cheating. Since I'm in an open relationship, I may not be the best judge here, so what do you men think? What do you consider infidelity or cheating? thanks in advance and happy fucking!

I would suggest starting slow -- pals, friends of friends, fuck buddies and their contacts -- you'll know when it's right branch out (think desire vs. compulsion)

I think this is HOT when it happens w/ a guys cock, but not so much w/ toys, etc... I had this happen naturally when an 11 1/2 black stud fucked 4 loads into me one night a few years ago...amazing experience, but a lot of work to adjust to that big boy!

Great post - I find that edging and holding out for real sex/breeding indeed makes me a much better vers/top!

I enjoy being rimmed and rimming immensely (even own a rim chair), but its not something I do on a first hook-up. But for my trusted pals, partner and boyfriend I totally feasting on their fresh clean and cum-filled holes!

As noted elsewhere, I prefer 7+ when I bottom and have had several 10" pals over the years -- one was 11 thick inches and that one took a lot of work, but was always worth it. Interestingly, I have a buddy with 9.5"  and he will ONLY get fucked by guys with average to smaller dicks.

Ran across this article and thought you might be interested -- http://www.pride.com/gay/2015/11/19/10-reasons-every-gay-man-should-try-throuple-once

We've all been disappointed in this area, but I can tell you that my dick is directly tied to my level of attraction/connection. It doesn't get rock hard for just any hole, which is why pump & dump doesn't really work well for me. I'd rather have a chat, share a drink, make out a bit, talk dirty and let the desire to fuck grow. We're not fuck machines, we're social beings and sexual attraction can be complex --in my experience a bit of playfulness and extra understanding under pressure leads to a hotter fuck (not to mention repeat fucks!

I prefer to top first -- get sucked, fuck a couple of holes, then after I breed I switch to bottom mode for a while.

I've been paying attention to this lately and discovered that I can indeed feel a top's cock spasm AND his load filling my arse if 1) he has a big load and 2) if we've used no lube, spit only or cum/spit for lube -- i do not feel the sensation of being filled with cum if my hole is filled with gun oil or Uberlube (my favorites)

I enjoy fucking in lots of positions, but when it's breeding time I really enjoy sitting or laying back and letting my bottom guy ride me to the point of no return -- I can make out with him while he shows me how much he wants my cum and enjoy his expressions as he gets filled up with premium baby batter.

I've had 4" to 11" dicks inside my arse and honestly the larger ones -- 8+ seem to feel better because they stretch me open good AND maintain constant contact w/ the prostate. Myself and my two lovers all have roughly 7" cocks, and while the sex is hot and satisfying emotionally and physically, when I'm cruising for a hookup on BBRT or in person my preference is larger. I'm also a fan of interracial sex and BBC --the last 9" one to fuck me had me literally cumming without ever touching my dick. My black and latin pals just seem to be INTO arse -- love to eat it, finger it, work it, and of course fuck/breed it -- that makes for damn good sex!

I consider all oral foreplay, and while enjoyable, not the main event. Deep in-ass breeding is the most satisfying whether I'm giving or receiving. Orgasm outside of penetration is essentially masterbation.

Most of my top pals tell me they want my hole to be fresh, as they want to be the first to load me up on any given evening. However, I prefer for my bottom guys to be pre-loaded...Nothing hotter than tasting a strangers load from his arse and using it as lube!

Bag Balm --you can pick it up at Target or Amazon -- works great!

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Hands-Free Orgasm

It happened again (finally). I met a guy on BBRT last night. He came over and gave me a great massage, then we made out while he worked my hole with his fingers and mouth for half an hour. He was very much in charge and kept everything moving very slowly. When he finally penetrated me with his very thick 9" black cock, there was no pain or resistance, pure pleasure! He gently rocked back and forth for another 20 minutes as we kissed and lightly licked and fingered each others nipples. He then stood and put my feet around his neck (my dick rock hard and between my legs and his chest--- lightly touching his chest as he moved in and out of me) -- about 2 minutes later I felt the orgasm building and I couldn't believe it (had only happened once before with another black stud with 10") . The next thing I knew, I started spewing cum all over both of us. He laughed out loud and began plowing me hard and deep so that he began breeding me by the time I'd shot 8 or more ropes of cum. 12 hours later, I'm still completely satisfied! Definitely something about those big dicked men who know how to work a man's hole!

I had my first experience getting my fist into my ex (we're still friends with good benefits) back in October.  It was incredible to see my wrist at his pussy, and it was even more incredible to listen to the guttural sounds that came from him as I gently pushed into his pussy.  He was dripping in sweat, and just buried my face into his pussy for the next few minutes to show reward him for letting me do that to him. 

bbbearlover1 -- I've only made it to 4 fingers so far, would luv for you to be the first to FF me   you're smoking hot!

luv it -- and personally never met a black man who used a condom (but I've only been fucked by 15 or so)

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